"Goodbye Lover 4" Nowadays, netizens' comments on Mai Lin are always inseparable from the word "crazy", and guests' summaries of Li Xingliang are always inseparable from the word "obtuse".
And Li Xingliang's "bluntness" often becomes the trigger for Mai Lin's "crazy".
During the portrait appreciation session, Mai Lin suffered from appearance anxiety because the artist painted her too ugly. In order to cover up her hurt and embarrassment, she smiled exaggeratedly and teased her.
Ge Xi, who is thoughtful, immediately noticed that Mai Lin was in an abnormal mood, but Li Xingliang believed that his wife's reaction was to return to her daily state. He was more concerned about Mai Lin not complaining about the portrait, for fear of affecting the painter's feelings.
During the mutual voting session among the guests, when faced with the question "Who is the perfect partner in your heart?", Yang Zi and Liu Shuang both pointed at their wives. Everyone could see that this was actually an emotional intelligence question.
It doesn’t matter what kind of partner they desire in their hearts. What matters is whether they want to continue with their current partner if they have problems with their current partner and need to go on a marriage observation variety show to solve them.
If you don’t want to continue, then make your own choice, because it doesn’t matter whether the other party will be sad or unable to step down.
If you want to continue, unless your partner has a very open-minded personality, you basically have to choose your own partner, otherwise this matter will definitely become a barrier between the two.
Even the straight man Hu Yanbin in the observation room is aware of this.
However, another Li Xingliang who was doing multiple-choice questions at the scene used the "science and engineering man's logic" and went into the mode of taking the questions seriously.
After thinking about it, he pointed his finger at Ge Xi. After realizing that he was the only one not pointing at his wife, Li Xingliang quickly changed it to point at Huang Shengyi . He blindly guessed that maybe he thought that by choosing Huang Shengyi, he could alleviate the embarrassment by saying that Huang Shengyi was a goddess.
Audiences who have watched "Goodbye Lover 4" from the beginning know that Li Xingliang's wife Mailin has very serious internal conflicts. She is anxious about her appearance and feels that Li Xingliang does not love her. She is very sensitive on these issues.
Even if an unknown artist painted Mai Lin in a different way, she would break her guard. Her husband, who shared the same bed with her, chose someone else as her perfect partner. Mai Lin could no longer control her emotions. After she couldn't hold on any longer, she chose to leave. ease.
Regarding Li Xingliang's low emotional intelligence choice on this issue, the guests all comforted Mai Lin with their "insensitivity". They all recognized Li Xingliang's love for Mai Lin and regretted that Li Xingliang was "insensitive" in terms of emotions.
's "insensitive power" was brought into full play when everyone worked together to solve the problems between Li and Mai.
Originally, other guests were comforting Mai Lin, and Mai Lin was waiting for Li Xingliang to coax her, but Li Xingliang called Ge Xi out alone, hoping to communicate with Ge Xi privately first.
is... very confusing.
Seeing this, Mai Lin unexpectedly broke her guard again and ran to the bathroom to cry bitterly.
Why did Li Xingliang ask Ge Xi to come out? He told Ge Xi that he was actually referring to her when he asked the question "perfect partner"... Ge Xi os: Who am I? Where am I? Can I pretend not to hear?
Regardless of the camera supervision of the program team or the relationship between several guests, it is impossible for Li Xingliang to have thoughts about Ge Xi. He purely wanted to explain why he chose Ge Xi.
Because Ge Xi pays attention to Liu Shuang's preferences and gives gifts according to Liu Shuang's preferences, but Mai Lin refuses to understand Li Xingliang's preferences and refuses to be exposed to the music he loves with Li Xingliang.
Li Xingliang may have felt that by telling Ge Xi his true inner choice, he could find resonance with Ge Xi, his "perfect partner" template, and understand why he did not choose Mai Lin.
However, when everyone sees this scene, they probably don’t care about why Li Xingliang chose Ge Xi. They are more wondering: Is it appropriate for him to do this?
Whether it is to emphasize to Ge Xi alone that he chose her, or to have a private chat with Ge Xi on this critical point, both Mai Lin and Ge Xi will be in an awkward state at the same time, especially Ge Xi, who obviously does not want to talk about this.
Fortunately, Ge Xi's reaction ability was strong enough, and she immediately changed the topic and refused to answer Li Xingliang's words. Instead, she used her own experience of getting along with Mai Lin to guide Li Xingliang to deal with Mai Lin's emotions.
Seeing this, you will find that Li Xingliang usually seems to be very understanding of the world. For example, he would consider whether complaining about the portrait would affect the artist's work. During the smoked chicken incident, he would also realize that Mai Lin's ridicule was inappropriate.
But in Mai Lin's case, Li Xingliang's insensitivity will always explode at critical nodes.
When "Goodbye Lover 4" first aired, Li Xingliang was the most adept at confessing in front of the camera among all the guests. His words "I joined "Goodbye Lover" because I didn't want to see my lover again" touched many people.
In daily life, Li Xingliang expressed his affection to Mai Lin without hesitation, praising her for smiling like Maggie Cheung and looking like Namie Amuro , wanting to appease her anxiety about appearance and figure.
