01.
March 24, around 4 am.
netizen MMAQL posted a video of passionate kiss between men and women on Weibo, and threatened:
"When you played with other people's feelings and bodies, you didn't expect to be hammered one day. This is called karma... Your passion reality show is available at any time. Of course, it depends on my mood, just like watching your mood play with others! Today’s video screenshots will not let you show up.”
Time changed, and it was the afternoon of the same day.
netizen MMAQL uploaded a video again. In the video, the actor's face is clearly visible.
It can also be confirmed from the name of the netizen on Weibo that the video actor is Yao Mingming, a former UNINE member. Not long after the video of
was released on Weibo, Yao Mingming publicly apologized:
"I have never contacted in five years. I didn't expect a relationship that happened in 2016 to be recorded like this...maybe it was my expression and handling of the relationship. Improper way, I don’t know that it has caused harm to the other party for so long. Now the dissemination of secretly filmed videos may cause more harm to girls. No matter what, I’m very sorry.”
I thought that this video incident would follow Yao Mingming’s public apology. The curtain fell.
But the fact is that after Yao Mingming apologized, netizen MMAQL continued to publish large-scale videos, and several times called a star to apologize:
"There is another hammer, but that is the person I really love for 5 years, and I can’t bear to hammer it. "He."
"If you weren't so unrelenting at the time, I wouldn't go to YMM."
"It's all because of you XYL, it's all because of you."
"..."
z0 The masses finally sorted out the ins and outs of the incident.
It turned out that this netizen really wanted to retaliate against someone else. The reason for exposing an intimate video with Yao Mingming was to make the real hero stand out.
has to say that this girl’s behavior is just like what Yao Mingming said: hurts the enemy 800, and hurts herself a thousand.
In reality, there are many girls who resemble this netizen.
They keep shouting and exposing them constantly, just to arouse the guilt and fear of the heartless people, so as to achieve the purpose of revenge against each other.
But is the result really as they want?
The harm they think can really hurt each other and keep themselves out of it?
The answer is obvious.
can't.
02.
Lu Xun once said:
"Only silence is the highest contempt." The
principle is simple, but not many people know it.
especially those women who are often trapped by love.
In the long and inescapable collapse, they have lost their minds and have long since abandoned the "silence".
I remembered last year, there was such a "eye-catching" news.
December 16, winter night.
On a street in Jingjiang, Jiangsu, a woman ran naked and took a selfie, attracting many onlookers to take pictures.
Afterwards, according to people familiar with the matter, the reason why the woman lost her mind and made an out-of-the-ordinary behavior could not escape one word: .
It turned out that the woman's fiance, during the time with the woman, not only spent her money, but also raised a "small third" outside, and even drove the woman's car away.
For this reason, the woman asked her fiance to let her see the "Little San".
Unexpectedly, the fiance refused.
So the woman threatened her fiance online by taking off her clothes and shooting a video, only to embarrass him.
...
After the "streaking incident" was exposed, netizens felt that the woman's behavior was worthless.
In the eyes of netizens, can retaliate against the scumbag, but the premise should not be based on hurting oneself.
After all, whether the scumbag will be injured is not certain.
But she herself must have been hurt.
also encountered a female doctor.
Female doctor is Gao, with high education and high salary. Before meeting her ex-boyfriend,
had a bright future waiting for her.
However, after meeting her ex-boyfriend, because she couldn't think about it once, these "lights" completely abandoned her.
Gao and his ex-boyfriend met through a colleague's introduction, and then fell in love for more than a year. What
did not expect was that a year later, the ex-boyfriend proposed to break up. The behavior of the ex-boyfriend of
made Gao feel insulted. At this time, she thought of revenge.
She began to spend money on the Internet to hire people to hurt her ex-boyfriend. During this period, she provided her ex-boyfriend's photos, frequent visits, living habits and other key information to ensure that her actions were foolproof.
But no matter how strict the secrets are, it will not escape Skynet's recovery.
In the end, Gao still paid a heavy price for her dementia's revenge.
The news report came out, and the comments were divergent.
"The girl's way of revenge on her boyfriend is wrong. You should live it out to show him that it is a good way to get revenge."
is convinced.
The best revenge is not how miserable you are.
but how good I am after leaving you.
03.
" rose teenager " has such a lyrics:
"The best revenge is beautiful, the most beautiful blooming is the counterattack." There is no doubt that
z2.
living beautifully is a woman's best counterattack.
Take the popular TV series "The Temptation of Wife" a few years ago. In
, the heroine Gu Eun-cai played by Zhang Ruixi, from a poor family, has a family of four and lives on the meager salary of her parents.
Because of this, she became like a motherGenerally, there is a bit of cowardice in the gentleness.
Originally, life should proceed step by step.
But everyone who has watched this TV show understands that all this is just the tranquility before the storm.
In Gu Eunjae's peaceful life, there have been two turning points that can be called changing fate.
For the first time, she decided to marry Zheng Qiaobin, a son of a rich family.
Gu Eunjae doesn't love Zheng Qiaobin, but because of an accident, Gu Eunjae and Zheng Qiaobin have an irresistible entanglement. In desperation, they can only choose to marry Zheng Qiaobin.
After marriage, Encai is as beautiful and kind as ever, and she does her best to take care of her husband and in-laws and do everything that a so-called "good wife" should do.
However, she has not been cherished by Zheng Qiaobin.
Since marrying Encai, Zheng Qiaobin has regarded her as a "decoration" in the family, ignoring her, and continuing to mess around with flowers and grass has become his daily routine.
Even Zheng Qiaobin transferred his love to Enjae’s good friend Shin Aili, and the two had an illegitimate child.
So there is a second turning point.
After the divorce, Gu Eunjae was pushed into the sea by Zheng Qiaobin.
Fortunately, destiny still favors her a little bit. Gu Euncai survived a catastrophe and returned with revenge.
She became Min Su Hee, learning to dance, draw, swim, etc., trying to improve herself and become a completely different person from the previous Gu Eun.
At this time, she is beautiful and attractive, no longer just a wife, but a wife full of temptations.
guided Zheng Qiaobin step by step, willingly fell into her gentle trap, and completed her revenge plan.
It is worth mentioning that at the end of the story, Gu Eun-cai, who completed the counterattack, forgave the people who had hurt her.
At that time, she realized that she, who has successfully transformed herself, is no longer at the same level as those people.
meaningless entanglement is not her purpose.
What Gu Encai has done tells us:
women should be like roses.
has a body of thorns, full of thorns that people can't hurt.
But the most important thing is to bloom beautiful beyond the thorns.
makes people unable to look straight, and never dare to slack off easily.
04.
Eason Chan sings like this in "Want to Cry":
"How can I cry when I want to cry? To complete my love journey, talking about the world is the most ideal way out. Talking about music is the most ideal way out. "
Before loving you, my biggest regret is your regret, which has something to do with me.
After I don't love you, my greatest relief is that everything you have is nothing to do with me.
Remember,
Don't try to retaliate against someone by hurting yourself.
Because you can really get revenge, only those who love you deeply.
People who don't love you are always invulnerable.
