had been chasing finally came to an end, and the stone in my heart was finally put down, but there was a lot of resentment in my heart.
"He Actually Doesn't Love You That So" This drama mainly tells about the difficult choices made in love by four women in their 30s.
While watching the whole show, I have been fighting against the four female protagonists because they are really too pitiful and hurt too much by the ones they love.
However, it was not until I watched the entire drama and recalled their performance in the face of love that I finally understood: the female protagonists who have been advertised and pursued true love and thought that they were hurt too deeply are actually the most scumbags. .
01 Sun Yihe-to please the predecessor and behave well, to be extremely harsh to the current
Sun Yihe, 32 years old, a female producer, cheerful and capable, is a type of friend that many people like. According to the play, Sun Yihe is also a rare beauty.
Son Yehe’s first love affair in the plot is with Sam, a man who looks tall, handsome, and a little obedient. However, this man did not fall in love with Sun Yihe for the purpose of getting married.
Sun Yehe understands all this, but is still willing to pretend that the other party likes it, don't promise, don't be honest. In many cases, Sun Yihe didn't know what Sam was doing when he was not in front of him.
However, even so, she endured because of love, so she pretended not to care, so she was very tolerant. Until they broke up, she met Chen Nan.
Chen Nan was originally an indifferent and arrogant person. He was not good at speech, and rejected many people from thousands of miles away. Sun Yihe knew his bad things.
However, after the two people were together, Sun Yihe asked Chen Nan to be honest with herself and share everything with herself. She asked Chen Nan not to hide anything from herself.
Because he was injured by his ex, Sun Yihe turned himself into the appearance of his predecessor, and asked the incumbent to become who he once was.
02 Ren Ran——Dedicating everything to the predecessor, betraying the current one by using
Ren Ran, 30 years old, female president, vigorous and resolute in the workplace, but repeatedly frustrated in love.
Ren Ran just graduated from university, and soon fell in love with his boss, Lu Hao, the man who had just divorced.
The two have been together for nearly two years. During these two years, she has suffered a lot of grievances.
Lu Hao made Ren Ran an unseen underground lover due to company reasons. Ren Ran expressed his understanding; Lu Hao hoped that Ren Ran would take his own role as soon as possible due to work reasons, and Ren Ran also worked hard.
She gave everything for Lu Hao, but Lu Hao, because of her ex-wife's problems, left Ren Ran several times, which made Ren Ran very hurt.
Later, Ren Ran chose to be with Li Youting, but she was busy with Lu Hao's affairs again and again with Lu Hao's ex-wife's affairs, and even finally sat next to the sleeping Lu Hao, allowing Lu Hao to hold her hand.
Li Youting is not a person with too much utilitarianism, but Ren Ran pushes him again and again, hoping that Li Youting will stand up high, hoping that Li Youting can become famous.
She said: She is a piece of Lu Hao's work, but has she also thought about: She also regarded Li Youting as her own work?
03 Karen-giving birth to children for her ex-husband, and infertile her current unmarried husband
Karen, age unknown, about 30 years old, female gym owner, single mother, ex-husband is the lead singer of a rock band.
When Karen was pregnant, her ex-husband, Ma Ke, left behind their mother and child and went to Beijing in order to pursue so-called freedom and dreams.
Because Wang Marco is too "self", Karen chooses to divorce.
However, after meeting Yu Tian, Karen has become another king Mark.
Because of a family genetic disease, when everything is uncertain, she decided to remove her breasts, as a maleWhen her friend Yu Tian persuaded her, she chose to turn a deaf ear to her ex-husband's injury, so she decided not to marry or have children in this life.
Once Karen couldn't keep Wang Mark, and later Yu Tian couldn't keep Karen, and the fault of her ex-husband let Yu Tian bear, Karen still lived as another "Wang Mark" after all.
Conclusion
In the end, Chen Nan chose to be honest about everything he had done, and that was why Sun Yihe turned his head back. Ren Ran chose to propose to Li Youting for a stable life with three meals a day. Karen was worried about losing Yu Tian, so she took the initiative to come to show her intentions.
The three women who were once injured in love turned out to be the perpetrators of love.
I often hear someone say: "Don't take it lightly to accept someone who was deeply injured in the last relationship."
I did not understand, but now I finally understand: It turns out that in love, the deeper the injured person, the easier it is to become the perpetrator of the next relationship.
has been injured, it is not wrong to be strict with the next one, but don’t be careless and turn yourself into a perpetrator.
