This winter, when it comes to who the Ziwei star of domestic entertainment variety shows is, Mai Lin wants to say that she is second, and no one dares to claim to be first.
When "Goodbye Lover 4" first aired, everyone watched it for Huang Shengyi and Yang Zi , so the popularity of the first two episodes (2024.10.17) was that Huang Shengyi and Yang Zi were far ahead. The names of Li Xingliang and his wife are not even on the entry, let alone the extremely ordinary word "Mai Lin".
But Mango TV accidentally selected Mai Lin, who is known for her NPD personality disorder (narcissistic personality disorder) - a middle-aged housewife with an average appearance, extremely plain, but vowed to make herself the center of the universe. , when the show aired on the third episode (2024.10.30), the popularity of "Mai Lin" and "Li Xingliang" rose to the third and fourth places, second only to Huang Shengyi and Yang Zi.
But this is just the first appearance of npd people, the finale is yet to come. When
aired the fourth episode (2024.11.08), Mai Lin jumped to the first place with lightning speed, but at this time Li Xingliang as her husband, was still ranked fourth. How could this happen? Can it be done? After all, Mai Lin said that she hoped that Ryoko would stand on a bigger stage in the future.
As a result, Mai Lin, the popular npd model, continued to work hard. When the fifth issue (2024.11.14) was broadcast, she and Li Xingliang firmly ranked among the top two search terms for domestic entertainment variety shows with a cliff-like advantage. Even Huang Shengyi All beyond reach.
npd One of the most obvious characteristics of the personality is that "needs to receive continuous attention or praise. Once he finds himself ignored or criticized, he will immediately become extremely sensitive" . This NPD characteristic of Mai Lin (hereinafter referred to as "Mai Mai") is particularly obvious, and it is simply out of control.
In a game session in the fifth issue, when asked "who among the six people best meets the criteria for a perfect partner?" Li Xingliang did not point to Mai Mai, and of course Mai Mai did not point to Li Xingliang.
At that time, Maimai asked Li Xingliang, "Who did you want to point at just now?" Li Xingliang smiled and did not answer. Maimai directly said, "I guess you want to choose Huang Shengyi, because I think it is Shengyi." .
In fact, when the game progressed to this point, Mai Mai did not show any anger at all. It was not until Yang Zicue said, "Mai Mai will cry again later" that Mai Mai suddenly collapsed emotionally. NPD personality It was immediately revealed.
Because apart from her husband, Yang Zi and Liu Shuang chose their wives respectively. Mai Mai found that she had become the only neglected woman among the three wives, and her emotions were about to break out.
But at this time, everyone thought that Mai Mai's collapse and crying was just a whim, and it should calm down soon. After all, in the eyes of ordinary people, it is not a big deal that her husband did not choose her, and it does not prove that he does not love her.
But as an NPD personality, Mai Mai will not let go of such a good opportunity to be noticed. Mai Mai realized that when she was hiding her face and crying, no one paid much attention to it, so she took the initiative to cue Yang Zi and asked Yang Zi to help pass her a tissue so that she could wipe away those few drops of raging tears.
At this time, everyone's attention began to focus on her. She couldn't let the atmosphere slowly dissipate, so she immediately said sensitive words such as "I won't record" and "I am absent to take a rest."
Because she knows that once this game is missing someone, it will be difficult to continue completely. Then everyone will definitely try to find ways to solve her emotions, and her "sense of being noticed" will be fully charged.
The next plot development is basically according to Maimai's presets. For example, Yang Zi, Liu Shuang, Huang Shengyi and Ge Xi took turns to comfort her. Everyone kept reminding Li Xingliang to apologize to her quickly. She had already Prepare yourself to welcome the attention of thousands of people.
is just the only bug in the preset - Li Xingliang no longer accepts her tricks. Li Xingliang knows Maimai's character too well. After more than ten years of married life, Li Xingliang began to get tired of the endless and unprincipled life of coaxing Maimai. , my heart is really tired and even numb.
At this moment, Li Xingliang didn't listen to everyone and didn't immediately kneel down under Mai Mai's "pomegranate skirt". Instead, he chose to go outside alone for a while.
The key part of the game set by Maimai failed with Li Xingliang, so she wanted to use ruthless tactics to tell Li Xingliang, "I am the pillar of your life, and I am the most important person to you."
Later, when talking calmly with Li Xingliang in the dark, Maimai said, "If we really get divorced, will the child and money belong to me?" to make Li Xingliang realize the seriousness of his neglect.
However, Li Xingliang was not frightened, nor did he choose to compromise or admit his mistake. Instead, he said very firmly, "I refuse to answer" and "I don't want to discuss this issue now," with a firm tone and no signs of weakness.
Maimai's provocation method didn't work. He continued to say, "Well, the money belongs to you and the children belong to me, okay?", which was to force Li Xingliang to express his position to show his importance to the entire family and the entire marriage.
