Text | Wu Qingqian
variety show "Goodbye Lover Season 4" When Zhang Quanling parachuted into the soul to torture three couples of guests, Yang Zi denied the value of Huang Shengyi , which chilled the guests again and again, including other couples. The guests, members of the observation team, Zhang Quanling himself, and many viewers in front of the screen, but they could not chill Huang Shengyi's heart. Not only was Huang Shengyi not angry, she also expressed that she did not want a divorce that night. This is really shocking.
When Zhang Quanling asked Huang Shengyi whether life would change after leaving her other half, and whether the quality of life would increase or decrease, Huang Shengyi gave Yang Zi more affirmation. She felt that people need to have a vision, and Yang Zi provided her with a particularly good one. The goal is to achieve or purchase something big in the near future or when. This is very important to her. After she got together with Yang Zi, it was almost Yang Zi who set goals for her, and once he set them, he would keep telling her what the future would be like. It is possible that when he said it would be achieved in one year, it might become five years later. But for her, at least she had a direction. If she hadn't been given a direction, she might have to search again.
Judging from Huang Shengyi’s subsequent answers, Yang Zi is indeed more important to her, but this importance does not seem to have much to do with emotion. When Zhang Quanling asked her what impact Yang Zi's disappearance would have on her and whether she would panic, her performance was quite surprising. She was very confused and gave the impression that she had no idea about personal property, so she had absolutely no idea about it. panic.
Zhang Quanling had to explain it in layman's terms. In summary, Yang Zi disappeared. Can she continue to live with her two children by herself and live the same life as before Yang Zi disappeared? Huang Shengyi kept asking questions before she started to get some ideas, but she still didn't panic. She felt that Yang Zi was in charge of the money in their family and she had no personal property. In the past, she didn't care about these things 100%. She just kept running and didn't bother to review how much money she earned or take care of her accounts. Yang Zi was responsible for her own money and accounts. Huang Shengyi was sure that Yang Zi had disappeared. I feel relieved when I can get my money back. Regardless of the money, leaving it to Yang Zi will mean you have less to worry about. Maybe you don’t know what to worry about. Anyway, if Yang Zi disappears, you can get your money back, so you will definitely feel that there is no impact and you won’t panic.
Zhang Quanling felt that Yang Zi protected Huang Shengyi so well that she still didn't know what her personal property was. Huang Shengyi also makes money on his own, but he doesn't know where the money is. Huang Zhizhong said that the word "protection" is used euphemistically. In fact, this kind of protection can be said to be Yang Zi's control over Huang Shengyi, so that the latter has 100% trust in the former.
Faced with the same question, Yang Zi was not as eager to answer as Huang Shengyi. He was afraid that what Huang Shengyi said just now would arouse too much suspicion from others, so he first explained it, dispelled the misunderstanding, and at the same time established his character. He said that he is a person who likes planning, and Huang Shengyi believes in every plan, which proves that all his plans can still be realized. Although he is late, he has never been absent, otherwise it would be impossible to fool him for twenty years. Anyway, the small goals he set for her have already been achieved so far. There is no possibility that the big goals will not be achieved. He also asked Huang Shengyi to explain. Anyway, it was something that was beneficial to him. When Huang Shengyi needed help, Yang Zi had a particularly good attitude. Huang Shengyi was also willing to actively cooperate, saying that what Yang Zi said was objective.
When Yang Zi was asked by Zhang Quanling to tell her Huang Shengyi’s account and password, Yang Zi disagreed and said that his core job is collecting. There is a saying in the antique industry that "knowing the past will not make you poor, playing with the antique will not make you rich". In fact, they don't have much deposits in the bank, and most of the funds have been turned into collections. Huang Shengyi knows this.If one day he suddenly dies, whether the treasures in his hands will increase in value, maintain their value, or depreciate in her hands depends entirely on Huang Shengyi's control and understanding of his circle and his network resources.
