It's really obvious whether you love it or not.
Before his relationship was public, Yang Zi’s descriptions of Huang Shengyi were almost all praises.
Even when he was in front of the camera, even Huang Shengyi's eyes did not dare to stare for a long time.
Because within three seconds, he will be shy.
But now, this appreciation and love has long gone.
The rest is Huang’s forbearance and Yang’s arrogance.
and bring this arrogance into the show.
ignored the program rules and played tricks on the program team.
ignored the artist’s questions and went crazy alone.
ignored Huang Shengyi’s demand and pretended not to see it.
Some people always ask, what is the purpose of Yang Zi being on the show? What kind of native family can cultivate his character? What is the purpose of
?
is indeed becoming increasingly unclear.
said that he was trying to make Huang Shengyi famous again. Then he was too great and directly sacrificed his own image.
said that he cooperated with Huang Shengyi to solve the marriage problem, but he didn’t seem to be that loving.
said that he was performing for attention, but his acting skills have not reached this level of proficiency.
In short, it is difficult to judge the motivation.
But when it comes to his native family and the development of his character, there are indeed traces to follow.
Song Dandan once expressed a point of view on the show. She said: A person's strong inferiority complex will make you become inexplicably irrational.
If you put this point of view on Yang Zi, it seems to make sense why he behaves like this in the show.
is inseparable from inferiority, which can be traced back to when Yang Zi was young.
Yang Zi was born in a rural area. When he was a child, his native family was not rich, or even very poor.
According to his mother, the family once raised pigs. At that time, the two younger brothers (Yang Zi’s eldest and second brother) had not yet started a business, but fed pigs at home.
Yang Zi is the youngest child in the family. He is not willing to let him suffer and has never fed pigs.
But family conditions were not enough to support him in having a good life. He even did not even have a pair of winter cotton shoes before he was 11 years old.
Judging from the photos of Yang Zi when he was a child, he did not exaggerate.
The upper body is wearing an old cotton coat, but the feet are wearing a pair of lace-up single shoes. This outfit cannot be associated with the word "wealthy".
is very different from Huang Shengyi, who was born in Shanghai, his parents went abroad to study, he received advanced education since he was a child, and he enjoys a comfortable life.
"Poor" ran through his entire childhood.
Later, the two brothers started a business with their sister. His parents were busy making a living and had no time to take him with them, so he lived with his grandmother.
, as the youngest child in the family, could only live with his grandma at the age when he needed his mother the most.
In this environment, it is easy to have a sense of imbalance: Why don't you take me with you? Am I not good enough?
"Uneasy feeling" spread in my heart.
In addition, his brothers and sisters have indeed made achievements and received respect and attention from the family, so he is even more marginalized.
Just imagine, what kind of psychology will it produce if you are marginalized in a large and powerful family for a long time?
can refer to the princes in the palace drama.
Either completely mess up and live a free life of leisurely clouds and wild cranes, not participating in palace battles, or continue to prove themselves to win attention and applause to gain a sense of satisfaction and security, and compete for a place among many outstanding brothers and sisters.
Obviously, Yang Zi is not a lying person, he prefers the latter.
Then, the strength of his elder brother and sister will easily create his sense of competition.
A sense of competition dominates his behavior.
In order to prove himself, he entered the workshop from the bottom level in the second year of junior high school, and publicly emphasized many times that he could obtain the employment certificate for each type of work by himself.
In addition, he relied on his sharp tongue to handle business that others could not negotiate, and gained recognition from his family.
But gaining the approval of his parents is not enough to support his inner pursuit of fame and fortune, and his desire to gain more attention in the family.
needed to have more sense of security, so he tried his best to control everything by himself, so he made Juli Film and Television to open up a path that truly belongs to him and is firmly in his own hands.
With the powerful power of the family, he is ambitious.
Ambition has never been a derogatory term. However, hidden under his ambition is the sense of insecurity brought about by the sense of competition since childhood and the strong need to be taken seriously, as well as a slight inferiority complex that makes him unable to stand up and win.
Some experts said that his performance in the show alone is not enough to prove that he is an NPD personality.
Indeed, the show is only one-sided.
But Huang Shengyi, who has been with him for 17 years, can see it most clearly:
Get along with yourself In 49 years, he couldn't lie:
He was afraid of not having money to spend, of offending customers he couldn't afford, of not being the focus of the small circle, but he was not afraid of his wife being unhappy, his children being unaccompanied, and the family being separated. .
Because, if the wife can coax her well, there will always be someone to take care of the children.
What is this?
To put it bluntly, it belongs to the category of "bullying the weak and fearing the strong", or in other words, being arrogant to all people who are not beneficial to oneself.
And what kind of person "bullies the weak and fears the strong"? People who lack love, self-confidence and security in their hearts.