Li Xingliang remained unmoved and reiterated his refusal to discuss, leaving Mai Mai with nothing to do.
At this point, Mai Mai’s trick failed and she could only choose to go back to the house in disgrace.
In fact, Maimai's NPD personality, in addition to "needing to be paid attention to at all times", is also quite obvious in "inflated self-importance" and "arrogance that ignores the feelings of others" .
First is "inflated self-importance" .
Do you still remember the episode when Zhang Quanling came to interview the six of them? Li Xingliang was asked a question, "If Mai Mai disappears, will your life get better or worse?"
Li Xingliang said that life can still run normally and will not collapse, but it will just do well without Mai Mai. This answer is actually quite normal. After all, the world really doesn’t say who can’t survive without the other.
But at this time, Mai Mai was not happy, because she felt that 's "inflated self-importance" was questioned at this moment. She had to make the other party say that she could not live without her, so that her heart could achieve true balance, so He began to fight back to punish Li Xingliang.
So when Zhang Quanling asked her "What will your life be like after Li Xingliang disappears?", Mai Mai immediately said that her life would make a qualitative leap because she no longer had to worry about Li Xingliang's big trouble.
At this time, Mai Mai had forgotten that she was a full-time wife with no income. Without Li Xingliang, she had no financial source at all. What could she do to ensure the quality of life? From what she said, "Those rich boys who were chased when they were young?"
Another point is "arrogance that ignores the feelings of others" .
Li Xingliang said that Mai Mai never paid attention to his music, let alone tried to get into his heart. Even if Li Xingliang sometimes told her with great interest that he wanted to start a band on campus, she would just chuckle. Then he said "It's up to you" and walked away, completely ignoring Liangzi's feelings, and not even thinking that Li Xingliang's musical talent was a very valuable thing.
At that moment, the "arrogant attitude" of Mai Mai's npd personality was really disgusting. Even papi Jiang in the observation room couldn't help but said "how strange", because it is impossible for a couple to love each other normally and have a wife. She would attack and despise her husband's career or hobbies in this way.
From the preview of the next issue, we can see that in the face of Maimai's "divorce suppression", Li Xingliang chose to be tough with her and said, "I will give you three-quarters of the property, but I will not give in to the child. I will definitely I want to fight with you for the custody of the child." This shows that Li Xingliang is really fed up with her.
I don’t know how Mai Mai, who has an explosive NPD personality, will respond to “Li Xingliang’s awakening and rise” and what tricks he will use to defend his NPD sovereignty. Let’s wait and see.
This winter, when it comes to who the Ziwei star of domestic entertainment variety shows is, Mai Lin wants to say that she is second, and no one dares to claim to be first.
When "Goodbye Lover 4" first aired, everyone watched it for Huang Shengyi and Yang Zi , so the popularity of the first two episodes (2024.10.17) was that Huang Shengyi and Yang Zi were far ahead. The names of Li Xingliang and his wife are not even on the entry, let alone the extremely ordinary word "Mai Lin".
But Mango TV accidentally selected Mai Lin, who is known for her NPD personality disorder (narcissistic personality disorder) - a middle-aged housewife with an average appearance, extremely plain, but vowed to make herself the center of the universe. , when the show aired on the third episode (2024.10.30), the popularity of "Mai Lin" and "Li Xingliang" rose to the third and fourth places, second only to Huang Shengyi and Yang Zi.
But this is just the first appearance of npd people, the finale is yet to come. When
aired the fourth episode (2024.11.08), Mai Lin jumped to the first place with lightning speed, but at this time Li Xingliang as her husband, was still ranked fourth. How could this happen? Can it be done? After all, Mai Lin said that she hoped that Ryoko would stand on a bigger stage in the future.
As a result, Mai Lin, the popular npd model, continued to work hard. When the fifth issue (2024.11.14) was broadcast, she and Li Xingliang firmly ranked among the top two search terms for domestic entertainment variety shows with a cliff-like advantage. Even Huang Shengyi All beyond reach.
npd One of the most obvious characteristics of the personality is that "needs to receive continuous attention or praise. Once he finds himself ignored or criticized, he will immediately become extremely sensitive" . This NPD characteristic of Mai Lin (hereinafter referred to as "Mai Mai") is particularly obvious, and it is simply out of control.
In a game session in the fifth issue, when asked "who among the six people best meets the criteria for a perfect partner?" Li Xingliang did not point to Mai Mai, and of course Mai Mai did not point to Li Xingliang.
At that time, Maimai asked Li Xingliang, "Who did you want to point at just now?" Li Xingliang smiled and did not answer. Maimai directly said, "I guess you want to choose Huang Shengyi, because I think it is Shengyi." .
In fact, when the game progressed to this point, Mai Mai did not show any anger at all. It was not until Yang Zicue said, "Mai Mai will cry again later" that Mai Mai suddenly collapsed emotionally. NPD personality It was immediately revealed.
