Who would have thought that in the latest episode of "Goodbye Love" on Thursday, Mai Lin would be attacked on a large scale again.
When talking about divorce with Li Xingliang, Li Xingliang expressed that he wanted custody of his daughter.
Because her daughter looks like him, she also doesn’t get along with Mai Lin.
Mai Lin asked:
"I have done so much for her, why should I understand her"?
The two of them have come to this point. Netizens be like:
Li Xingliang is inseparable. I only sympathize with Mai Lin's daughter.
As a wife and mother, Mai Lin was attacked to dominate most of the hot search lists. She was even scolded for her appearance: " Fu Seoul looks".
Because Mai Lin has a strong aggressive personality in marriage, she is exactly the same as Fu Seoul in the last season. The two of them also look very similar.
They all have faces with broad round faces, pointed short chins, slender eyes, small mouths but wide clefts faces.
So netizens who have tempered their poisonous mouths collectively call this kind of appearance - Fu Seoul's appearance , and use this to satirize their exquisite self-interest.
"Fu Seoul's Law of Appearance" says: People with this kind of appearance are obviously selfish, but they speak plausibly; they look like smiling tigers, but in fact they have a strong sense of oppression.
This kind of personality contrast is just like the sense of fragmentation brought about by their extremely wide cheeks and extremely narrow chin. It makes people very uncomfortable.
For example, Mai Mai claims that he is a giving personality, but in fact he will constantly seek emotional value from his partner, subconsciously blame others and blame others.
Another example is the accusation that Fu Seoul is good at using her female identity to portray herself as the weak one in marriage to seek benefits, even though she is the stronger one.
uses Fu Seoul’s face to constantly introduce new women who can’t stand it. Netizens also commented that “the value of Fu Seoul’s face is still rising.”
So in the eyes of many people, Fu Seoul’s appearance is the embodiment of the appearance.
Some people say that the person who invented Fu Seoul’s face is really a genius!
The people around me who are difficult to get along with, without exception, all look similar to Fu Seoul. Fu Seoul’s law does not deceive me.
Some people think this is nonsense. Judging a person's character based on his face is a baseless cyber violence.
However, in Yang’s view, this matter is not just a face-to-face discussion or online violence.
Judging Fu Seoul’s face is a witch hunt in the new era.
The witch hunt is a behavior in the Middle Ages where people presupposed the sins of women and used absurd identification methods to label them as witches and impose criminal penalties. gained control.
For example, in 1691, there was a witch trial trend in Salem Village, Massachusetts, USA.
When a strange disease spreads in the village, it's easy to blame a few innocent witches.
then tortured them and forced them to admit to unfounded charges.
And there is nothing wrong with these witches. They are either strong, single, clean, and some even know medicine.
Just did not conform to the image of submissive women in the Middle Ages, so she suffered unreasonable speculation and resentment, and suffered cruel punishment and persecution.
Looking back at the Fu Seoul face incident, is it somewhat similar to the witch-hunting movement?
Fu Seoul is not one of the witches whose appearance and personality are inconsistent with the gentle, respectful, thrifty and generous system.
Fu Seoul’s character, mentality and way of doing things also bring about the B side of her personality - is extremely rational, brave and powerful, and has excellent eloquence.
She went from a small-town woman who saved money to buy a house to a celebrity with both fame and fortune.
When we step out of marriage to see Fu Seoul, we will find that she is also a heroine who works hard to make money, and is a brave and independent strong woman.
Even if she is not perfect, she will not attract public criticism, let alone become a standard for testing "bad women", allowing women to doubt and prove themselves.
Taking Fu Seoul’s face as the starting point and using unquantifiable appearance standards as the radius to shoot at ordinary women is very similar to the blind attacks of groups during the witch hunt period.
Although some people have long refuted the rationality of Fu Seoul's face law, saying that they or their friends have Fu Seoul's face, but they have a very good personality and no temper at all.
But many people would rather join this carnival and attack with unfounded labels than give up the power of trial that they have inexplicably obtained.
Fu Seoul may not have any evil deeds.
People who can create Fu Seoul's Law, just use a style of appearance to make judgments, and can hide behind the Internet and ask people who have a similar profile to Fu Seoul: Are you a saint or a devil?
And those women who self-certified, even if they proved that they were not the same witch as Fu Seoul, also planted a seed of original sin in their hearts, acted cautiously, just like the medieval women who were in danger of themselves.
Such witch hunting behavior not only exacerbates women’s insecurities.
More importantly, it indirectly leads to the further loss of certain rights of women.