However, he felt that he would not leave so quickly. He wanted to show off his career again but was interrupted by Zhang Quanling, who asked him to answer whether Huang Shengyi's disappearance had any impact on him. Yang Zi, who was unavoidable, said "actually it has no impact". He was very calm when he said this, which shocked Zhang Quanling, other guests and the observation group. Zhang Quanling even lost control of his emotions and asked with a trace of anger—— Huang Shengyizhen disappeared, who will help you take care of your baby? Do you really think she made no contribution?
Yang Zi actually said - didn't she take the baby with her? His tone and expression were still calm and indifferent. This shocked everyone even more. Jiang Yilei couldn't help but comment that this person was really evil. Ge Xi also shuddered - it doesn't matter if the child disappears. Yang Zi, who realized that his image was damaged, once again defended his personal image, explaining that Huang Shengyi often disappeared with his children, and that he was used to living independently, so it had no impact.
Then Yang Zi said that if Huang Shengyi disappeared by himself, he would actually be less worried. This once again refreshed everyone's understanding. The program team also deliberately cut the camera to Huang Shengyi. Huang Shengyi's expression was subtle, more complicated than sad. The other guests felt sorry for Huang Shengyi and complained. They didn't understand why Yang Zi was like this? Yang Zi only said that he thought children should have their own lives.
Zhang Quanling said that she asked this question because she wanted to know what value her partner provided in each other's life. Is it functional value, such as doing housework together, helping with trivial business, and raising children together? Or is it emotional value, such as needing your partner to discuss new social happenings with you? Or is it economic value, will you have a better life with the other person, or will you be motivated to earn more money? He also asked Yang Zi, does Huang Shengyi have no value in his life and in his marriage world?
Yang Zi didn’t know whether he didn’t understand or pretended not to understand. Zhang Quanling specifically said that if Huang Shengyi disappeared, he would not be able to participate in his live broadcast. Wouldn’t the ROI (return on investment) of your live broadcast drop? Yang Zilian said "no" because Huang Shengyi did not contribute much in terms of live broadcast data. The data he contributed was much better than Huang Shengyi, including bringing goods. Huang Shengyi's more than 10 million fans on the short video platform were created by the two of them. However, when Huang Shengyi was live broadcasting, almost most people were asking - ask Yang Zi to come too, and he would definitely not do it during the live broadcast. Someone asked, "Why didn't Shengyi come?"
However, Huang Shengyi said that Yang Zi also needs her, because every time she goes to live broadcast, the boss of the Internet celebrity incubation center will definitely let her go, and she can't shirk it no matter what. They feel that this is Not recognizing her face could impact their data or sales. However, Yang Zi said that the platform had regulations. If Huang Shengyi himself did not appear on the scene, his account would be banned because he was broadcasting under Huang Shengyi's account. He also said that it was not his need to drag Huang Shengyi to live broadcast, but the platform's rules. When Zhang Quanling said that this was also her need, Yang Zi also argued that he spent more persuasion or energy during the live broadcast than Huang Shengyi did during the moment in the live broadcast room. Zhang Quanling also said that the fact that you are willing to spend such a high cost shows that the value is great. They are all businessmen. Yang Zi indirectly recognized Huang Shengyi's value this time, saying that the account belonged to Huang Shengyi and she would be banned if she didn't go. When Zhang Quanling said that this was the value, Yang Zicai was willing to positively affirm the value of his wife, saying that Huang Shengyi was an incomparable partner.
Zhang Quanling said that Yang Zi was struggling internally. He had an ego and would not take the initiative to talk about Huang Shengyi’s value. When he was questioned, the rational me came out.So when asked if there is any other value besides being a partner, Yang Zi said very objectively that before the live broadcast era came out, Huang Shengyi's value was far higher than his own. It was Huang Shengyi who made him what he is today. Without her, he might not be where he is now. Not so many people know about him, the Juli Group, or the Yang family. This is all the value she has provided him in the past twenty years.
Even so, Yang Zi later said that Huang Shengyi’s disappearance would not change his life, live broadcast data and many things. Because Huang Shengyi's influence is not as great as it used to be, because with the advent of the live broadcast era, his popularity is not much different from Huang Shengyi's. He has signed a matrix of 17,800 apprentices with major Internet celebrities. Huang Shengyi's disappearance is not a problem. He won't have a particularly big impact.
