has a magnetic voice, sharp speech, and sharp comments. Audiences who have watched programs such as "Defensive Love", " is none other than you are ", almost no who is not impressed by his charm. He is known for his {cold face and poisonous tongue} and is known as China's chief emotional mentor, but everyone's good life is hard-won, and so is , Tu Lei, and . He has also experienced the moment when he fell into the bottom, from the troubled youth to the dark horse on the radio, to the well-known emotional mentor now, what has he experienced?
On June 10, 1977, Tu Lei was born in Nanchang, Jiangxi. His childhood was not happy, and his mother suffered from rheumatoid disease. When Tu Lei was a toddler, his mother was already paralyzed in bed. Because of the illness all the year round, the mother's temper became irritable, and she often quarreled with her father because of family trivial matters. In Tu Lei's memory, parental quarrels were normal, but he was too young at the time and didn't know how to resolve the conflicts between his parents.
At that time, many people persuaded Tu Lei’s father and his mother to divorce, but his father waved his hand every time and said, "How can she live if she left me". The relationship between the two was not affected. His attitude towards his wife has been like a day for decades, taking care of him carefully and trying his best to be tolerant. Under the influence of his father, Tu Lei has also grown into a responsible and responsible man.
He has always regarded his father as a role model and is full of gratitude and respect for his father. In 1996, Tu Lei was admitted to Jiangxi University of Science and Technology computer major. Four years after graduating, he joined Jiangxi Industrial and Commercial Bank of China to work in computers, and he had an iron rice bowl that everyone envied. But his character is not content with the status quo, but he wants to go to the sea to do business.
So after that, Tu Lei did sales and management work again, and later co-founded a touch system company, which can be regarded as a professional counterpart. It's just that the company has just gotten better, and it's in trouble. In his words, it's suffering from a traditional family business disease. Tu Lei, who has a real personality, doesn't like perfunctory and deceitfulness, really can't understand the manners of some people in the company, and opted out in a fit of anger, intending to go it alone.
at this time, he suffered another misfortune, was defrauded of 500,000 yuan, you know that was all his belongings at the time. He felt that he had fallen into an abyss all at once. The discouraged Tu Lei decided to hand the future choice to fate. He threw a dice on the map of China. He went wherever the dice fell, and started again. In the end, the responsible dice fell on Hunan.
So Tu Lei packed up and went to Hunan to work hard. At that time, he only had 1,000 yuan. In order to save money, when he first arrived in Hunan, he only ate instant noodles and two cents old noodle buns. When he was destitute, he encountered the "Voice of Star Sand". At that time, the Voice of Star Sands of , the Changsha Radio and Television Station, was recruiting a host. Tu Lei signed up with the confidence that he was not afraid of tigers when he was a newborn calf, but he didn't expect that he was successfully admitted, who had no experience in hosting.
From then on, the radio host opened the door to a new world for Tu Lei. In 2004, the show "Lushan Night Talks" hosted by him received rave reviews in the first issue. During the show, many listeners called in and praised Tu Lei's good voice and sharp speech. Later, Tu Lei was given the opportunity to host a new show. This "True Love Meeting Room" is an evening talk show. Less than a month after the broadcast, the listening rate ranked first in the local area. No one thought that Tu Lei, who had never learned to host a broadcaster, would become a dark horse in the radio station. As the fame gradually increased, Tu Lei's invitations also increased.
Beginning in 2006, he moved to the small screen and hosted the evening legal program "Fangyuan Investigation" and the talk show "Never Spit Not Happily". There is also a current affairs commentary program "Extreme Observation" at seven o'clock. These programs have achieved good ratings, but it is the emotional programs that really make Tu Lei shine.
In 2010, he hosted the blind date show " love car " tried by Changsha Zhifengdao. Relying on the alternative talk show hosting method, it attracted many audiences. Tu Lei, who has stepped into the realm of emotions, also gradually realized that this is his own piece of world. From 2013 to 2014, he successively presided over "Love Lianliankan", " Emotional Referee ", " Perfect Confession ", "Love Defends" four emotional programs.
Among them, what made Tu Lei famous overnight was the "Defensive of Love" broadcast by Tianjin Satellite TV . In this show, Tu Lei's identity is not the host, but the emotional mentor. Sitting on the observation platform, he made sharp comments on the various forms of sentient beings on the stage, and gave suggestions on current ills.