Just as we have just talked about Fu Seoul’s strong girl style and the repressive behavior caused by the inequality of power between partners, they have all been covered up by the speculation that “Fu Seoul’s appearance = acrimonious”.
Take Mai Mai, who also looks like Fu Seoul, for example. Although she does have many psychological problems, she is just the epitome of many disadvantaged women who "marry hastily without reading too many books" .
She once opened a Taobao store and had her own business. She could cook a large table of dishes and donated money to rescue stray animals. was actually a good woman and a virtuous wife in the worldly sense.
Later, she was educated to be a good wife who relied on men, but her instinct prevented her from completely ignoring her own desires. But she never learned how to get the life she wanted on her own.
So she twisted in the twisted values and became a crazy woman in the attic.
The program makes use of the ignorance of "the little deer breaks into the dangerous forest", magnifies and focuses on the defects of an ordinary woman, and her amateur behavior becomes particularly glaring and vicious.
If we delve deeper into her family of origin, economic status, and childbirth injuries, there is probably a lot that can be extended.
Of course, public figures have to bear more attention, and their actions are not without objections.
This kind of voice should only be directed at the matter itself, and must not be used to make indiscriminate attacks with unfounded labels.
Moreover, even if Fu Seoul has shortcomings, their appearance is the most difficult part for them to change and the program is most difficult to adjust.
But why is their appearance issue brought out and magnified infinitely?
More importantly, this kind of excessive pickiness about appearance often occurs in women.
Yang Zi is also extremely self-centered and indifferent to Huang Shengyi's emotions and values, but no one mentioned the need to use "Yang Zi's Law of Appearance" to conduct a large-scale male screening.
That’s why Yangcai said that this craze for judging Fu Seoul’s appearance is a only targeting women.
Witch hunting in the new era has become covert, and the burning rack used to execute witches has also been transformed into It exists in many ways such as ridicule, ridicule, and neglect, making it difficult to be easily discovered.
As a woman, if you are not careful, you may fall into your own cage.
Ordinary women, popular aesthetics
and the battle of life mentality23
However, there is also a voice saying: Although I know that Fu Seoul’s face is not good, it is really difficult to get along with people who have Fu Seoul’s appearance around me. Isn’t this about appearance? Is it a scientific way to know people?
Judging from Yang Yuemian’s ten years of experience, the reason for the formation of Fu Seoul’s face is related to their native face, popular aesthetics, and life mentality. And the three directions are not consistent, which will make them The style seems a bit awkward.
But this is not because they are "bad enough" that they look like this.
First of all, their faces are naturally round and have low resistance to fatness. If they are a little fatter, they will appear thicker, and the downward lines will be squeezed out, which may bring about the so-called "strong sense of oppression."
But as long as they are a little thinner, their facial firmness has increased , their temperament is quite gentle, and they look more intellectual.
Secondly, their masseter muscles are also relatively developed, which will also make the face wider and the contrast with the short chin more obvious.
When they make expressions, their facial width and masseter muscles jointly point to a sense of oppression, and their small chin is delicate and flexible.
So when the two are added together, there will be a sense of that is both stable and smooth. , because the appearance and appearance are less harmonious.
Weakening the presence of the masseter muscle, or increasing the stability of the chin can make this "stable + smooth" atmosphere disappear immediately.
Fu Seoul had his face slimmed down.
In addition, the long eyes are hidden, and the long mouth is tightly closed, so that the expression cannot be fully exposed, and it also gives people a visual stereotype that seems to be "hiding".
But this does not mean that they are this kind of people.
After all, Huang Shengyi also has some characteristics of "Fu Seoul's face" - developed masseter muscles + slender eyes + wide cleft mouth, but her personality is slow, gentle and comfortable.
This kind of mouth and eye characteristics may also be because their facial movements are too much. The orbicularis oculi and perioral muscles have been over-exercised, showing a tense state.
However, as long as they are relaxed and their muscles are not tense, their expressions will not be filled with strong contempt.
So some people, will choose to inject botulinum toxin to relax the facial muscles and get rid of the fierce feeling.
In fact, in the final analysis, this "Fu Seoul face" is one of the looks of ordinary women, because is too ordinary and the base is large enough, There are so many people who can verify the accuracy of the so-called "Fu Seoul's Law".
In addition to their original looks, their styles are somewhat inconsistent with their original templates, which further creates a separation in temperament.
Moreover, this division also reflects the dilemma of many middle-aged women in becoming beautiful.
Both Fu Seoul and Mai Lin have said that they have strong appearance anxiety.
This kind of anxiety stems from the ordinary appearance of the native.
