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"I Love You Anyway" won the Oscar for Best Animated Short Film Award . This animated short film does not have a single line in the whole process, but uses a gentle and silent way to tell about a family, between parents and children, and the wife A warm story with her husband.
The sweet relationship between a pair of lovers after they fell in love, and the happy life they nurtured the crystallization of love, or the tragedy after the loss of a young daughter. can show us a very delicate side through silent black-and-white animated short films, which may enable us to have a more in-depth thinking about the term "family". The opening story of
starts with
. At the beginning of the animation, a couple full of exhaustion sits at both ends of the dining table, and they are separated by a long distance. The dying withered flowers in the vase on the dining table and the dimly blurred background all silently told a tragic story. is full of repressive and dim story structure, laying a suspense and foundation for the story tone of the animated short film. As the closest lovers, they did not communicate during the whole process, but the black shadows derived from them were arguing silently, tit-for-tat, arguing endlessly, hiding a kind of storm we don't know. The story of
slowly unfolds, and we discover that there is a tragic past between the couple sitting like strangers. This animated short film seems to start from the indifference between the two husbands and wives, but it actually describes the relationship between lovers, parents and children, and families.
1. The love between lovers
There is no line throughout the animation, only one song runs through the whole story, "The pursuit of boys makes me tired of me, but your retention makes my heart fall." When the wife met her husband when she was young, she ignored the pursuits of other boys. She only felt that they were annoying, but she was tempted by her husband alone. In this way, the two fell in love and started a good life. They respected each other as guests and treated each other sincerely. Soon after, finally ushered in the crystallization of their love, a lovely girl. I originally thought that life was heading towards happiness and contentment. What made their close relationship so precarious, turned into two black shadows arguing?
The love between lovers is fragile and fragile, and strong and strong. It is difficult for us to measure the value of love with money, but any small factor may indirectly lead to the collapse of love and trust. Love is the inner resonance between two strangers. This resonance is an unparalleled heartbeat, and it also carries a kind of initial budding and sincerity. But we have no way of predicting the future direction of love. It may be sweet or disappointing.
2. The affection between parents and children
For a long time, children are known as the crystallization of parental love. Only when two people truly love each other can children be born in true love. Having a child as an adjustment in daily life will make the originally intimate love stronger, and the love on the cliff will become precarious. In other words, children are the glue of love and the catalyst for the collapse of love. In the
animation, the couple’s child died unfortunately, which caused a huge blow to the couple. There was also an opening scene of the animation. The couple ate silently at the table, with no words or expressions in their eyes. Communication, the dim background, silently suppresses everything. When the child was born, it brought them much happiness, and after the accidental death of the child, the shock to the parents was the same.
It is precisely because of the child's departure that this originally happy family has become shaky, which also reflects the love that parents can hardly give up to their children. Regardless of the child's future growth and appearance, she will always be a baby in the palm of the hand of a family.
Parents’ love is like this animated short film. It may be integrated in the song, or it may be silent, but it will last foreverIs there. This kind of family love will not diminish with the passage of time, but the feeling deeply embedded in the blood bond, which is unmatched by any feeling.
3. Getting along between families
A family includes three main roles, the first is the father, the second is the mother, and the third is the child. Above we said that the child is the maintenance of a family, or it may be the lead of the collapse of a family relationship. The feelings of parents for their children are just like the tear-jerking lyrics, "I wish we could live happily together". For the child, this must be her (his) own voice. The unfortunate death of a child led to the collapse of a family and even the collapse of the trust relationship between the husband and wife.
However, life is still going on. Instead of immersing in the grief of the past, it is better to entrust the children's thoughts and love to face the future life better.
Many people don't understand that Ruth still lives so happy after the death of Jack in "Titanic". Shouldn't Ruth be immersed in sadness? That's because Ruth knew that Jack's love and blessings were entrusted to her. Jack hopes that after she leaves, Ruth will not be immersed in the grief of losing herself. She hopes that she can welcome a better future, have a new life, and live in happiness.
Ruth, who is always blooming with a happy smile, is the Ruth that Jack loves so much. A person whom loves deeply is not to imprison the other's freedom and thoughts, nor to trap the other person by his side, but to hope that she (he) can have a happy future. Even if she lives out of her sight, even if she (he) does not exist by herself in the future, I hope she (he) can be happy and healthy. This is Jack's love for Ruth, and it is also the child's expectation and blessing for his parents in the animated short film.
There are many ways to express love. It may be blessing and letting go, but it is not selfish possession.
Any kind of love in the world contains two aspects: selfishness and selflessness, selfish enough to hope that the lover or child will always live under the wings of their own protection, selflessness is to hope that the other person will be happy and healthy in the future journey of life . "I Love You Anyway", as the name of this animated short film, contains not only the selfless love of parents for their children under any conditions, but also the blessing of a pair of lovers from love to marriage.
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