Faced with Zhang Quanling’s incomprehension of herself and giving a personal example: Although her husband does not account for a large proportion in her company, but he trusts her very much, Yang Zi emphasized that she had no problem, and said that even if she and Huang Shengyi had not been in contact with each other for a long time, , but the foundation of trust will always be there. One day they divorce, he will also leave the will and property distribution to her. He also said that after the age of 50, that is, after January 18 next year, he would retire and fully return to his family. He said that if Huang Shengyi believed it, they would live together, but if he didn't believe it, he would just stay alone.
To sum up, what Yang Zi talked about about Huang Shengyi’s influence on him was exactly as the observation team said. They were all talking about business rather than marriage. They were all talking about career cooperation and business value, and they were all calculating money. , it’s all business. Although Huang Shengyi is not as commercial as Yang Zi, her few words still have a commercial flavor.
Zhang Quanling accurately summarized the real relationship between the couple as that of a boss and an employee. Moreover, Yang Zi, the boss, also issued options, but the option is a pie. The core is whether the person to whom the option is issued believes in the pie. Zhang Quanling felt that Huang Shengyi believed it.
did believe it. Although Huang Shengyi complained that she had lost a lot with the other party, especially after having children, she felt that Yang Zi trusted him, which made her happy. Although they have various problems and it is difficult to reach a common frequency even through running-in, there must be a certain point where everyone is on the same frequency before they can move forward. Putting this aside, they still trust each other on a spiritual level. So Huang Shengyi wrote this kind of reflection on getting along that day: "If one day he suddenly disappears, he also believes that I can handle everything well. This is his trust and affirmation of me." Take the other person's trust seriously. It’s heavier than emotions and other things. No wonder Zhang Quanling said they were like bosses and employees, and no wonder Huang Shengyi didn’t want a divorce after gaining trust.
Text | Wu Qingqian
variety show "Goodbye Lover Season 4" When Zhang Quanling parachuted into the soul to torture three couples and guests, Yang Zi's denial of the value of Huang Shengyi has chilled the guests again and again, including other husband and wife guests, members of the observation group, and Zhang Quanling himself, as well as many viewers in front of the screen, but it did not chill Huang Shengyi's heart. Not only was he not angry, he also expressed that he did not want a divorce that night. This is really shocking.
When Zhang Quanling asked Huang Shengyi whether life would change after leaving her other half, and whether the quality of life would increase or decrease, Huang Shengyi gave Yang Zi more affirmation. She felt that people need to have a vision, and Yang Zi provided her with a particularly good one. The goal is to achieve or purchase something big in the near future or when. This is very important to her. After she got together with Yang Zi, it was almost Yang Zi who set goals for her, and once he set them, he would keep telling her what the future would be like. It is possible that when he said it would be achieved in one year, it might become five years later. But for her, at least she had a direction. If she hadn't been given a direction, she might have to search again.
Judging from Huang Shengyi’s subsequent answers, Yang Zi is indeed more important to her, but this importance does not seem to have much to do with emotion. When Zhang Quanling asked her what impact Yang Zi's disappearance would have on her and whether she would panic, her performance was quite surprising. She was very confused and gave the impression that she had no idea about personal property, so she had absolutely no idea about it. panic.
Zhang Quanling had to explain it in layman's terms. In summary, Yang Zi disappeared. Can she continue to live with her two children by herself and live the same life as before Yang Zi disappeared? Huang Shengyi kept asking questions before she started to get some ideas, but she still didn't panic. She felt that Yang Zi was in charge of the money in their family and she had no personal property. In the past, she didn't care about these things 100%. She just kept running and didn't bother to review how much money she earned or take care of her accounts. Yang Zi was responsible for her own money and accounts. Huang Shengyi was sure that Yang Zi had disappeared. I feel relieved when I can get my money back. Regardless of the money, leaving it to Yang Zi will mean you have less to worry about. Maybe you don’t know what to worry about. Anyway, if Yang Zi disappears, you can get your money back, so you will definitely feel that there is no impact and you won’t panic.