On the one hand, when people reach middle age, especially after having children, their faces are droopy, their bodies are out of shape, their skin color is dull, and their hair volume is reduced, and they lose a lot of self-confidence.
They were forced to abandon their previous style, but subjectively they wanted to keep up with the fashion and return to their girlhood, but they couldn't grasp the intensity.
There is a slight confrontation and game between the native appearance, aesthetic style and life mentality, , and the overall temperament will become inconsistent and smooth.
For example, Maimai once had a Shibuya hottie style, and she looked quite sunny at that time.
But perhaps because of the internal friction in marriage and childbirth damage, the huge energy consumption made Mai Mai thick and decadent.
At this time, light girlish elements are added to it, and will not be able to bear her simplicity and weight.
Fu Seoul also went through this period. The girlish twin ponytails not only did not help her age backwards, but were a bit inconsistent.
You must know that when middle-aged women have enough experience, their faces will naturally reveal complex style directions. When they are young, a single girlish style cannot interpret the exquisite temperament of middle-aged women.
If they still want to adopt a girlish style to regain their energy, they should accept their current selves and make a fusion and transformation.
transforms the girlish feeling you want into the charm of a mature woman, transforms your simplicity into stability and dignity, and makes up for the postpartum energy deficiency into a sense of energy and blood.
Instead of relying on makeup, it is better to rely on taking care of your body and adjusting your lifestyle.
is just right and comfortable, and can complement the complex temperament of middle-aged women.
If you can grasp the direction of your original appearance, style choice, and speaking and temperament brought by experience, you can also try to adjust yourself in the direction of wisdom and beauty.
For example, Fu Seoul looks much gentler and more stable now than when he was filming "Goodbye Lover", and he feels less condescending.
Finally, Yang wants to say that a person’s inner solution and outer solution have something in common.
Mai Mai’s current predicament also stems from the inability to clearly realize this.
She chose a sweet and girly style, which is already very refined, but if she wants a deeper sense of beauty, still needs to further establish a correct understanding of herself.
Similarly, Maimai has achieved financial and emotional satisfaction through marriage, But if you want to gain a deeper sense of value, you have to take the initiative to explore on your own.
In fact, this is the key to not being involved in witch hunting.
We all know that It is difficult to turn the world upside down.
Instead of accepting trial and joining in self-certification, it is better to firmly be yourself, continue the witch spirit, and cherish your body and soul.
Discover strength from yourself. Only such beauty can withstand your own scrutiny and cannot be easily destroyed by others. Who would have thought that in the latest episode of "Goodbye Love" on Thursday, Mai Lin would be attacked on a large scale again. When talking about divorce with Li Xingliang, Li Xingliang expressed that he wanted custody of his daughter. Because her daughter looks like him, she also doesn’t get along with Mai Lin. Mai Lin asked: "I have done so much for her, why should I understand her"? The two of them have come to this point. Netizens be like: Li Xingliang is inseparable. I only sympathize with Mai Lin's daughter. As a wife and mother, Mai Lin was attacked to dominate most of the hot search lists. She was even scolded for her appearance: " Fu Seoul looks". Because Mai Lin has a strong aggressive personality in marriage, she is exactly the same as Fu Seoul in the last season. The two of them also look very similar. They all have faces with broad round faces, pointed short chins, slender eyes, small mouths but wide clefts faces. So netizens who have tempered their poisonous mouths collectively call this kind of appearance - Fu Seoul's appearance , and use this to satirize their exquisite self-interest. "Fu Seoul's Law of Appearance" says: People with this kind of appearance are obviously selfish, but they speak plausibly; they look like smiling tigers, but in fact they have a strong sense of oppression. This kind of personality contrast is just like the sense of fragmentation brought about by their extremely wide cheeks and extremely narrow chin. It makes people very uncomfortable. For example, Mai Mai claims that he is a giving personality, but in fact he will constantly seek emotional value from his partner, subconsciously blame others and blame others. Another example is the accusation that Fu Seoul is good at using her female identity to portray herself as the weak one in marriage to seek benefits, even though she is the stronger one. uses Fu Seoul’s face to constantly introduce new women who can’t stand it. Netizens also commented that “the value of Fu Seoul’s face is still rising.” So in the eyes of many people, Fu Seoul’s appearance is the embodiment of the appearance. Some people say that the person who invented Fu Seoul’s face is really a genius! The people around me who are difficult to get along with, without exception, all look similar to Fu Seoul. Fu Seoul’s law does not deceive me. Some people think this is nonsense. Judging a person's character based on his face is a baseless cyber violence. However, in Yang’s view, this matter is not just a face-to-face discussion or online violence. The witch hunt is a behavior in the Middle Ages where people presupposed the sins of women and used