who has watched "Double-sided Adhesive" may think about the question of whether love should be praised or isolated. Hu Lijuan's experience in the play makes people feel sympathetic, lamenting how this girl from a good background has lost her life because of a failed marriage. What the editor needs to say here is that the story of Hu Lijuan and Li Yaping has realistic prototypes. In reality, "Hu Lijuan" was killed by her husband. Later, when her husband was serving his sentence, screenwriter Liuliu was interviewed and this work came out. . The author of the TV series
went through artistic treatment, and finally let us see the two reconciliation. Li Yaping and Hu Lijuan returned to a good ending, but in reality? If you look at "Double-sided Adhesive" again, you will find that the so-called love that Hu Lijuan pursues is actually imaginary, and Li Yaping doesn't love her at all! Li Yaping is a young man from an ordinary rural area in Northeast China. With the help of his family, Li Yaping was admitted to a university in Shanghai. After graduation, he met Hu Lijuan, a Shanghai native girl with a relatively good family.
Li Yaping is a poor child who can marry Hu Lijuan. In the city of Shanghai, he can at least fight for more than ten years. Li Yaping has lived in a family that is good at calculating money. I don’t believe that when he gets along with Hu Lijuan, he didn’t think about it. These ones. In the relationship between Li Yaping and Hu Lijuan, we see Li Yaping petting and coaxing Hu Lijuan like a little Shanghai man, pinching her back, pouring water, etc., but in fact, Li Yaping is not willing to be like this forever by Hu Lijuan. Suppressed, Li Yaping was deeply influenced by the traditional concepts of his hometown, and had deep-rooted machismo thoughts. Li Yaping's love for Hu Lijuan seemed to be a disguise. It seemed as if the love was as deep as the sea, but in fact it was fake.
We do not discriminate against the poor. The editor is also the poor, but there are many people among the poor. They are not pursuing the pursuit of self-reliance and self-reliance. Some people are so poor that they don’t care about anything except themselves, unfortunately! Li Yaping that Hu Lijuan met was such a man.
Li Yaping came out of a poor family, he wanted to live a better life than anyone else, otherwise he would not choose to marry Hu Lijuan with a serious male chauvinism. In Li Yaping’s view, Hu Lijuan is actually his own rocker of life. To help him succeed, he doesn't care whether he can stay with Hu Lijuan forever.
Li Yaping after marriage was completely different, especially after Li Yaping’s family came, he was so filial and selfish, he even became a little obedient, he always accommodated his parents’ habit, and never considered Hu Lijuan’s feelings and thoughts. When his parents were dissatisfied with something in the family, Li Yaping would not hesitate to change. After marrying Hu Lijuan, Li Yaping rightly believed that he could be the master of the house, and what he did would completely ignore Hu Lijuan’s feelings, because From his bones, I think it should be so.
Li Yaping’s selfishness can be seen from his parents. Many people are the mirror of their parents. This makes sense. In the eyes of Li Yaping’s parents, their own children are children, but other children’s children are not. They know how to feel distressed. Son, understand his son’s hard work, but never know that Hu Lijuan needs to be considerate of his daughter-in-law. Isn’t Hu Lijuan’s hard work hard? And why doesn't his son come back for dinner, so he can just cook a meal? Does Hu Lijuan deserve to be treated harshly?
If only this is the case, what’s even more annoying is that Li Yaping married Hu Lijuan, and even thought that even Hu Lijuan’s family belonged to him, so he asked Hu Lijuan’s family to borrow money at every turn, and even took possession of everything about Hu Lijuan’s family. It’s good for yourself to force investment in your brother-in-law’s company, and even arrogantly say that you want to mortgage your real estate. Whose real estate? Who gives Li Yaping the confidence?
A man like Li Yaping is a typical representative of "soft food and hard food". In order to support his family in front of his family, he is clearly not able to squeeze Hu Lijuan. His father is sick and his mother is unwilling to sell his hometown house. Should the Hu Lijuan family deserve to be taken advantage of?
So Hu Lijuan’s example tells many girls that love is important, but love can’t be eaten as a meal. You think you’ll be happy when you marry love. But you don’t know that more important than love is character, the other’s family, what do you think?