Zhang Quanling felt that Yang Zi protected Huang Shengyi so well that she still didn't know what her personal property was. Huang Shengyi also makes money on his own, but he doesn't know where the money is. Huang Zhizhong said that the word "protection" is used euphemistically. In fact, this kind of protection can be said to be Yang Zi's control over Huang Shengyi, so that the latter has 100% trust in the former.
Faced with the same question, Yang Zi was not as eager to answer as Huang Shengyi. He was afraid that what Huang Shengyi said just now would arouse too much suspicion from others, so he first explained it, dispelled the misunderstanding, and at the same time established his character. He said that he is a person who likes planning, and Huang Shengyi believes in every plan, which proves that all his plans can still be realized. Although he is late, he has never been absent, otherwise it would be impossible to fool him for twenty years. Anyway, the small goals he set for her have already been achieved so far. There is no possibility that the big goals will not be achieved. He also asked Huang Shengyi to explain. Anyway, it was something that was beneficial to him. When Huang Shengyi needed help, Yang Zi had a particularly good attitude. Huang Shengyi was also willing to actively cooperate, saying that what Yang Zi said was objective.
When Yang Zi was asked by Zhang Quanling to tell her Huang Shengyi’s account and password, Yang Zi disagreed and said that his core job is collecting. There is a saying in the antique industry that "knowing the past will not make you poor, playing with the antique will not make you rich". In fact, they don't have much deposits in the bank, and most of the funds have been turned into collections. Huang Shengyi knows this.If one day he suddenly dies, whether the treasures in his hands will increase in value, maintain their value, or depreciate in her hands depends entirely on Huang Shengyi's control and understanding of his circle and his network resources.
However, he felt that he would not leave so quickly. He wanted to show off his career again but was interrupted by Zhang Quanling, who asked him to answer whether Huang Shengyi's disappearance had any impact on him. Yang Zi, who was unavoidable, said "actually it has no impact". He was very calm when he said this, which shocked Zhang Quanling, other guests and the observation group. Zhang Quanling even lost control of his emotions and asked with a trace of anger—— Huang Shengyizhen disappeared, who will help you take care of your baby? Do you really think she made no contribution?
Yang Zi actually said - didn't she take the baby with her? His tone and expression were still calm and indifferent. This shocked everyone even more. Jiang Yilei couldn't help but comment that this person was really evil. Ge Xi also shuddered - it doesn't matter if the child disappears. Yang Zi, who realized that his image was damaged, once again defended his personal image, explaining that Huang Shengyi often disappeared with his children, and that he was used to living independently, so it had no impact.
Then Yang Zi said that if Huang Shengyi disappeared by himself, he would actually be less worried. This once again refreshed everyone's understanding. The program team also deliberately cut the camera to Huang Shengyi. Huang Shengyi's expression was subtle, more complicated than sad. The other guests felt sorry for Huang Shengyi and complained. They didn't understand why Yang Zi was like this? Yang Zi only said that he thought children should have their own lives.
Zhang Quanling said that she asked this question because she wanted to know what value her partner provided in each other's life. Is it functional value, such as doing housework together, helping with trivial business, and raising children together? Or is it emotional value, such as needing your partner to discuss new social happenings with you? Or is it economic value, will you have a better life with the other person, or will you be motivated to earn more money? He also asked Yang Zi, does Huang Shengyi have no value in his life and in his marriage world?
Yang Zi didn’t know whether he didn’t understand or pretended not to understand. Zhang Quanling specifically said that if Huang Shengyi disappeared, he would not be able to participate in his live broadcast. Wouldn’t the ROI (return on investment) of your live broadcast drop? Yang Zilian said "no" because Huang Shengyi did not contribute much in terms of live broadcast data. The data he contributed was much better than Huang Shengyi, including bringing goods. Huang Shengyi's more than 10 million fans on the short video platform were created by the two of them. However, when Huang Shengyi was live broadcasting, almost most people were asking - ask Yang Zi to come too, and he would definitely not do it during the live broadcast. Someone asked, "Why didn't Shengyi come?"