absurd identification methods to label them as witches and impose criminal penalties. gained control. For example, in 1691, there was a witch trial trend in Salem Village, Massachusetts, USA. When a strange disease spreads in the village, it's easy to blame a few innocent witches. then tortured them and forced them to admit to unfounded charges. And there is nothing wrong with these witches. They are either strong, single, clean, and some even know medicine. Just did not conform to the image of submissive women in the Middle Ages, so she suffered unreasonable speculation and resentment, and suffered cruel punishment and persecution. Looking back at the Fu Seoul face incident, is it somewhat similar to the witch-hunting movement? Fu Seoul is not one of the witches whose appearance and personality are inconsistent with the gentle, respectful, thrifty and generous system. Fu Seoul’s character, mentality and way of doing things also bring about the B side of her personality - is extremely rational, brave and powerful, and has excellent eloquence. She went from a small-town woman who saved money to buy a house to a celebrity with both fame and fortune. When we step out of marriage to see Fu Seoul, we will find that she is also a heroine who works hard to make money, and is a brave and independent strong woman. Even if she is not perfect, she will not attract public criticism, let alone become a standard for testing "bad women", allowing women to doubt and prove themselves. Taking Fu Seoul’s face as the starting point and using unquantifiable appearance standards as the radius to shoot at ordinary women is very similar to the blind attacks of groups during the witch hunt period. Although some people have long refuted the rationality of Fu Seoul's face law, saying that they or their friends have Fu Seoul's face, but they have a very good personality and no temper at all. But many people would rather join this carnival and attack with unfounded labels than give up the power of trial that they have inexplicably obtained. Fu Seoul may not have any evil deeds. People who can create Fu Seoul's Law, just use a style of appearance to make judgments, and can hide behind the Internet and ask people who have a similar profile to Fu Seoul: Are you a saint or a devil? And those women who self-certified, even if they proved that they were not the same witch as Fu Seoul, also planted a seed of original sin in their hearts, acted cautiously, just like the medieval women who were in danger of themselves. Such witch hunting behavior not only exacerbates women’s insecurities. More importantly, it indirectly leads to the further loss of certain rights of women. Just as we have just talked about Fu Seoul’s strong girl style and the repressive behavior caused by the inequality of power between partners, they have all been covered up by the speculation that “Fu Seoul’s appearance = acrimonious”. Take Mai Mai, who also looks like Fu Seoul, for example. Although she does have many psychological problems, she is just the epitome of many disadvantaged women who "marry hastily without reading too many books" . She once opened a Taobao store and had her own business. She could cook a large table of dishes and donated money to rescue stray animals. was actually a good woman and a virtuous wife in the worldly sense. Later, she was educated to be a good wife who relied on men, but her instinct prevented her from completely ignoring her own desires. But she never learned how to get the life she wanted on her own. So she twisted in the twisted values and became a crazy woman in the attic. The program makes use of the ignorance of "the little deer breaks into the dangerous forest", magnifies and focuses on the defects of an ordinary woman, and her amateur behavior becomes particularly glaring and vicious. If we delve deeper into her family of origin, economic status, and childbirth injuries, there is probably a lot that can be extended. Of course, public figures have to bear more attention, and their actions are not without objections. This kind of voice should only be directed at the matter itself, and must not be used to make indiscriminate attacks with unfounded labels. Moreover, even if Fu Seoul has shortcomings, their appearance is the most difficult part for them to change and the program is most difficult to adjust. But why is their appearance issue brought out and magnified infinitely? More importantly, this kind of excessive pickiness about appearance often occurs in women. Yang Zi is also extremely self-centered and indifferent to Huang Shengyi's emotions and values, but no one mentioned the need to use "Yang Zi's Law of Appearance" to conduct a large-scale male screening. That’s why Yangcai said that this craze for judging Fu Seoul’s appearance is a only targeting women. Witch hunting in the new era has become covert, and the burning rack used to execute witches has also been transformed into It exists in many ways such as ridicule, ridicule, and neglect, making it difficult to be easily discovered. As a woman, if you are not careful, you may fall into your own cage. However, there is also a voice saying: Although I know that Fu Seoul’s face is not good, it is really difficult to get along with people who have Fu Seoul’s appearance around me. Isn’t this about appearance? Is it a scientific way to know people? Judging from Yang Yuemian’s ten years of experience, the reason for the formation of Fu Seoul’s face is related to their native face, popular aesthetics, and life mentality. And the three directions are not consistent, which will make them The style seems a bit awkward. But this is not because they are "bad enough" that they look like this. First of all, their faces are naturally round and have low resistance to fatness. If they are a little