Because apart from her husband, Yang Zi and Liu Shuang chose their wives respectively. Mai Mai found that she had become the only neglected woman among the three wives, and her emotions were about to break out.
But at this time, everyone thought that Mai Mai's collapse and crying was just a whim, and it should calm down soon. After all, in the eyes of ordinary people, it is not a big deal that her husband did not choose her, and it does not prove that he does not love her.
But as an NPD personality, Mai Mai will not let go of such a good opportunity to be noticed. Mai Mai realized that when she was hiding her face and crying, no one paid much attention to it, so she took the initiative to cue Yang Zi and asked Yang Zi to help pass her a tissue so that she could wipe away those few drops of raging tears.
At this time, everyone's attention began to focus on her. She couldn't let the atmosphere slowly dissipate, so she immediately said sensitive words such as "I won't record" and "I am absent to take a rest."
Because she knows that once this game is missing someone, it will be difficult to continue completely. Then everyone will definitely try to find ways to solve her emotions, and her "sense of being noticed" will be fully charged.
The next plot development is basically according to Maimai's presets. For example, Yang Zi, Liu Shuang, Huang Shengyi and Ge Xi took turns to comfort her. Everyone kept reminding Li Xingliang to apologize to her quickly. She had already Prepare yourself to welcome the attention of thousands of people.
is just the only bug in the preset - Li Xingliang no longer accepts her tricks. Li Xingliang knows Maimai's character too well. After more than ten years of married life, Li Xingliang began to get tired of the endless and unprincipled life of coaxing Maimai. , my heart is really tired and even numb.
At this moment, Li Xingliang didn't listen to everyone and didn't immediately kneel down under Mai Mai's "pomegranate skirt". Instead, he chose to go outside alone for a while.
The key part of the game set by Maimai failed with Li Xingliang, so she wanted to use ruthless tactics to tell Li Xingliang, "I am the pillar of your life, and I am the most important person to you."
Later, when talking calmly with Li Xingliang in the dark, Maimai said, "If we really get divorced, will the child and money belong to me?" to make Li Xingliang realize the seriousness of his neglect.
However, Li Xingliang was not frightened, nor did he choose to compromise or admit his mistake. Instead, he said very firmly, "I refuse to answer" and "I don't want to discuss this issue now," with a firm tone and no signs of weakness.
Maimai's provocation method didn't work. He continued to say, "Well, the money belongs to you and the children belong to me, okay?", which was to force Li Xingliang to express his position to show his importance to the entire family and the entire marriage.
Li Xingliang remained unmoved and reiterated his refusal to discuss, leaving Mai Mai with nothing to do.
At this point, Mai Mai’s trick failed and she could only choose to go back to the house in disgrace.
In fact, Maimai's NPD personality, in addition to "needing to be paid attention to at all times", is also quite obvious in "inflated self-importance" and "arrogance that ignores the feelings of others" .
First is "inflated self-importance" .
Do you still remember the episode when Zhang Quanling came to interview the six of them? Li Xingliang was asked a question, "If Mai Mai disappears, will your life get better or worse?"
Li Xingliang said that life can still run normally and will not collapse, but it will just do well without Mai Mai. This answer is actually quite normal. After all, the world really doesn’t say who can’t survive without the other.
But at this time, Mai Mai was not happy, because she felt that 's "inflated self-importance" was questioned at this moment. She had to make the other party say that she could not live without her, so that her heart could achieve true balance, so He began to fight back to punish Li Xingliang.
So when Zhang Quanling asked her "What will your life be like after Li Xingliang disappears?", Mai Mai immediately said that her life would make a qualitative leap because she no longer had to worry about Li Xingliang's big trouble.
At this time, Mai Mai had forgotten that she was a full-time wife with no income. Without Li Xingliang, she had no financial source at all. What could she do to ensure the quality of life? From what she said, "Those rich boys who were chased when they were young?"
Another point is "arrogance that ignores the feelings of others" .
Li Xingliang said that Mai Mai never paid attention to his music, let alone tried to get into his heart. Even if Li Xingliang sometimes told her with great interest that he wanted to start a band on campus, she would just chuckle. Then he said "It's up to you" and walked away, completely ignoring Liangzi's feelings, and not even thinking that Li Xingliang's musical talent was a very valuable thing.
At that moment, the "arrogant attitude" of Mai Mai's npd personality was really disgusting. Even papi Jiang in the observation room couldn't help but said "how strange", because it is impossible for a couple to love each other normally and have a wife. She would attack and despise her husband's career or hobbies in this way.
From the preview of the next issue, we can see that in the face of Maimai's "divorce suppression", Li Xingliang chose to be tough with her and said, "I will give you three-quarters of the property, but I will not give in to the child. I will definitely I want to fight with you for the custody of the child." This shows that Li Xingliang is really fed up with her.
I don’t know how Mai Mai, who has an explosive NPD personality, will respond to “Li Xingliang’s awakening and rise” and what tricks he will use to defend his NPD sovereignty. Let’s wait and see.