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Guo Biting is a recognized goddess, whether it is in or out of the play, it gives people the feeling of being generous and slim. Xiangtai once praised Guo Biting many times in variety shows, both in appearance and inwardness, she can be the daughter-in-law of Xiang family, and she is also the best candidate to be a daughter-in-law in her eyes.
At that time, Biting Guo and 向佐 had not disclosed their relationship. Is Xiang Tai's various hints an order to his son? We don't know. It is not difficult to find that many female celebrities or women who excel in a certain industry are mostly married to the rich. Why is it their common goal to marry the rich?
Let's put it this way. To give a simple example, most female stars have high incomes, and it is difficult for ordinary men to climb high. Even the entrepreneurs of the rich side can make them obediently at home. For example, Sister Milk Tea finally married Liu Qiangdong, and JD.com controlled by Liu Qiangdong is one of the top listed companies in China; Sister Milk Tea has a wealthy family and is more likely to climb high.
In oriental marriage culture, marriage can help women change their destiny. Moreover, under the constraints of such traditional culture, as well as the recent phenomenon of "taking exams" in Shandong, we are well aware of the reasons why it is difficult for the poor to have a good son, and why it is becoming more and more difficult for the rich and poor to break.
married into a wealthy family and changed their destiny, because the resources in the wealthy family are the that ordinary people can't exchange for generations of hard work. Female celebrities themselves have a high springboard to enter the wealthy. They thought it was another beginning of happiness, but they entered a different fate.
For example, Guan Zhilin , Guan Zhilin has many times associated with or married wealthy businessmen who are dozens of years older than herself. When she was 20 years old, she married Wang Guojing, the boss of a financial and trading company. Wang Guojing is said to be a romantic and suave. The wealthy businessmen married into a wealthy family for half a year, and the two divorced. The most recent relationship was a 7-year secret dating with Taiwanese businessman Chen Taiming, who is worth tens of billions, and finally succeeded, but they announced their divorce less than half a year after their marriage.
Destiny gave her a beautiful face and a smooth career, but in the end she put the happiness of the rest of her life on a man. It is not so much that she was victimized by a wealthy marriage, it is more about having a bite and not having a long memory.
For another example, Huang Yi married the tycoon Huang Yiqing, then divorced, and publicly tore it on the Internet to let the people who eat melons read jokes. Although we don't know who is right or wrong, for Huang Yi, her career has fallen a thousand shots and her marriage is not guaranteed. Such a wealthy marriage is the wrong choice for her.
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What about Guo Biting, who is married to the rich? Judging from the Weibo that Guo Biting posted late at night, it seems that she has some negative emotions, and the tone of her reply to the netizen shows that she is not in good mood. Actually, there was a lace news earlier that Xiangtai was too strict with Guo Biting. Even if she changed the color of her hair, she had to report to Xiangtai in advance.
This reminds us of Lin Zhiying’s wife, who was taught by her mother-in-law because of wearing shorts, and because of various things being restrained by her mother-in-law, she cried and shed tears many times in the show.
It is undeniable that many female celebrities are very high-spirited. As first-line or second-line stars, most of them are the top of the crew. The company's cash cow, whether it is the director or the company leader, is polite, even all kinds of flattering praise. In a smooth environment, they are used to listening to compliments, and many things are done according to her requirements, so they have formed a more self-disciplined character. After
married into a wealthy family, many things can not be self-assertive, even his private life habits will be interfered by her mother-in-law, and face her mother-in-law's interference, but dare not speak. After all, there can only be one mistress in a big family, which is the so-called one mountain cannot tolerate two tigers.
In Eastern marriages, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always existed, but has not been resolved. As long as the patriarchal system exists,Then the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law cannot be alleviated.
In Western culture, people respect each other's private space and choices. For example, parents rarely interfere with their children's marriage choices. Of course, if there are problems in their children's marriage, they also need to bear and bear them. Therefore, the prerequisite for not interfering in the marriage of children is that children can take on more responsibilities.
Of course, the non-intervention here is not to let it go, but the parents will play the role of third party observation and analysis, and the Oriental parents are responsible for directly controlling their children's marriage and future life.
Because in the current society, many children rely on their parents to buy a house or car, and their financial life after marriage also needs parental relief. Therefore, since the material support of parents is needed, then parents naturally have the right to speak and guide you. Marriage, so the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law under the patriarch system must always exist.
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said back to Taihe Guo Biting. As we all know, Xiang Tai was also a veritable beauty when she was young, and she experienced ups and downs since she was a child. After marrying Xiang Huaqiang, she was able to raise children while assisting her husband in his career. He truly became a good husband and a good helper. Therefore, she knows that a good woman affects three generations. Therefore, when choosing a daughter-in-law, be extra careful.
However, Xiang Zuo is not Xiang Huaqiang. Although the two people look similar, they are biological fathers and sons, but their temperaments and experiences are different. Even if Xiangtai knows his son very well, there is always a gap between parents and children. It is difficult for parents to guess the secrets and ignorance that arise under this barrier.
Guo Biting’s Weibo appeared to be full of negative energy. He simply responded to the concerns of several netizens and simply closed the comments.
In the comment area, we will see-a fan asked her what’s wrong, Guo Biting’s reply was even more profound, asking: " what else can I do? I can eat and drink, I can raise chickens and dogs, and make flowers. People who make grass," he seemed to express all kinds of dissatisfaction with his current situation and was helpless.
Everyone is unhappy, no matter where you are and what kind of income you have. Because the human heart is not satisfied, our desire always urges us to do something-to make us richer and stronger.
However, in the process of climbing, we always have to encounter difficulties and dangers. And, when we want to get something, we must give up something in exchange. You can't not only marry into a wealthy family, but also maintain the past queen character. If you want to be a queen, just like Zhang Ziyi marrying Wang Feng, you still live happily.
If you want to be a rich daughter-in-law, you must be like Guo Jingjing, willing to give up your career, first win the care of the family elders, and then step by step to accomplish what you want to do.
Married to a wealthy family is as deep as the sea, life is like this; some places seem unfair, but they are full of fairness. is like a fan who eats instant noodles and cares about the mood of Guo Biting, who is worth hundreds of millions. When you laugh at the poor for only eating instant noodles, you can no longer have his simple happiness. Is not it?
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