However, Huang Shengyi said that Yang Zi also needs her, because every time she goes to live broadcast, the boss of the Internet celebrity incubation center will definitely let her go, and she can't shirk it no matter what. They feel that this is Not recognizing her face could impact their data or sales. However, Yang Zi said that the platform had regulations. If Huang Shengyi himself did not appear on the scene, his account would be banned because he was broadcasting under Huang Shengyi's account. He also said that it was not his need to drag Huang Shengyi to live broadcast, but the platform's rules. When Zhang Quanling said that this was also her need, Yang Zi also argued that he spent more persuasion or energy during the live broadcast than Huang Shengyi did during the moment in the live broadcast room. Zhang Quanling also said that the fact that you are willing to spend such a high cost shows that the value is great. They are all businessmen. Yang Zi indirectly recognized Huang Shengyi's value this time, saying that the account belonged to Huang Shengyi and she would be banned if she didn't go. When Zhang Quanling said that this was the value, Yang Zicai was willing to positively affirm the value of his wife, saying that Huang Shengyi was an incomparable partner.
Zhang Quanling said that Yang Zi was struggling internally. He had an ego and would not take the initiative to talk about Huang Shengyi’s value. When he was questioned, the rational me came out.So when asked if there is any other value besides being a partner, Yang Zi said very objectively that before the live broadcast era came out, Huang Shengyi's value was far higher than his own. It was Huang Shengyi who made him what he is today. Without her, he might not be where he is now. Not so many people know about him, the Juli Group, or the Yang family. This is all the value she has provided him in the past twenty years.
Even so, Yang Zi later said that Huang Shengyi’s disappearance would not change his life, live broadcast data and many things. Because Huang Shengyi's influence is not as great as it used to be, because with the advent of the live broadcast era, his popularity is not much different from Huang Shengyi's. He has signed a matrix of 17,800 apprentices with major Internet celebrities. Huang Shengyi's disappearance is not a problem. He won't have a particularly big impact.
Faced with Zhang Quanling’s incomprehension of herself and giving a personal example: Although her husband does not account for a large proportion in her company, but he trusts her very much, Yang Zi emphasized that she had no problem, and said that even if she and Huang Shengyi had not been in contact with each other for a long time, , but the foundation of trust will always be there. One day they divorce, he will also leave the will and property distribution to her. He also said that after the age of 50, that is, after January 18 next year, he would retire and fully return to his family. He said that if Huang Shengyi believed it, they would live together, but if he didn't believe it, he would just stay alone.
To sum up, what Yang Zi talked about about Huang Shengyi’s influence on him was exactly as the observation team said. They were all talking about business rather than marriage. They were all talking about career cooperation and business value, and they were all calculating money. , it’s all business. Although Huang Shengyi is not as commercial as Yang Zi, her few words still have a commercial flavor.
Zhang Quanling accurately summarized the real relationship between the couple as that of a boss and an employee. Moreover, Yang Zi, the boss, also issued options, but the option is a pie. The core is whether the person to whom the option is issued believes in the pie. Zhang Quanling felt that Huang Shengyi believed it.
did believe it. Although Huang Shengyi complained that she had lost a lot with the other party, especially after having children, she felt that Yang Zi trusted him, which made her happy. Although they have various problems and it is difficult to reach a common frequency even through running-in, there must be a certain point where everyone is on the same frequency before they can move forward. Putting this aside, they still trust each other on a spiritual level. So Huang Shengyi wrote this kind of reflection on getting along that day: "If one day he suddenly disappears, he also believes that I can handle everything well. This is his trust and affirmation of me." Take the other person's trust seriously. It’s heavier than emotions and other things. No wonder Zhang Quanling said they were like bosses and employees, and no wonder Huang Shengyi didn’t want a divorce after gaining trust.
This article was originally written by Qing Qianzhi and may not be reproduced without the authorization of the author! Welcome everyone to pay attention and explore the meaningful entertainment life together!
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