We have reached the age to say goodbye to many people, but many things are only understood afterwards.
Carefully reviewing those classic roles starring Zhang Shaohua , only to discover the philosophy of life inside, which teaches us the magic weapon to behave in the world, perhaps more brilliant than the movie itself. In "My Ugly Mother", she is the mother who can be wronged for the happiness of her son, and has hit the softest part of countless people's hearts. Her name is mother. In "The Great Mansion Gate", the mother who often talks about children's participation in school for a hundred years, let the audience see the power of faith, youths have aspirations, the nation has hope, and the country has power. She is not only the mother in the play, but also the mother of thousands of viewers on the screen. In "Wulin Story", the mother who wanted her son to quit gambling told us about the courage and courage of Zegang as a mother.
About family affection: learn to forgive the imperfections of parents, they are also the first parents to be a parent
During the time when the TV series "My Ugly Mother" was broadcast, many viewers seemed to have seen their mother: she always did her best Give her the best life to her children, she thought and did the same. Like the children of those years, because their parents’ occupations are not so glamorous, they are reluctant to mention their parents for fear of hurting their so-called face. Because of this background, there is a sad plot in the play. In order to fulfill his son's happiness, "Ugly Niang" prefers to pretend to be a nanny, and for the sake of his son's happiness, he asks his son to conceal his identity and hobble to buy food and cook. , Eating leftovers, but there is still hope for life, because the one she loves is by her side.
There is a narration in " please answer 1988" which says: "Occasionally I feel that my mother is very shameful. Why don't you even have the most basic self-esteem?" I think it's probably because, in her eyes, there is something more worthy of guarding. Something, that is her child. Time is to us, once a group of carefree children, running happily in the fields with blue water and blue sky, catching butterflies in the fields, and growing up in a blink of an eye to become youths chasing dreams. Time used to be hopeful parents, watching when we were croaking and toddlers, and waiting when we carried our schoolbags on our backs and headed into the distance, and then looking back, they were already vicissitudes of life, white hair and bent over...
, like a childhood memory. Grandma, always tinkering.
The sky is high and the earth is thick, we are humble, we are assigned by life, and we are properly settled by our parents, because those who care for those growing up time appear tender and meaningful. You should strive to pursue happiness and move forward peacefully in the noisy and rush, but don't forget to accept the imperfections of your parents, get along with them, and speak softly and clearly to them, to accompany and guard with your heart.
Regarding growth: There is only one shortcut in the world, and that is to be down-to-earth
In "Wulin Biography", Zhang Shaohua plays the mother of Li Dazui . Plot 1: Li Dazui and Bai Zhantang are addicted to gambling. In order to get them to quit gambling, Li Dazui’s mother accompanies them to gamble round after round at the dinner table. At the end of the gambling round, Bai Zhantang lost a lot of money Remorse and sadness. Broken Finger Xuanyuan smiled and said to them: "You always say that a small bet is a pleasure, and a big bet hurts you. I think that a bet is a bet. There is no big or small, because if you win, you want to win, and if you lose, you want to come back. If you have sex, you don’t care about anything. As long as you go to the gambling table, you don’t care about your gambling skills, your net worth, and you don’t want to lose your fortune if you don’t play. Therefore, if you call a long bet, you will lose!" Or maybe it's always the case. You always have to wait until you have nothing before you can wake up and feel heartbreaking. Some people can wrap their abdomen with steamed buns, some people roll up their sleeves to make a secret pot of Dongpo meat, some people only open their mouths when they see the delicacies of mountains and seas. However, the delicacies of mountains and seas are rare in life. People choose to compromise when they are hungry for a long time. But there are also people who can survive all the suffering alone, and they don't want to lose their appetite for a bite of pickles. There is no such thing as a pie in the sky, and there is no reap for nothing. The only thing that can be reaped for nothing is poverty. supports us in this world many timesIt is not only dreams and responsibilities to live, but perhaps the little bit of sweetness that you get through your down-to-earth efforts. The bees flying on seasonal flowers like that sweet are the coconut candy that you don’t want to eat after being melted in your purse.
Those who go to the last way: called the visible way.
About human life: contentment, happiness in time, happiness on your own
Live in the present and live up to your time. More than twenty years have passed in my life, what exactly do I need to live up to my life? Seeing the news of Lao Xigu's death, some people sighed that the so-called growth means growing and losing. The meaning of life may lie in living in the present, because wealth, fame and fortune cannot be taken away. There is a passage in the book "This Life Is Unfinished":
"You will find that any overtime, too much pressure on yourself, and the need to buy a car and house, are all clouds. If you have time,
should accompany your parents well. The money to buy a car, take your parents to travel, don’t try to change to a big house.
and the person you love, together, the dwelling is also warm."
Life is short like a white horse, but the mood is very long, such as the mountains and rivers. Continuously. We will eventually be ordinary people, and the ordinary touches the world. Just like Zhang Shaohua’s words in the play: "Be contented, have fun in time, have fun on your own." It is the most unique star on this earth. Thank you! That old opera bone who looks like a grandmother, I hope you will not be sick in heaven, and will accompany you in the spring to count the flowers blooming all the way!
