sense of distance
What kind of literature and art do you see? Is Ye Wu Ming Yue Hua solo dance? Or do you have poetry and literature in your belly?
How do you understand happiness? Is spring breeze ten miles of tenderness? Or turn it into spring mud to protect the flowers?
Yi Nengjing's artistic temperament is undiminished, and her happiness index is bursting. She said that for both men and women, there is only one kind of happiness, which is inner stability.
"I am a person who has the ability to stop at any time. I have this confidence. After working for so many years, I know where my abilities are. As long as I want to work, I will find the job I want to do and do it. Good," Yi Nengjing has never been afraid to stop in this industry for more than 20 years. After
served as a judge for the third season of "China's Got Talent" many years ago, she felt a little hollowed out due to the fact that she was constantly overdrawing her true emotions. When the show invited her again, she chose to go India went to study, even if the show was the national ratings champion. Friends hurriedly persuaded her: "If you hand over your position in this show to other judges, and when they are done, you won't be able to come back." And she is as firm as ever to what she has decided: "Then you can't come back. , It’s okay."
has a strong sense of security that always fills her heart for life and work. She has no worries at all for several years when she has suspended work because of her children, and never worried that she will be replaced, "I may not The most profitable or the most famous one, but I have my abilities, and I also have a part that cannot be replaced by others."
returned again. She participated in the recording of a TV show, recording once every two weeks. She can pursue a sense of value in her work without delaying being a good mother.
Her little daughter Mi Li has just entered the kindergarten class, and the time with her daughter is extremely happy and rare for her. "In the past two years, it feels like ten years have passed. She The rapid growth of her, each of her firsts is too precious to me." She nodded thoughtfully, seeming to be caught in the memory of the process of growing rice grains, "I was hoping that she could learn some time ago. Stand up so that you can take her out to play, and now she can already run."
She understands that she is not old and her children will not grow up. Everything is a matter of time.
In a blink of an eye, her eldest son is almost reaching the age of college entrance examination. In order to let his son have contact with the city of New York in advance, she specially took her son, the little prince, to live in New York for a short period of time. Returning to the city where she had lived when she was a child, Yi Nengjing's love for the city of New York continues unabated.
"I think in New York, the distance between people is appropriate. It may not be that warm, but relatively, it is not easy to interfere with each other." New Yorkers may even feel that the city of New York is a bit a bit Indifferent, but in Yi Nengjing's view, if you are a person who can get along with yourself, you will find that distance is too appropriate.
is also what she dislikes in general, "I rarely talk about other artists in my Weibo or life talk. I may praise them, but I will not discuss others' professionalism or gossip, because I don’t think I know you. All I see is this side of you, but it’s impossible that this side is all of you.” She admitted that she really likes to get along with people at a distance, but she then added, “Once After this distance is trusted, it will last for a lifetime."
sense of security
Chinese ancient people say, standing at thirty, without confusion at forty, and knowing fate at fifty. I thought that age would be a taboo topic in chatting with female artists, but I didn’t expect Yi Nengjing to take the initiative to chat, “I really realized this sentence one day. Life has reached a stage and I slowly know who you are. What abilities do you have, how many things you can do, and many things you won’t force anymore. o” When
was young, she didn’t know much about who she was. She also kept pursuing and searching. When she was a teenager, she released her first solo album "The Last Day of 19 Years Old", setting up her career early, but the success of her career did not bring her the sense of security she hoped for. "I worked so hard at the time, I don’t know why there is no securityI feel completely, if I don't do it, there is no sense of security, the whole person is very chaotic. "
recalled that time, she attributed that state to family. "Some time ago, my husband Qin Hao and I were still discussing, "Qi Family Governing the Country and Ping the World" really makes sense. There is no family. As a foundation, even though I was successful in my career, I didn't know why I pursued all this. "
Leo Tolstoy’s "Anna Karenina" has a saying: Happy families are always similar, but unfortunate families have their own misfortunes. Life is already a winner in life and possesses Yi Nengjing, who has a happy and happy family, has always been tireless and personally helping people in need of help in society. The difference in charity
Yi Nengjing is that she is really in-depth contact with friends in need. There is a girl who has a three-level face Burns require several stages of treatment, and a series of treatments such as skin grafting and facial plastic surgery in the later stage. Yi Nengjing will arrange her parents and children to come to Shanghai to find an authoritative doctor and manage the accommodation. There is also a patient with a malignant tumor. Three-year-old baby Duoduo, she will help Duo Duo mother and Duo Duo to go to France for treatment, find someone to do translation and take care of their daily life.
has more contact with patients, accompanied by deep affection, and more The heart is gaunt. She even wrote on Weibo one day: “I often feel that I can no longer bear any suffering and want to escape the powerless pain. "She feels that her life is nothing to those suffering children. Sometimes she thinks, otherwise, donate money directly, or set up a foundation, but she still can't convince herself, "I already know How is it best for this child? I can’t fool myself into saying that this is best for them. "
She has always believed that this world will change for the better. The reason for promoting good is to prevent evil from approaching and spreading. From the bottom of her heart, she appeals to everyone not to give up the possibility that the world may become better.
Sense of happiness
When she was a child, due to the many brothers and sisters, Yi Nengjing did not get enough care and love. She started to work alone at a young age. She experienced all the flavours of life and experienced the warmth and coldness of the world. All this made her cherish her current life even more. Sometimes I feel that all the happiness I get now is abundant, and my heart is full of gratitude.
From "standing" to "no confusion" and then "knowing the destiny", Yi Nengjing has been walking for more than 20 years, all the way, without walking , Thinking more than just, she said, those who look inward are awake, and those who look outward are dreaming. Once, she thought that looking inward was the only living truth, but now she feels that looking outward is also It is a kind of wisdom in life.
"A person who looks inward must learn to be alone, because when alone he does not panic, he can be with this world, and he is completely happy to accept him as a member of this universe. "As for the phrase "Poverty is to be good for oneself, and Da to benefit the world", she also has a new epiphany, "'Poor' does not necessarily mean'poverty', it may be an inner lack, so you will change Be self-centered, but when you look outside, you will find that it's no big deal. Destiny is peace, nothing else. "
asked her, what do you think of the topic of "Yinengjing's straight male cancer" that everyone praised before? After listening to
, she quickly corrected the word "hand torn", "I think it's quite fun, because I have never I have thought about who I am going to tear up, but I am just answering questions from netizens sincerely. "Compared with "hand tearing", she prefers to use the word "communication", and the latter is undoubtedly the basis for getting along with people. As
said, she also cited examples with great interest, "I have always emphasized Happiness is inner peace, but if you say that you are inner peace, some people will say that you have no expression on your face. "She said helplessly, some people are destined not to be on the same channel with you, don't force it.
"In your opinion, what kind of woman is the most attractive?" "
" shines both externally and internally. Just like a diamond, it turned out to be just a rough stone. After countless cuts and polishes, it emits light and shows its brightness, precision and purity. Therefore, its external beauty is also an important point for reflecting the light, as is the inner richness. "
can make this one on every side polishedDiamonds "refract" dazzling light, just like every identity of a woman, wife, mother, and strong person in the workplace, as long as the heart is calm and abundant, life will inevitably be like a diamond, dazzling and shining.
