Jimu News Commentator Qu Jing Recently, the topic "Wei Zichen, a fourth-generation member of the TF family, is suspected of being bullied at school" has become a hot topic and attracted attention. A video posted online showed a boy's head being pushed down on a stool by a classma

Jimu News commentator Qu Jing

Recently, the topic "Wei Zichen, the fourth generation member of the TF family, is suspected of being bullied at school" has become a hot topic and attracted attention. A video posted online by

shows a boy's head being pushed down on a stool by a classmate. He then stood up and picked up his schoolbag, with the caption "My Brother Long also made Wei Zichen real." Another picture was exposed, showing that Wei Zichen was allegedly insulted by many words on the campus wall.

Screenshots of a video of Wei Zichen being bullied on campus

On November 25, an account claiming to be Wei Zichen’s mother made a statement through social media to clarify the matter. She said that after verification, Wei Zichen was playing with his classmates after class, and it was not campus bullying. Moreover, several classmates usually have a good relationship without any conflicts. She added that the scars on Wei Zichen's arms were due to allergies and he often scratched himself. On November 26, the account posted again, saying that the family was very angry after reading the insulting message on the "campus wall," and the school immediately removed the display board.

An account claiming to be Wei Zichen’s mother posted twice in response to

On November 26, a staff member from the administrative office of Chongqing Bashu Middle School said that all departments of the school would immediately work with the District Public Security Bureau and the District Education Committee to conduct an on-site investigation with the full participation of parents. We also called for monitoring and found out that the situation of Wei Zichen being bullied on campus was not true.

3-year-old Wei Zichen is a "fellow junior" of the top star tfboys. His company, Times Fengjun, is a "star training factory" that is committed to discovering potential trainees and making them popular among fans through training and market operations. Under the witness of his wife, he gradually grew into an acting star.

A child like Wei Zichen already has a fixed fan base at a young age and has an idol aura, but at the same time he still studies and lives with ordinary classmates in school. This dual identity makes him stand out on campus and easily becomes The focus of attention may also arouse the envy or jealousy of peers , and indeed there is a greater risk of being isolated or bullied.

Therefore, when related videos appeared on the Internet, not only his fans, but also many netizens believed that these behaviors seemed extremely harmful and insulting, and fell into the category of campus bullying. Even though the school, education department and even Wei Zichen's mother later came forward to clarify that this was just a joke between classmates, the public's doubts still failed to subside.

In addition, a campus wall display board exposed on the Internet contained many insulting words against Wei Zichen. These vicious and vulgar messages are undoubtedly a type of verbal bullying and may have a negative impact on the victim's mental health and damage their self-esteem and self-confidence. What is even more worrying is that from these messages, it can be seen that Wei Zichen is indeed surrounded by emotions of dissatisfaction and rejection, and these emotions have the potential to transform into physical violence and bullying. According to Wei Zichen's mother, the school's handling method was only to remove the display boards and did not mention more handling and response measures. This is an understatement and makes its clarification seem insufficient.

Wei Zichen’s mother said in response to this matter that she knew very well that as a trainee, “some people like Wei Zichen and some people don’t like it.” She also understood that playing between boys sometimes does not look like joking. This is their fault. "Caused by physiological characteristics." These remarks also caused controversy.

Before becoming an idol trainee, Wei Zichen was first a minor student. As an idol, some people may not like him, but as a minor student, his legitimate rights and interests should be fully protected and he should not suffer any form of bullying. . After all, he is just a 13-year-old child, and adults cannot let him carry too much "idol baggage".

According to human nature, the child's mother should pay more attention to the child's safety than strangers. If the child is really bullied, she should not let it go so lightly. But in reality, the boundary between playfulness and bullying among classmates has never been particularly clear, and many teachers and parents cannot even accurately judge it. This is also an important reason why everyone is worried that the incident has not been correctly characterized.

Playfulness and bullying must not be confused. The following factors should be considered when distinguishing the two: First, the unequal balance of power, bullying must be the oppression of the weak by the strong; secondly, playfulness is usually harmless, bullying It is the deliberate harm to the victim's body and mind; in addition, there is the persistence of the behavior, that is, whether the bullying and insults occur repeatedly and frequently. Only by accurately grasping these standards can we effectively prevent and respond to the heartbreaking chaos of school bullying.

The reason why this incident has attracted such widespread attention is, on the one hand, because of Wei Zichen's personal popularity, and on the other hand, it is also due to the public's high sensitivity to the issue of campus bullying. In order to respond to public concerns and better protect the legitimate rights and interests of minors, parents, schools and education authorities should publish the investigation results as detailed and transparently as possible while protecting the privacy of minors, so as to build a safer and more secure campus for children. The environment will also help more teachers and parents distinguish the boundaries between playing and bullying, thereby strengthening education and guidance for students, nipping problems in the bud, and making bullying disappear in its infancy.

(Source: Jimu News)

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