But when Mai Lin really loses control of her emotions, Li Xingliang will be very blunt, either unaware, or obsessed with "Why am I the one to coax her? Can't I have my own demands?"
Regarding this situation, most of the guests thought that Li Xingliang had experienced too many similar conflict cycles and was tired. In other words, his experience made him know that he could not solve Mai Lin's emotions, so he was afraid to face her emotions.
This situation should be familiar to many viewers who have a combination of strong + silent parents in reality. Sometimes when family members experience habitual emotional breakdowns, they lose empathy when they fail to solve the root cause after too many attempts.
This symptom appeared in guest Ge Xi. She confessed that she had only been with Mai Lin for a week, and she had already begun to lose empathy when faced with her tears. This shows how much Mai Lin's character consumes the enthusiasm around her. .
Of course, whether Mai Lin was consuming Li Xingliang or Li Xingliang was tired of dealing with Mai Lin, the couple had something in common. They both wanted to prove something to a third party.
Mai Lin wanted to prove to a third party that she and Li Xingliang were in love.
When facing Li Xingliang, she was always obsessed with "you don't love me", but in terms of actions, she was also very persistent in proving that neither she nor Li Xingliang wanted to divorce. She took the lead in setting the tone that the two of them would never divorce and neither wanted to divorce. .
When the show first started recording, the relationship between the two was so sweet that it seemed like they were participating in a love show.
Mai Lin's several attempts to break defenses were almost all based on Li Xingliang's "insensitive power" to break the bubble of their love and compatibility. In marriage, she needed Li Xingliang's response. Outside of marriage, she was very concerned about the opinions of third parties.
As for Li Xingliang, it seemed that he wanted a third party to see Mai Lin's "torture" to him.
Judging from Li Xingliang's keenness in human relations and his observation of the emotions of other guests, he is obviously not a fool. On the contrary, he is very smart, but his smartness will always fail when Mai Lin goes "crazy".
is not so much emotionally blunt as he is selectively "blunt".
Other guests were worried that he would not be able to express himself in front of Mai Lin, but when facing the camera, Li Xingliang had amazing output ability and could express love and pain clearly. Even Liu Shuang, the king of eloquence, had nothing to say after listening. .
avoids facing problems with his partner and exposes his dissatisfaction with his partner through third-party communication.
Objectively speaking, perhaps what this pair needs to do more is to figure out what kind of result they want, be honest with themselves, and do not have to prove anything to a third party, because the third party can only discuss it. Can't give them results.
"Goodbye Lover 4" Nowadays, netizens' comments on Mai Lin are always inseparable from the word "crazy", and guests' summaries of Li Xingliang are always inseparable from the word "obtuse".
And Li Xingliang's "bluntness" often becomes the trigger for Mai Lin's "crazy".
During the portrait appreciation session, Mai Lin suffered from appearance anxiety because the artist painted her too ugly. In order to cover up her hurt and embarrassment, she smiled exaggeratedly and teased her.
Ge Xi, who is thoughtful, immediately noticed that Mai Lin was in an abnormal mood, but Li Xingliang believed that his wife's reaction was to return to her daily state. He was more concerned about Mai Lin not complaining about the portrait, for fear of affecting the painter's feelings.
During the mutual voting session among the guests, when faced with the question "Who is the perfect partner in your heart?", Yang Zi and Liu Shuang both pointed at their wives. Everyone could see that this was actually an emotional intelligence question.
It doesn’t matter what kind of partner they desire in their hearts. What matters is whether they want to continue with their current partner if they have problems with their current partner and need to go on a marriage observation variety show to solve them.
If you don’t want to continue, then make your own choice, because it doesn’t matter whether the other party will be sad or unable to step down.
If you want to continue, unless your partner has a very open-minded personality, you basically have to choose your own partner, otherwise this matter will definitely become a barrier between the two.
Even the straight man Hu Yanbin in the observation room is aware of this.
However, another Li Xingliang who was doing multiple-choice questions at the scene used the "science and engineering man's logic" and went into the mode of taking the questions seriously.
After thinking about it, he pointed his finger at Ge Xi. After realizing that he was the only one not pointing at his wife, Li Xingliang quickly changed it to point at Huang Shengyi . He blindly guessed that maybe he thought that by choosing Huang Shengyi, he could alleviate the embarrassment by saying that Huang Shengyi was a goddess.
Audiences who have watched "Goodbye Lover 4" from the beginning know that Li Xingliang's wife Mailin has very serious internal conflicts. She is anxious about her appearance and feels that Li Xingliang does not love her. She is very sensitive on these issues.
Even if an unknown artist painted Mai Lin in a different way, she would break her guard. Her husband, who shared the same bed with her, chose someone else as her perfect partner. Mai Lin could no longer control her emotions. After she couldn't hold on any longer, she chose to leave. ease.
Regarding Li Xingliang's low emotional intelligence choice on this issue, the guests all comforted Mai Lin with their "insensitivity". They all recognized Li Xingliang's love for Mai Lin and regretted that Li Xingliang was "insensitive" in terms of emotions.
