At the end of 2019, netizens often say: "We don't know which of tomorrow or disaster will come first." With such emotions,
, we long for the new year. In the face of thousands of calls, 2020 is coming as scheduled.
Holding the yearning for the New Year, we seem to have forgotten that sentence, but we did not expect that in the early morning of January 27, 2020, we once again heard the desperate news-the 41-year-old NBA basketball star Kobe Bryant crashed and died.
What’s even more sad is that Kobe’s second daughter, Gigi, also passed away in the plane crash. She is a lovely little girl who is only 13 years old. Because of her father, she has loved playing since she was a child and Kobe considers her as himself. The successors of the career, when the accident happened, Kobe and Gigi were preparing to participate in the training camp.
As soon as this news came out, there was an uproar around the world, because everyone loved Kobe and Gigi, whom everyone had high hopes for.
01.
If you carefully review Kobe's life, we will find that no more suitable evaluation than the word "legend". As an NBA basketball superstar who is as famous as Jordan, Kobe has won countless trophies and honors. In the world of basketball, he is undoubtedly a dazzling star. But for Kobe, the greatest luck in this life may be to meet his wife Vanessa-a woman who brought him warmth and happiness.
Their story has to start in 1999.
At that time, the 21-year-old Kobe met 17-year-old Vanessa. They fell in love at first sight and quickly determined the relationship.
But their love is not optimistic, the outside world is also speculating whether Vanessa really likes Kobe, and some people even think that Vanessa is with Kobe for money.
The reason why people would guess this is mainly because the identities of Kobe and Vanessa were so different at the time. The former was a popular NBA star and the latter was just a good-looking female high school student.
may also be due to identity reasons, Bryant's parents also strongly opposed their union, and finally broke off the relationship. For many people, they may also resist, but most of them can't cut off the relationship. After all, everyone hopes that their marriage can be blessed by their parents.
But Kobe did not intend to give up at all, because he always knew clearly that Vanessa was the one he wanted to stay with for life.
Finally, without the blessing of their parents, Kobe and Vanessa held a simple wedding and started their happy life.
02.
In a blink of an eye, the time has come to 2020. This year is the 21st year that Kobe and Vanessa have met. In the past two decades, Vanessa has given birth to 4 daughters for Kobe, but their Life is not all smooth sailing. From the sexual assault scandal in 2004 to the divorce storm in 2011, their marriage was faltering in the wind and rain, but fortunately, they persisted in their marriage and love in the end.
Now, a disaster takes away Vanessa’s husband and daughter, and her life trajectory will be completely different. Some people say
: "When we are forgotten by everyone, we really pass away."
thinks so.
Actually, the cruelest thing in life is to face the departure of the lover. The person who leaves may not feel it, but the person who remains will be trapped in the shadow of the past for a long time and cannot escape for a long time. This can be regarded as love The ultimate test.
Therefore, we can also understand Vanessa’s feelings very well. Her pain may take a long time to get better, or it will be the pain of her life, but at this time she must stand up because she has three more The daughter needs to be taken care of, and she is still a mother.
Fortunately, Kobe left her enough fortune to avoid financial difficulties. What she has to do now is to plan her future life.
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Just a few months before Kobe’s death, Gao Yixiang’s sudden death while recording a program caused an uproar on the Internet. On the one hand, netizens criticized the unreasonable arrangement of the program group and paid attention to Gao Yixiang’s girlfriend Su Xianghan. Dynamic.
Many people hold sadnessI hope that Su Xianghan will react in the same way, but Su Xianghan did not show any radical behavior. She is calm and restrained because she knows that there are still many things to deal with, and crying will not solve the problem. , Can not change the facts.
At this time, some people began to speculate on the relationship between her and Gao Yixiang:
"She doesn't actually like Gao Yixiang that much."
"If the person I like leaves, I won't be as calm as her."
... …
, but some people replied: "Does it have to be a painful death in front of the public to be considered true love?"
and Su Xianghan encountered the same thing, Vanessa was also accused by netizens of not loving Kobe because she and Su Xianghan behaved. Out of the same calm.
But how much pain has been taken behind this calmness is hard for us outsiders to feel.
For them, accepting reality is an inescapable fate. The only thing they can do is to put this love in their hearts, let the people they love live in their hearts, and life will continue. In the report of
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in Kobe's death, there is another detail that is very moving.
According to the Washington Post report, at the moment Kobe met, he lifted his daughter up and tried to push her out of the cabin, but it did not succeed, so we can still see him holding his daughter in his remains. Actions.
We can't help feeling the greatness of father's love. In the last stage of Kobe's life, how desperate his sense of helplessness should be. Perhaps what Kobe at that time wanted to say to his daughter most was: "I'm sorry, loving you is the last thing I can do." The death of Kobe also tells us that when a disaster strikes, although people are vulnerable, but Love is eternal, and Kobe’s love for his daughter is truly conveyed to his wife Vanessa’s heart, so he will always live in Vanessa’s heart.
Actually, the cruelty of disaster lies in its irreversible. People have no choice but to accept it, but people have feelings, and this feeling can span time and any disaster, allowing the living people to continue to live happily. .
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Author: S sister
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