Yang Zi is not a bad person, but more like a child who is waiting to be noticed and loved, and who has strong self-esteem and competitiveness.
And extreme self-esteem and competitiveness, isn't it a manifestation of inferiority?
This also explains why his performance in the program is like "showing off". The less he has, the more he loves to show off. When there is a problem in his marriage, he still has to show off his affection; he never cooks in private, but he wants to show off his cooking skills. ; As you grow older, you must be educated and understand the king.
The more "crazy" he behaves, the higher Song Dandan 's gold content is, because she has been there before.
In fact, Yang Zi’s mentality along the way is a bit similar to He Youjun.
are all the youngest sons in a big family. They have older brothers and sisters who have been entrusted with important responsibilities and have successful careers. If they want to be seen in this big family, they can only keep proving themselves.
improved their academic qualifications, started their own businesses, got involved in many fields, and even married celebrity wives.
But the difference is that He Youjun has never been poor since he was a child, and relatively speaking, he pays more attention to fame than wealth.
Including his big family, he relies on his father, not his brothers and sisters. He has a sense of competition but is confident enough in his heart, and his core is more stable.
Therefore, he does not need to show off his wealth to show off, nor does he use an arrogant attitude to torture the people around him. He only needs to rely on solid results to prove his ability and gain attention and applause.
are also competitive, confident and have a strong inner core. People know how to love the people around them better, while people who appear to be strong but are actually sensitive lack some empathy and even gain some satisfaction by building a partner.
It is undeniable that the influence of family on a person lasts a lifetime.
is also a Shanghai girl. Huang Shengyi and Xi Mengyao in marriage are completely different.
Fortunately, Huang Shengyi’s consciousness is awakening.
After watching "Goodbye Lover 4", what I couldn't understand the most was not Yang Zi's married life, but I was surprised by Yang Zi's appetite.
When he was young, his older brother and sister worked hard to start a business, and he followed him to eat soup and meat. Later, he signed a contract with Huang Shengyi, and the two ventured into the entertainment industry. After
became famous again, he relied on his two sons and his old mother to become popular again. His daughter also achieved academic success under the education of his ex-wife.
Looking at it this way, Yang Zi is completely the second Wang Yuelun.
His wife, children, mother, and brothers and sisters all contribute to his career. He is even luckier than Wang Yuelun, but his current state always has a strong sense of powerlessness and suffocation, which is puzzling.
Perhaps, for him, except for his small circle, everything else is not important enough. It's really obvious whether you love it or not. Before his relationship was public, Yang Zi’s descriptions of Huang Shengyi were almost all praises. Even when he was in front of the camera, even Huang Shengyi's eyes did not dare to stare for a long time. Because within three seconds, he will be shy. But now, this appreciation and love has long gone. The rest is Huang’s forbearance and Yang’s arrogance. and bring this arrogance into the show. ignored the program rules and played tricks on the program team. ignored the artist’s questions and went crazy alone. ignored Huang Shengyi’s demand and pretended not to see it. Some people always ask, what is the purpose of Yang Zi being on the show? What kind of native family can cultivate his character? What is the purpose of ? is indeed becoming increasingly unclear. said that he was trying to make Huang Shengyi famous again. Then he was too great and directly sacrificed his own image. said that he cooperated with Huang Shengyi to solve the marriage problem, but he didn’t seem to be that loving. said that he was performing for attention, but his acting skills have not reached this level of proficiency. In short, it is difficult to judge the motivation. But when it comes to his native family and the development of his character, there are indeed traces to follow. Song Dandan once expressed a point of view on the show. She said: A person's strong inferiority complex will make you become inexplicably irrational. If you put this point of view on Yang Zi, it seems to make sense why he behaves like this in the show. is inseparable from inferiority, which can be traced back to when Yang Zi was young. Yang Zi was born in a rural area. When he was a child, his native family was not rich, or even very poor. According to his mother, the family once raised pigs. At that time, the two younger brothers (Yang Zi’s eldest and second brother) had not yet started a business, but fed pigs at home. Yang Zi is the youngest child in the family. He is not willing to let him suffer and has never fed pigs. But family conditions were not enough to support him in having a good life. He even did not even have a pair of winter cotton shoes before he was 11 years old. Judging from the photos of Yang Zi when he was a child, he did not exaggerate. The upper body is wearing an old cotton coat, but the feet are wearing a pair of lace-up single shoes. This outfit cannot be associated with the word "wealthy". is very different from Huang Shengyi, who was born in Shanghai, his parents went abroad to study, he received advanced education since he was a child, and he enjoys a comfortable life. "Poor" ran through his entire childhood. Later, the two brothers started a business with their sister. His parents were busy making a living and had no time to take him with them, so he lived with his grandmother. , as the youngest child in the family, could only live with his grandma at the age when he needed his mother the most. In this environment, it is easy to have a