gave birth to two sons, but only admitted that he had given birth to one. The last son died, and he really only had one left. This is the story of the Taiwanese film "Sunshine", and it is also a story faced by thousands of families. The movie calmly tells suicide and homicide, except for the mother's last hysteria, everyone looks calm, but in this calm, there are countless pains hidden.
Parent-child pain: grasping the expectations of children is a compulsory course for every parent
The Chen family in the film has two sons, obedient, incompetent, poor academic performance, Ahao, who does not learn everywhere The problem-problem boy Ahe. The father always claimed to the outside world that he only had one. When watching the movie, people mistakenly thought that this was a reorganized family, and Ah He was not his biological son. However, I finally found that both were biological, but the balance in this father's heart had already tilted.
He told his well-behaved son to "seize the time and grasp the direction", hoping that this son would be admitted to medical school to win honor. When his youngest son got into a fight, he said that it didn't matter to him to hang up, and he even hoped to keep his son in prison for a lifetime. There are many fathers like
in real life. They don't have the patience to walk into the heart of their children. What they give their children is either heat or frost. They don't know that what their son wants is a cup of warm water. If you can’t grasp the expectations of your child, you still don’t understand your child’s inner thoughts.
The pain of husband and wife: Silence will become an accomplice in tragedy
In the movie, Chen's husband and wife are not bad guys, and the two people rarely quarrel, let alone violent each other, but they always feel less when getting along. As the film footage slowly spread out, I realized that they lacked communication.
"If I don't say you should understand, because you are my wife or husband", this kind of rogue thinking is the initiator of family tragedies. People should admit that it is difficult to know themselves, let alone expect others to become roundworms in their stomachs.
The wife who doesn’t even know that her husband often stays away at night, finally wailed and cried after her husband calmly told the murder story. She should be regretful. If there is less silence, if you can think of a way together, things It may not end here, it is difficult to end .
The pain of life: life is calm, giving you a gentle knife and a knife
Although the name of the movie is not sunny, but it makes people shudder. Little people are not fierce and evil, but they inadvertently give birth to suicide and homicide. Life disappears one by one, but the days are still peaceful, and no waves are seen.
recognize the truth of life, but still bravely look forward to tomorrow, is the brave.
When the sun rises as usual, be less silent and more caring.
