Recently, the summer idol drama "In the Name of Family" is on the air. Both the protagonist and the supporting role in the play are performed very accurately. The heroine is innocent and lively, and the male lead is sunny and handsome. The plot is even more poking at the hearts of the girls. , Have left messages on the Internet, I also want to have an older brother, the tip is too good at picking up an older brother! Three little ones, three little ones without guessing, grow up happily together.
As the plot progresses, the two pointed elder brothers have returned to their parents. The three have been separated for nine years. After returning, they all made a request to the former sister to let me be a boyfriend. The eldest brother Ling Xiao is an overbearing presidential confession, and the younger brother He Ziqiu is a deliberative confession, "find some time, find some free time, and you think about this issue carefully", scared the tip, I take you as my brother , But you want to have a baby with me!
Fortunately, one of the three people is a normal person like a sharp point. He really regards his elder brother as his elder brother. Even if there is no blood relationship, but the family relationship is there, it is impossible to think about it, but think about it carefully. The Song Weilong , who plays Ling Xiao, is not so handsome, but replaced by a person of average appearance. Will everyone still feel beautiful?
1. Sisters are not allowed to fall in love in nine years.
The two brothers in the play have been separated from their sisters for nine years, but the brother Ling Xiao has always been concerned about the development of his sister’s relationship. I have never regarded Jianjian as my sister, but on the other hand, I am using my brother's identity to suppress my sister. This kind of ambivalence is replaced by an ordinary person.
2, get along with no defense
Since you didn’t regard the tip as your sister, but when you get along with your sister, you are deliberately undefended everywhere. For example, you can hug a koala at every turn. In the end, Dad Li couldn’t stand it and beat her daughter to her brother. Get along, but other than that, the fathers on both sides seem to never care about this, and they are very happy to see it happen.
If such a plot turns into reality, does a daughter's slave's father allow her daughter to get along with an unrelated opposite sex? A neighbor's brother plays with his own daughter all day, not with his companions. Do you think such a boy is normal?
3. Sending a girlfriend to "monitor" his sister
. Not only that, but also pointedly talking about her boyfriend. Ling Xiao's first reaction was to ask her sister's girlfriend to question him, indicating that he had already bought a girlfriend and had been secretly "monitoring" for the past nine years. Sister, everyone sees the handsome Ling Xiao and the cute tip, they can't help but let them hurry up together, but if you change to "Don't Talk to Strangers" , An Jiahe will not allow Mei Ting to see Any man other than yourself can’t speak, so try again and carefully!
In ordinary families, even the biological father will pay special attention to her daughter when she is six years old when she wears, goes to the bathroom, bathes and changes clothes, but the younger sister in the play can enter the brother’s room casually and feed each other Fan, lying on his brother’s bed, a bear hug at every turn, the fathers on both sides are indifferent, and can only be explained as a default, two of the three have to digest internally, either Lingxiao and Jianjian, or Ziqiu and Jianjian. In the words of Ling's father, "Fat water does not flow into outsiders' fields."
So my daughter who is almost in the first grade told me, Mom, I also want a brother like this, scared the old mother no longer dare to chase drama in front of the child, because she is afraid that she will not be immune to the handsome little brother Li, as long as she is handsome, she can do anything. As the only daughter, she would think that normal siblings should get along like this? But in fact, how should brother and sister live under one roof? May wish to refer to the movie "Take my brother away quickly", this is the correct way to open the brothers and sisters.
1. Take care of each other and love each other.
In the second-child combination, the brother and sister are the most happy. Boys can be more responsible, and girls have the protection of their brothers, and they will feel more secure. As they grow up, parents can. Don't worry a lot. If the parents can't do it, the older brother can make up for it. The two children grow up together and rely on each other.
2, mutual respect for privacy
brother-sister relationshipWell, there must be an independent space. You can’t live in the same room. Just knock on the door of each other’s rooms, respect each other’s privacy, and pay attention to the sense of boundaries when getting along, especially when your brothers and sisters grow up, and you can’t mess around at will. Parents will talk when they see it.
3. There will be conflicts, but it will soon pass.
There will also be conflicts between brothers and sisters, but it will soon pass. The brother will not spoil his sister without limit, and the sister cannot be coquettish by virtue of his age. If the brother has a partner in the future , Still put the younger sister first, there will be problems in the relationship between husband and wife, so we must do a good job in the transformation and adaptation of roles.
The "halo effect" of TV series should not affect the children.
We like a person for various reasons, but it is nothing more than appearance, charm, similarity, and compliments. When we meet beautiful women or handsome men, we will always Attracted by their appearance, and constantly replenishing their various advantages, is the halo effect , so stars are always sought after.
We have to admit that good-looking is an advantage, and those who are good-looking at make mistakes and are more likely to be forgiven . So if Song Weilong who plays Ling Xiao is not so handsome, Zhang Xincheng who plays He Ziqiu is not so handsome, you still Do you think "In the Name of Family" is beautiful?
The most important thing is that those who watch this idol drama also have children. Although it advocates family affection, even if there is no blood relationship, you can be close to the family. This is positive energy, but family affection turns into love. How do we explain to the children how three people get along What? Maybe this is what parents should think about.