sense of imbalance: Why don't you take me with you? Am I not good enough? "Uneasy feeling" spread in my heart. In addition, his brothers and sisters have indeed made achievements and received respect and attention from the family, so he is even more marginalized. Just imagine, what kind of psychology will it produce if you are marginalized in a large and powerful family for a long time? can refer to the princes in the palace drama. Either completely mess up and live a free life of leisurely clouds and wild cranes, not participating in palace battles, or continue to prove themselves to win attention and applause to gain a sense of satisfaction and security, and compete for a place among many outstanding brothers and sisters. Obviously, Yang Zi is not a lying person, he prefers the latter. Then, the strength of his elder brother and sister will easily create his sense of competition. A sense of competition dominates his behavior. In order to prove himself, he entered the workshop from the bottom level in the second year of junior high school, and publicly emphasized many times that he could obtain the employment certificate for each type of work by himself. In addition, he relied on his sharp tongue to handle business that others could not negotiate, and gained recognition from his family. But gaining the approval of his parents is not enough to support his inner pursuit of fame and fortune, and his desire to gain more attention in the family. needed to have more sense of security, so he tried his best to control everything by himself, so he made Juli Film and Television to open up a path that truly belongs to him and is firmly in his own hands. With the powerful power of the family, he is ambitious. Ambition has never been a derogatory term. However, hidden under his ambition is the sense of insecurity brought about by the sense of competition since childhood and the strong need to be taken seriously, as well as a slight inferiority complex that makes him unable to stand up and win. Some experts said that his performance in the show alone is not enough to prove that he is an NPD personality. Indeed, the show is only one-sided. But Huang Shengyi, who has been with him for 17 years, can see it most clearly: Get along with yourself In 49 years, he couldn't lie: He was afraid of not having money to spend, of offending customers he couldn't afford, of not being the focus of the small circle, but he was not afraid of his wife being unhappy, his children being unaccompanied, and the family being separated. . Because, if the wife can coax her well, there will always be someone to take care of the children. What is this? To put it bluntly, it belongs to the category of "bullying the weak and fearing the strong", or in other words, being arrogant to all people who are not beneficial to oneself. And what kind of person "bullies the weak and fears the strong"? People who lack love, self-confidence and security in their hearts. Yang Zi is not a bad person, but more like a child who is waiting to be noticed and loved, and who has strong self-esteem and competitiveness. And extreme self-esteem and competitiveness, isn't it a manifestation of inferiority? This also explains why his performance in the program is like "showing off". The less he has, the more he loves to show off. When there is a problem in his marriage, he still has to show off his affection; he never cooks in private, but he wants to show off his cooking skills. ; As you grow older, you must be educated and understand the king. The more "crazy" he behaves, the higher Song Dandan 's gold content is, because she has been there before. In fact, Yang Zi’s mentality along the way is a bit similar to He Youjun. are all the youngest sons in a big family. They have older brothers and sisters who have been entrusted with important responsibilities and have successful careers. If they want to be seen in this big family, they can only keep proving themselves. improved their academic qualifications, started their own businesses, got involved in many fields, and even married celebrity wives. But the difference is that He Youjun has never been poor since he was a child, and relatively speaking, he pays more attention to fame than wealth. Including his big family, he relies on his father, not his brothers and sisters. He has a sense of competition but is confident enough in his heart, and his core is more stable. Therefore, he does not need to show off his wealth to show off, nor does he use an arrogant attitude to torture the people around him. He only needs to rely on solid results to prove his ability and gain attention and applause. are also competitive, confident and have a strong inner core. People know how to love the people around them better, while people who appear to be strong but are actually sensitive lack some empathy and even gain some satisfaction by building a partner. It is undeniable that the influence of family on a person lasts a lifetime. is also a Shanghai girl. Huang Shengyi and Xi Mengyao in marriage are completely different. Fortunately, Huang Shengyi’s consciousness is awakening. After watching "Goodbye Lover 4", what I couldn't understand the most was not Yang Zi's married life, but I was surprised by Yang Zi's appetite. When he was young, his older brother and sister worked hard to start a business, and he followed him to eat soup and meat. Later, he signed a contract with Huang Shengyi, and the two ventured into the entertainment industry. After became famous again, he relied on his two sons and his old mother to become popular again. His daughter also achieved academic success under the education of his ex-wife. Looking at it this way, Yang Zi is completely the second Wang Yuelun. His wife, children, mother, and brothers and sisters all contribute to his career. He is even luckier than Wang Yuelun, but his current state always has a strong sense of powerlessness and suffocation, which is puzzling. Perhaps, for him, except for his small circle, everything else is not important enough.
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