recently saw a video of Teacher Nan Huaijin, and it has been particularly shocking. Nan Shi said: China’s three thousand years of splendid civilization history and such brilliant achievements are all credited to Chinese women. It is precisely because of their dedication and good That’s why there are many sages in China, and people with lofty ideals emerge in endlessly! After listening to this sentence, I was deeply moved, and I repeatedly thought that it was true. Today, I will give Nanshi this sentence and add some explanations and examples to better prove it!
First of all, looking at ancient Chinese history, wherever a saint comes to the world, there must be a kind mother, such as the mother of Mencius, the third migration of the mother of Mencius, the thread of the mother's hand, and the top of the wandering son! Another example is Wang Shouren's mother. There are countless examples of this kind. In China, all people with lofty ideals will basically have a good mother, that is, have an extremely good family atmosphere and family education! You can study such examples yourself, and study the examples of ancient sages and sages one by one. This is not the case! I will not give an example!
On the surface, China’s splendid history of civilization was created by a group of righteous men, but who educated this group of people with lofty ideals? It was educated by their mother. Therefore, since ancient times, Chinese education has paid special attention to mother education, especially women's education. Why is the ancient family concept called marrying a wife, marrying the virtuous but not marrying sex? Why did the well-known Zhuge Kongming marry the well-known ugly woman Huang Yueying, who is really a sage, how can people understand now? The reason why the moral character of women is so valued is based on the fact that motherhood is the key to the rise and fall of a family, and even the rise and fall of a nation!
You can imagine that if the female mother of a family is an indulgent, vulgar, unruly, and unreasonable person, then the children of this family will definitely not be successful, and may even do more excessively and even more desperately. for! I'm talking about objective facts. If you don't believe it, you can go to statistics. Don't yell at you just because you don't want to listen to the facts! At this time, I will definitely say why the responsibility of educating children should be transferred to the mother? Isn't the father also responsible?
Let me analyze and analyze what is the reason? The relationship between mother and child in a family is closer, and children tend to love and rely more on their mothers, because mothers are the incarnation of love and maternal love. Whenever encounters life and death, a mother can stand up for the safety of her children, but this My father is much worse. This is by no means that fathers don’t love children enough, it’s the nature bestowed by God. Women naturally love children more than their fathers. This is a fact. So why do we sing maternal love, which is the greatest selfless love in the world. But the father rarely said that, because this is a natural law, no need to argue or blame! Human beings are born with the qi of heaven, and the two qi of yin and yang are given its own shape. Females belong to yin, and yin is soft and compassionate, and it is the soft spring wind and rain. A male is yang, which means masculinity. The expression of masculinity is to defend the family and the country, and to take on the great responsibility. Therefore, men and women have different inborn qualities, different responsibilities, and different ways of expression. There is no distinction between superior and inferior!
But I think the reason why China's three thousand years of civilization is so splendid is indeed most of the credit of women. To be honest, this is the case, because since ancient times, the establishment of the monarch and the people, teaching first. In governing the country, teaching is first. The nation is prosperous, and teaching is the first priority. "Youth Talk", so today’s responsibility is not with others, but with my youth! But for education, family education is especially important, because the words and deeds given to children in the family are intrigued by the ears and eyes, and they are subtle and incomparable to all other education! But the most important thing in family education is the mother’s education. Mother’s love is silent. Why does Buddhism portray the image of Guanyin Bodhisattva into the image of a woman and a mother? This is because the mother's love is closer to the bodhisattva's love, and it is selfless, praying in a thousand places! This is the highest tribute to maternal love!
To sum up, young people must assess the quality of the object when they get married. If they can marry a good wife, it is the greatest blessing. Not only you are blessed, but your family is also blessed, and descendants are also blessed, and even the children and grandchildren are also blessed. Feng, becoming a saint and a virtuous person, is also unknown! There is a Mengmu in every family. Why should the nation and the nation not look upon the past and the present? Therefore, there is an old saying: Those who do not seek forever, do not seek for a while, those who do not seek the overall situation, do not seek for a domain! This is also!
Our country should attach importance to women’s education, family education throughout the country, education in the nation’s online media, to promote positive energy, to promote Chinese excellent traditional culture, and to promote Confucianism, Buddhism, and Taoism! There is a saying in the picture on the back: Siyi is retranslated as the emperor, whether it will come to the Spring of Nine Kingdoms!