During this period, many things that Tu Lei said were regarded as golden sentences by the audience. For example, "Listen to a man, don't listen to what he said, listen to what he didn't say" "Love is about finding what you want, not just giving what you want." Over time, Tu Lei's weight in the show Getting heavier.
Gradually, a large part of the audience watched the show to hear what kind of golden sentences Tu Lei said. He used sharp and brilliant language to sit on the throne of China's chief emotional commentator. But Tu Lei said that sharpness is not my original intention, and truth is my original intention. At this time, Tu Lei was no longer the one who had just arrived in Hunan. He didn't have to worry about his livelihood anymore, but he couldn't be happy anymore. Because a regret that could never be made up became a thorn in his heart.
When Tu Lei was 30 years old, his mother who had been paralyzed for many years died of a cerebral hemorrhage. At that time, Tu Lei was out of town, and there was no time to rush home, to meet his mother for the last time, and then say one last word. For a moment, he recalled that when he left home, his mother pushed the wheelchair to the door of the house and looked at him as he walked away with a reluctant look. As if still watching him hotly.
Originally he wanted to wait until he made a lot of money to take his mother to enjoy the blessing, but now he has money. This person who has infinite concern and reluctance for him is no longer alive. The greatest pity in the world is nothing more than this if the son wants to support but does not wait for the relatives. But Tu Lei was also lucky, because a girl named Xiaowanzi came to him instead of his mother and gave him love and warmth.
If success in a career is a man's face, then a happy marriage is a man's guilty. On the screen, Tu Lei's impression of the audience is serious, and sometimes even harsh, giving people a feeling that it is not easy to get close to. In fact, Tu Lei in private is a very gentle man, especially for his wife Xiao Maruko.
got married for 12 years. In her mind, his wife is a very considerate woman. Without her company, it would be difficult for him to survive the ups and downs of life over the years. Tasty but home-cooked food, knowing the cold and hot end of the season, his wife is his whole world. When I first started fighting for love, the program group paid an envelope with cash.
At that time, Tu Lei was not so famous and his salary was not high, but every time he paid his salary, he would take the envelope home as soon as possible and hand it to his wife with a sense of ceremony. And his wife Xiao Wanzi will hug him happily, saying, you have worked hard. Gradually, his popularity became higher and higher, he made more and more money, and his salary envelope became more and more popular.
One day, when he returned the envelope to his wife, Xiao Wanzi counted the money several times more than before, but suddenly burst into tears. Tu Lei asked his wife at a loss what was wrong, Xiao Maruko said. As I watched you make more and more money, I felt that your work was getting more and more tired, and the time we spent chatting together became less and less.
At that moment, Tu Lei realized that after he became famous, he was only paying attention to making money and spending too little time with his wife. How lonely should Xiaowanzi be when he is busy? Later, the two had a daughter, Cherry, and the couple agreed that when their daughter was five years old, Tu Lei would reduce his workload and return to the family.
But as her daughter grew up every day, she brought too much joy and touch to Tu Lei, Tu Lei began to feel that five years was too long. On the morning of April 9, 2020, Tu Lei posted a video on Weibo. In the video, he announced that he would leave "Defensive of Love" and no longer serve as an emotional mentor for the show, and sincerely thank the audience for supporting him along the way.
Tu Lei said that he suddenly had a lot of free time during the epidemicGet along with his wife and daughter. Let him realize that the busy time of the past ten years has neglected family life. So I decided to fulfill the five-year agreement with his wife Xiao Maruko ahead of time, reduce work, and return to the family. Once this news was released, it immediately attracted the attention of a broad audience.
They were full of emotions and left a message expressing their reluctance to withdraw from Tu Lei, but for the sake of his family, Tu Lei still left the stage where he had struggled for six years. But he used his experience to give those people, the power of those families will never disappear. After the aura faded, Tu Lei became a full-fledged daughter slave, often sharing the warm and interesting life with Xiao Maruko and Xiao Cherry on social platforms. He will spoof cartoons with his daughter, cats and mice, and use a straw to tease Tom Cat with the cartoons.
will carry her daughter on her shoulders and take her to climb the mountain to watch the sunset. At this time, Tu Lei was no longer the venomous host on the stage, nor was he a celebrity tutor in the eyes of everyone, but an ordinary father. Li Ka-shing once said that no matter how successful a person is in his career, he cannot make up for the regret of failing in educating his children. Tu Lei already had an irreparable regret, and he definitely didn't want to have one more.
