In the entertainment circle, celebrities' love and marriage actions have attracted much attention. Many people are unwilling to disclose these things, and they choose official announcements when they are forced to do so. When actor Song Zuer recently participated in the recording of the show, she revealed that she would like to have a baby next year, and next year she will only be 22 years old. She wants to get married so early, so she seems to be the youngest mom in the entertainment industry.
When Song Zuer talked about love in the show, she bluntly said that she longed for the perfect life like Qi Wei and wanted to get married and have children earlier. My mother gave birth to herself when she was 30 years old, because she was still young, and the two got along like sisters. This way made herself envious. And to get married and have children earlier is to give yourself more energy to take care of the children and to do other things so that you can get along with your children like friends.
In fact, there are very few female stars like Song Zuer who want to marry early, because when they are in their 20s, their careers are officially rising. At this time, they choose to marry and have children. At least one year will not be able to shoot, and the entertainment industry will be updated so quickly. , It is likely to cause failure to resume work after pregnancy, be replaced, etc. But in fact, early marriage and early pregnancy are also good, not only bad.
Many people are biased towards early marriage and early pregnancy. Early marriage here refers to after the legal age, not under-age marriage. When you reach the legal age, you can choose to get married and have children early after marriage. You can also restore your figure and mentality earlier according to your physical age. For modern women, it is no longer the state of marrying chickens and dogs, but having their own work and life, cognitive independence, and equal status with men.
Therefore, people should not be allowed to look at these early or late married people with tinted glasses, and put them into one rank prematurely. Late marriage is not necessarily the best, but early marriage is not necessarily the worst.
For women, marriage is yours. Don’t care about others’ perspectives, and don’t marry for the sake of marriage. Once you reduce your right to choose a spouse and your own rules for choosing a spouse, it is likely to change the direction of the whole marriage. , Thus becoming no longer the original self. Sometimes women need to be self-willed, that is, only this time in life, doing whatever you want is the best. To understand that fate will only love capable people, so when you choose to marry early, you must remember that it is your own choice. This must be well thought out. Don't follow the trend, but plan for yourself.
The biggest benefit of early marriage and early pregnancy is that for girls, when they are a little younger, they will have a baby. According to the secretion of hormones, the body will restore body and mentality faster. At the same time, you can also enter the next working state earlier. Compared with girls who get married late, this is a big advantage and an advantage.
