The popularity of the movie "囧Mom" is still unabated.
Although the network rating of this movie is not high, this movie can not only entertain but also bring people to think about reality. This is where the movie succeeds.
is like what netizens said, although the movie is not very good, the reality reflected by the movie is still very strong, and different people can interpret it from different perspectives.
What impressed me the most was the plot of "Aventure" between Xu Yiwan and Russian woman Natasha on the train. The reason why
attracts me is not only because of Natasha's face, body, and charming heart, but also because of the short story of a few minutes, which reveals that marriage is unbearable.
Although before embarking on the train, Xu Yiwan's relationship with Zhang Lu had problems. But it is obvious that Xu Yiwan still loves Zhang Lu in his heart and wants to save each other's marriage.
But even Xu Yiwan, who was determined in his heart, was "conquered" when he met Natasha. Although the last "Aventure" was ruined by Xu Yiwan's mother, I think Xu Yiwan had actually "derailed" willingly.
Natasha, a Russian girl with a beautiful appearance and a coquettish figure, is enthusiastic and brave, but also happens to be hit in a relationship.
At this time, the two people soon had a common language, and the same encounters instantly narrowed the distance between the two, and in the end they were only a few minutes away from "derailment".
In real life, not every man will meet a girl as beautiful as Natasha, but "Aventure" like this is still everywhere. The bridge segment of the movie
tells us that derailment is only a moment, and marriage can't stand the test, especially in the following three situations.
01. It is not right for
to cheat during the endless quarrel, but there are very few people who can stop the temptation.
is like Xu Yiwan in the movie. The conflict between husband and wife has been around for a long time, and the problem has not been solved in fact. Although
still loves each other deeply, but can't find the right way to express it, and finally put the relationship into a stalemate in quarrel.
Everyone has times when they are in a bad state, and the unhappiness and depression in their hearts need to find outlets.
At this time, if someone who can understand your inner feelings and even have a similar experience with you appears, the spark of love will inevitably be wiped out.
What's more, the other party is still a woman with a coquettish figure and good looks. It is not surprising that Xu Yiwan was captured.
Marriage and relationships cannot stand the test, especially when there are constant quarrels. Don't think of people as perfect, let alone think of how many people can think rationally when they encounter the so-called "Aventure".
02. When there is no hope in the other person
What a woman is afraid of is not that men have no money, but that there is no hope in men.
Marriage is never a simple addition of two people. To get together, you must love each other deeply.
Many people think that for women nowadays, the objects of blind date are all asking the man to have a car, house and deposit. In fact, it is not a woman's material things, but she hopes to have better protection when entering marriage.
If a woman is willing to marry you, it means that she is willing to accompany you to endure hardships, but if a man has no fighting spirit in his married life, he can neither give women security nor hope, then the marriage will be crumbling.
If you meet a woman who can rekindle hope and rekindle passion, it is easy to derail.
03. When meeting a confidant, the so-called confidant of
is a person who fits with each other physically and mentally.
Take Xu Yiwan in "囧Mom" as an example. On a quarrelsome train journey, you can still meet such a hot "confidant" Natasha. One of
was frustrated by marriage and family relations, and the other was on the verge of being derailed.
has a common language, the same psychological needs, and mutual understanding and support. It is such a confidant that Xu Yiwan gave up the last struggle and completed the "derailment" with half a push.
In real life, there are so many examples of this, day after day ordinary life wears away the freshness of marriage and creates a distance between each other.
but when you meet a so-called confidant, It is often easy to betray marriage.
04.
Samuel said:
"The success of a marriage depends on two people, and one person can make it fail."
wants to achieve a happy marriage is never a simple matter, but It is easy to ruin a marriage.
No matter how difficult it is to meet each other among thousands of people.
What we have to do is not to go further and further in the marriage, but not to forget our original intentions and to spend the rest of our lives together.
