A few days ago, the Tucao conference ended and invited "the ordinary young love genius" Xiao Yaxuan and her boyfriend. In addition to the title of "Queen of Heaven", Xiao Yaxuan also likes to call her "Fresh Meat Harvester". After all, no one can be young forever, but Xiao Yaxuan's boyfriend can.
Xiao Yaxuan, 40, and Huang Hao, who is 16 years younger than her, are full of CP feelings on the stage. The eye contact is like setting off small fireworks, blingbling and sweet.
netizens couldn’t help sighing, "Elva Hsiao’s happiness is really happy!" Although there is no chance to come to the scene in person in reality,
has experienced this kind of happiness in the latest TV series!
Song Qian (He Fanxing) and Song Weilong (Yuan and Song Dynasty), play a 10-year-old sibling couple in the play. The male protagonist will bang, pinch his face, or touch his head when he doesn't agree. Although the two of
actually have a 13-year-old age difference, it is very sweet that they fought each other in the play. This drama is not only the story of the love between sisters and brothers, but also the most fascinating idea behind it.
Compared with the traditional concept of patriarchy in many families, He Fanxing is more favored at home than his younger brother, and he is a child who grew up in full of love.
and parents are very open-minded, even though they have been asked by relatives around them: Why doesn't your daughter get married when she is in her 30s? But she didn't interfere with her idea of love and marriage.
Dad He said that finding an unreliable man is what makes him anxious and angry most than his daughter never gets married.
In real life, many girls do not have such enlightened parents and loving families, especially women with 30+ like He Fanxing.
faced the urging questions of the people around him and the persistence in his heart in real life, and the pressure was huge. The idea of finding someone to marry seemed to have the upper hand in the next second.
He Fanxing had a few kisses at the beginning of the play, but the utilitarian and purposeful nature of the other party made her more sure that she could not do it for the so-called "fitness", so she married herself hastily.
She is financially independent, her parents retired with a pension, and there is no native family pressure. Even at the age of 32, still longing for a beautiful relationship.
He Fanxing thinks that love and marriage must be prerequisite, as she said in the play: I am not a girl who just graduated in her 20s. I have bread. Why can't I choose love by myself?
So she chose the Yuan Song that she likes. Although she experienced some twists and turns in the middle, she finally reached out and held Yuan Song's hand bravely.
But in fact, just like in the show, many people still have a strange vision of sibling love in real life, especially like the two of them, who are quite different in age.
But in comparison, men who find a girlfriend who is much younger than themselves are regarded as normal by default.
Because everyone thinks that a man is a few years older, mature, stable, and able to take care of others, but looking around, there are many men who are still in the middle of life and still do nothing.
Therefore, rather than taking age as one of the criteria for measuring two people's love, it is the mental maturity and the insights on the growth path that determine whether two people are truly equal.
If men tend to find nice and cute young girls, and women like young and nice boys, there is nothing wrong with it.
Because nowadays, women are mostly independent in their thinking and economics, and they no longer need to depend on men. They can choose the other half according to their own preferences.
Only children make choices, and adults need everything. I have bread and I want love. As for what kind of love I want, it depends on how happy I am.
In the previous marriage and love market, many men would put forward many unbelievable requirements to women, such as:
must take care of all housework after getting married and give me a boy. Nowadays, as women become more independent and stronger, they have more initiative to choose the life they want to live.
So girl, we must work hard and be financially independent!
What kind of lover to find, when to fall in love, when to get married, when to have children, We have to decide by ourselves, not by others.
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