Text|Zhaohua Qian Ai
opening drama 囧 Mom ★★★★★
New Year's Day, Xiaoshun New Year
A journey of reconciliation between mother and child~~ There are seven films in the Spring Festival of 2020. Expected: "Chinatown Detective 3" and "囧Mom", which are the continuation of the IP classics, "Win the Championship", "Emergency Rescue", "Bear Infested Wild Continent" adapted from real events, "Vanguard" starring Jackie Chan, " "Fengshen Universe" continued "Jiang Ziya", almost every film has accumulated a large number of solid "want to watch" fans.
Affected by the pneumonia epidemic caused by the new coronavirus, on January 23, the 7 films that have attracted much attention during the Spring Festival in 2020 were collectively announced to withdraw, and the pre-sold tickets were also returned through multiple channels.
Xu Zheng's self-directed and self-acted "囧 Mom" after a series of ups and downs, is still outstanding, and announced that the first day of the new year will be free on Douyin, Toutiao, Watermelon Video, Douyin Volcano and other online platforms Released.
In this special Spring Festival, in response to the country’s call to stop visiting relatives and friends, our whole family watched this warm and affectionate movie together-
"囧Mom" tells the story of the little boss Ivan (Xu Zheng) who is involved in business The dispute, but accidentally got on the train bound for Russia with his mother (Huang Meiying). During the six-day and six-night journey, he had a fierce conflict with his mother, and at the same time he had to fight his rivals. In order to finally arrive in Moscow, he had to overcome difficulties with his mother and faced the problems that he had been avoiding in family life.
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"I hate your little tomatoes, including the pot!"
has a kind of hunger that makes your mother think you are hungry, and a kind of cold makes your mother think you are cold, but I don’t know that this Chinese-style parental love has long become a burden for children. He shackles:
Ivan is on WeChat voice. The mother kept stuffing small tomatoes into his son's mouth, and then urged his son to drink various soups, eat various foods, control his son's meat, and even interfere when he goes to the toilet. .
Ivan finally couldn't bear it, and while his mother was not paying attention, he threw the little tomatoes outside the train one by one, even the pots.
believes that there are many such scenes in real life. Parents give all their love to their children. They don’t know that many times the children’s acceptance is against their own heart; when the children occasionally resist, the parents feel that they have given nothing, even feel The child is a white-eyed wolf. Does
need to reflect, do we give the child what he wants?
2
"Why can't the baby be born yet? I'll call your wife!"
The mother asked her son why he couldn't give birth to a child, and asked her son "Do you live with your daughter-in-law", "What do you do when you live together", etc. The question of privacy.
There must be boundaries between people. When parents cross the boundaries in the name of love, children will feel uncomfortable and insecure.
We often say that marriage is not a matter of two people, it is a matter of two families. From meeting and falling in love to getting married and having children, both parents participate in it, interfere with the lives of young couples, and enjoy it.
Respect for children's lives is true love for children.
3
"Natasha is a thief!" On the
train, Ivan met Natasha, a Russian girl who was also devastated. They were in the same situation and cherished each other. The mother of
obstructed her son and Natasha in every possible way, because Natasha had a special train key, she suspected that she was a robber, her wallet could not be found, Natasha was a thief, and later she suspected that her son was unfaithful to the marriage, and even suspected My son often does good things outside. The son of
was finally exhausted by his mother and made it clear that he wanted to escape. The mother said angrily, "You are not good at all!" When
heard the word "behave" that should not be the case, it was almost impossible. At ease. My son is in his 40s, and he still hopes to listen to him in everything, like a rope. The tighter the tie, the harder the child may struggle.
4
"Be a virtue with your dad!"
mother called her daughter-in-law and accused her son of a marriage problem, which directly caused the conflict between mother and child, Also destroyed the last line of defense in his son's heart, and he began to count his dissatisfaction with his mother. The
mother did not reflect on her own way of education, but threw out the sentence: "You and your dad have the same virtue!" This sentence not only belittles the spouse, but also hurts the son, bringing the conflict of the story to a climax.
believes that there is no child who does not strive to protect the dignity of his parents, let alone a deceased father.
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sparks like splashing mother-child dialogue, every sentence has a strong smell of gunpowder, the sentence "I am your mother, I am for your good" Ivan is overwhelmed, and their communication is always on the verge of collapse. In the six days and six nights of the drive, one by one, one by one, the plot is so gratifying, but the trivial still revolves around the view "I am not the person in your fantasy".
Chinese-style parents: You are everything to me, I live for you
Child: Mom, I want to be myself
My son on the train asks his mother, can I not go to Moscow? Mom said: You will die if you don't go!
In the snow-capped mountains, they met a big black bear. The mother did not hesitate to stand in front of her son and shouted "Come eat me, don't eat my son"!
On the ice lake, the son carried his mother on his back to catch the train in order to walk faster. Later, they still missed the last train to Moscow. Mom said: Why don't we go back.
In this process, the mother and son are reconciling little by little and getting closer.
Finally, my mother finally realized her wish and completed the performance wonderfully. Ivan’s mother and son had conflicts because of love, and solved them with love. The story came to a successful conclusion.
When I first watched this movie, I watched it with the mood of watching a "comedy". Although there was no hip-hop hilarious plot we were expecting, as the plot unfolded, I was deeply lost in thought. The plot connection of the whole drama is very simple, and the audience can directly predict the result. Perhaps it is such a simple screenwriter that makes people more willing to savor it.
At the end of the movie, when her mother took off her wig and saw her white and sparse hair on the temples, her indifferent heart was sour, and her heart could not be calm for a long time. The mothers who have always been shown in the movie are young, dark hair, and well-maintained. The contrast between the front and back highlights the traces of time.
is not just mother, but father's love is deeper and more subtle. They have given us a lifetime, why should we give them a minute? We always ask our parents to give us more understanding and support. When should we treat them like this?
Thank you "囧Mom". Although it is not embarrassing, it has given us unlimited warmth in this special period of epidemic dominance.
Postscript
During this special holiday, the factory was postponed to resume work, and the school was postponed. We finally had a family reunion holiday, and this holiday challenged countless families. Is your family relaxed or relaxed, or undercurrents?
As a parent, is your parent-child relationship okay? Are you experiencing such a torment:
﹡Confused about education and anxious about parent-child relationship
﹡Cannot understand the inner world of the child, vomiting blood as soon as you accompany your child to do homework
﹡I know a lot of parenting knowledge, but the child is getting less and less Obedient
﹡If you want your child to be better, there is no systematic method, stop and go
......
Don’t worry, don’t panic, "Zhaohua Parent-Child Class" will be launched soon, not to talk about all kinds of family education principles, really face it Parenting problems, take you and your children to beat the problem together!
also has a [job management] module!
will officially start at 20:00 on February 18, 2020, so stay tuned!