's "insensitive power" was brought into full play when everyone worked together to solve the problems between Li and Mai.
Originally, other guests were comforting Mai Lin, and Mai Lin was waiting for Li Xingliang to coax her, but Li Xingliang called Ge Xi out alone, hoping to communicate with Ge Xi privately first.
is... very confusing.
Seeing this, Mai Lin unexpectedly broke her guard again and ran to the bathroom to cry bitterly.
Why did Li Xingliang ask Ge Xi to come out? He told Ge Xi that he was actually referring to her when he asked the question "perfect partner"... Ge Xi os: Who am I? Where am I? Can I pretend not to hear?
Regardless of the camera supervision of the program team or the relationship between several guests, it is impossible for Li Xingliang to have thoughts about Ge Xi. He purely wanted to explain why he chose Ge Xi.
Because Ge Xi pays attention to Liu Shuang's preferences and gives gifts according to Liu Shuang's preferences, but Mai Lin refuses to understand Li Xingliang's preferences and refuses to be exposed to the music he loves with Li Xingliang.
Li Xingliang may have felt that by telling Ge Xi his true inner choice, he could find resonance with Ge Xi, his "perfect partner" template, and understand why he did not choose Mai Lin.
However, when everyone sees this scene, they probably don’t care about why Li Xingliang chose Ge Xi. They are more wondering: Is it appropriate for him to do this?
Whether it is to emphasize to Ge Xi alone that he chose her, or to have a private chat with Ge Xi on this critical point, both Mai Lin and Ge Xi will be in an awkward state at the same time, especially Ge Xi, who obviously does not want to talk about this.
Fortunately, Ge Xi's reaction ability was strong enough, and she immediately changed the topic and refused to answer Li Xingliang's words. Instead, she used her own experience of getting along with Mai Lin to guide Li Xingliang to deal with Mai Lin's emotions.
Seeing this, you will find that Li Xingliang usually seems to be very understanding of the world. For example, he would consider whether complaining about the portrait would affect the artist's work. During the smoked chicken incident, he would also realize that Mai Lin's ridicule was inappropriate.
But in Mai Lin's case, Li Xingliang's insensitivity will always explode at critical nodes.
When "Goodbye Lover 4" first aired, Li Xingliang was the most adept at confessing in front of the camera among all the guests. His words "I joined "Goodbye Lover" because I didn't want to see my lover again" touched many people.
In daily life, Li Xingliang expressed his affection to Mai Lin without hesitation, praising her for smiling like Maggie Cheung and looking like Namie Amuro , wanting to appease her anxiety about appearance and figure.
But when Mai Lin really loses control of her emotions, Li Xingliang will be very blunt, either unaware, or obsessed with "Why am I the one to coax her? Can't I have my own demands?"
Regarding this situation, most of the guests thought that Li Xingliang had experienced too many similar conflict cycles and was tired. In other words, his experience made him know that he could not solve Mai Lin's emotions, so he was afraid to face her emotions.
This situation should be familiar to many viewers who have a combination of strong + silent parents in reality. Sometimes when family members experience habitual emotional breakdowns, they lose empathy when they fail to solve the root cause after too many attempts.
This symptom appeared in guest Ge Xi. She confessed that she had only been with Mai Lin for a week, and she had already begun to lose empathy when faced with her tears. This shows how much Mai Lin's character consumes the enthusiasm around her. .
Of course, whether Mai Lin was consuming Li Xingliang or Li Xingliang was tired of dealing with Mai Lin, the couple had something in common. They both wanted to prove something to a third party.
Mai Lin wanted to prove to a third party that she and Li Xingliang were in love.
When facing Li Xingliang, she was always obsessed with "you don't love me", but in terms of actions, she was also very persistent in proving that neither she nor Li Xingliang wanted to divorce. She took the lead in setting the tone that the two of them would never divorce and neither wanted to divorce. .
When the show first started recording, the relationship between the two was so sweet that it seemed like they were participating in a love show.
Mai Lin's several attempts to break defenses were almost all based on Li Xingliang's "insensitive power" to break the bubble of their love and compatibility. In marriage, she needed Li Xingliang's response. Outside of marriage, she was very concerned about the opinions of third parties.
As for Li Xingliang, it seemed that he wanted a third party to see Mai Lin's "torture" to him.
Judging from Li Xingliang's keenness in human relations and his observation of the emotions of other guests, he is obviously not a fool. On the contrary, he is very smart, but his smartness will always fail when Mai Lin goes "crazy".
is not so much emotionally blunt as he is selectively "blunt".
Other guests were worried that he would not be able to express himself in front of Mai Lin, but when facing the camera, Li Xingliang had amazing output ability and could express love and pain clearly. Even Liu Shuang, the king of eloquence, had nothing to say after listening. .
avoids facing problems with his partner and exposes his dissatisfaction with his partner through third-party communication.
Objectively speaking, perhaps what this pair needs to do more is to figure out what kind of result they want, be honest with themselves, and do not have to prove anything to a third party, because the third party can only discuss it. Can't give them results.
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