"This trip to Russia may be the longest time I have been with my mother in more than 20 years since I left home from college."
-"囧 Mom"
I have to say that Xu Zheng's 囧 mother is too suitable for this Spring Festival Up. In the movie, Xu Yiwan, played by Xu Zheng, started a six-day and six-night train journey with his mother by accident. Contradictions were frequent along the way. The superb acting skills made people laugh with tears and laugh with tears, just like us who were helplessly staying at home with our parents this Spring Festival because of pneumonia.
often wanted to escape, but found that there was nowhere to escape.
When we work, we always hate that we don't have much time to get along with our parents. On the one hand, we are raising a family and raising our parents. Although I am willing to accompany my parents in my heart, people's energy and time are really limited. I thought I could accompany my parents during the Chinese New Year, but I didn't expect that this year would be a long time. The original seemingly intimate has become a cold pair of Hengmei.
Time is indeed the most impartial judge. All the problems that we seem to have no problem are because the time is too short to expose the problem.
is like the frequent conflicts between Xu Yiwan and his mother in "囧Mom", and it seems to be vivid in these six days and six nights. The control of his mother's love leaves Xu Yiwan nowhere to escape, which is very Chinese parents.
Especially in the experience of beautiful love before marriage, the sadness of the chicken feathers after marriage, the only hope is for the son, and living for the son. The more disappointment in the husband, the more control over the son. As said in the play, a imaginary son lives in the mother's heart.
"There is a "fantasy son" living in your heart, he should eat a few pieces of braised pork, whether the meat on his face is long horizontally or vertically, when to have a child, when the bladder drains, you are all Once it’s set, why do you persevere in reforming me? Didn’t you find out? I’m not the son you imagined.”
-"囧Mom"
Xu Yiwan’s accusation against his mother is plausible. Always demanding him by his own standards, this kind of controlled love makes him want to escape. As everyone knows, in fact, he also treats his mother by his own standards. Do not do to others what you don't want to do. People often pay more attention to themselves than others.
also lives a "fantasy mother" in his heart. He thinks that his mother’s performance in Moscow is being deceived, but he does not know that this is a wish of his mother’s life; his mother’s behavior that she must take the train for six days without flying is absurd, but he does not know that her mother wants to regain his youthful past; what his mother sings is out of date. The old song, but when his mother stubbornly and affectionately sang "Cranberry Blossom" on the stage, he realized that the mother in front of him who liked to transform herself was once a girl with youth and love.
He doesn't understand his mother, just as his mother doesn't understand him either.
After getting to know each other, will find that this love is not hot, even though it is heavy. 's mother realized that her love made her son want to escape, and she apologized to the child in despair. The son gave his mother a big hug after listening to his mother sing "The Cranberry Flower", breaking his previous statement that a man in his forties was not decent to hug his mother.
and it takes time to get to know each other. If it weren’t for the six-day and six-night train trip, it would be the longest time between son and mother in the movie in more than 20 years. Many contradictions between the mother and daughter would not be concentrated. Solved in time. In normal life, two people have thorns buried in their hearts but they have to pretend to be close and friendly. Pull out the thorns so that love can be rooted in and take root.
also this time due to the impact of the pneumonia epidemic, the whole country was left at home with their parents for a few days and nights. I believe that many friends have long been eager to go out and resume work. This mood of
is understandable, just like when I was young I wanted to work when I was studying, and I wanted to read when I was at work; I wanted to leave home when I went home, and I wanted to go home when I was away. people always live in the past or in the future, but rarely live in the present.
Now is to force us to live now, I think this is also the blessing of the cruel epidemic., people can only think about the preciousness of the moment only in adversity. Do not regret the past, not the future, cherish the present.
So why not take advantage of this godsend opportunity to get to know your parents, and let them know you well. Or do things that are forgotten by life. Believe me, there are not many opportunities like this.