fatter, they will appear thicker, and the downward lines will be squeezed out, which may bring about the so-called "strong sense of oppression." But as long as they are a little thinner, their facial firmness has increased , their temperament is quite gentle, and they look more intellectual. Secondly, their masseter muscles are also relatively developed, which will also make the face wider and the contrast with the short chin more obvious. When they make expressions, their facial width and masseter muscles jointly point to a sense of oppression, and their small chin is delicate and flexible. So when the two are added together, there will be a sense of that is both stable and smooth. , because the appearance and appearance are less harmonious. Weakening the presence of the masseter muscle, or increasing the stability of the chin can make this "stable + smooth" atmosphere disappear immediately. Fu Seoul had his face slimmed down. In addition, the long eyes are hidden, and the long mouth is tightly closed, so that the expression cannot be fully exposed, and it also gives people a visual stereotype that seems to be "hiding". But this does not mean that they are this kind of people. After all, Huang Shengyi also has some characteristics of "Fu Seoul's face" - developed masseter muscles + slender eyes + wide cleft mouth, but her personality is slow, gentle and comfortable. This kind of mouth and eye characteristics may also be because their facial movements are too much. The orbicularis oculi and perioral muscles have been over-exercised, showing a tense state. However, as long as they are relaxed and their muscles are not tense, their expressions will not be filled with strong contempt. So some people, will choose to inject botulinum toxin to relax the facial muscles and get rid of the fierce feeling. In fact, in the final analysis, this "Fu Seoul face" is one of the looks of ordinary women, because is too ordinary and the base is large enough, There are so many people who can verify the accuracy of the so-called "Fu Seoul's Law". In addition to their original looks, their styles are somewhat inconsistent with their original templates, which further creates a separation in temperament. Moreover, this division also reflects the dilemma of many middle-aged women in becoming beautiful. Both Fu Seoul and Mai Lin have said that they have strong appearance anxiety. This kind of anxiety stems from the ordinary appearance of the native. On the one hand, when people reach middle age, especially after having children, their faces are droopy, their bodies are out of shape, their skin color is dull, and their hair volume is reduced, and they lose a lot of self-confidence. They were forced to abandon their previous style, but subjectively they wanted to keep up with the fashion and return to their girlhood, but they couldn't grasp the intensity. There is a slight confrontation and game between the native appearance, aesthetic style and life mentality, , and the overall temperament will become inconsistent and smooth. For example, Maimai once had a Shibuya hottie style, and she looked quite sunny at that time. But perhaps because of the internal friction in marriage and childbirth damage, the huge energy consumption made Mai Mai thick and decadent. At this time, light girlish elements are added to it, and will not be able to bear her simplicity and weight. Fu Seoul also went through this period. The girlish twin ponytails not only did not help her age backwards, but were a bit inconsistent. You must know that when middle-aged women have enough experience, their faces will naturally reveal complex style directions. When they are young, a single girlish style cannot interpret the exquisite temperament of middle-aged women. If they still want to adopt a girlish style to regain their energy, they should accept their current selves and make a fusion and transformation. transforms the girlish feeling you want into the charm of a mature woman, transforms your simplicity into stability and dignity, and makes up for the postpartum energy deficiency into a sense of energy and blood. Instead of relying on makeup, it is better to rely on taking care of your body and adjusting your lifestyle. is just right and comfortable, and can complement the complex temperament of middle-aged women. If you can grasp the direction of your original appearance, style choice, and speaking and temperament brought by experience, you can also try to adjust yourself in the direction of wisdom and beauty. For example, Fu Seoul looks much gentler and more stable now than when he was filming "Goodbye Lover", and he feels less condescending. Finally, Yang wants to say that a person’s inner solution and outer solution have something in common. Mai Mai’s current predicament also stems from the inability to clearly realize this. She chose a sweet and girly style, which is already very refined, but if she wants a deeper sense of beauty, still needs to further establish a correct understanding of herself. Similarly, Maimai has achieved financial and emotional satisfaction through marriage, But if you want to gain a deeper sense of value, you have to take the initiative to explore on your own. In fact, this is the key to not being involved in witch hunting. We all know that It is difficult to turn the world upside down. Instead of accepting trial and joining in self-certification, it is better to firmly be yourself, continue the witch spirit, and cherish your body and soul. Discover strength from yourself. Only such beauty can withstand your own scrutiny and cannot be easily destroyed by others. Judging Fu Seoul’s face is a witch hunt in the new era.
Ordinary women, popular aesthetics
and the battle of life mentality23
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