The original work written in this article is different from the TV series.
Zhuang Xiaoting is the only daughter and granddaughter of the Zhuang family.
There are three brothers and sisters in the Zhuang family. Zhuang Chaoying's younger brother has two sons, and his sister has one son. Therefore, in the third generation of the Zhuang family, there is only one girl, Zhuang Xiaoting.
It stands to reason that she is the only girl, and she should be the little princess who is loved by the whole family, but unfortunately she is not. She has been well-behaved and worked hard since she was a child. She is a good girl at home and a good student at school.
In fact, Zhuang Xiaoting lived very hard since she was a child, because her grandparents maliciously told her since she was a child that if it weren't for her and her brother's good grades, her father would have divorced her mother long ago.
She is just a child. Because she is afraid that her parents will divorce and abandon her, she has been cautious since childhood and is more obedient and precocious than other children of the same age. A child like
has always been afraid of the banker's family since she was a child, so she is timid in her heart and dare not speak out her thoughts. She digests many grievances silently.
But once the grievances accumulate to a certain level, even the weakest person will explode.
Unexpectedly, Zhuang Xiaoting was slapped in the face by Zhuang Jia and his son at such a young age. The Zhuang Jia and his son here refer to Zhuang Jia's grandfather and Zhuang Xiaoting's father Zhuang Chaoying.
The indifference and selfishness of the older generation of the dealer
The older generation of the dealer gave birth to three children, two sons and one daughter, namely the eldest son Zhuang Chaoying, the younger son Zhuang Kanmei, and the daughter Zhuang Hualin.
The older generation of bankers are very poor, but no matter how poor they are, they still gave up their eldest son to a technical secondary school, and finally became a teacher in the city.
The two elders of the banker are very satisfied with the eldest son's proud work, because the eldest son has won glory for them and made them look good in their hometown.
Not only that, the eldest son also married a wife in the city, established a foothold in the city, and gave birth to two excellent grandchildren, which greatly satisfied their vanity.
But even so, what they love most is their younger son. They feel that it is natural for the eldest son to take care of the big family, so the eldest son's salary has always been in the hands of their two elders, leaving it for the younger son to get married and live.
For their eldest son's wedding, they only added a thermos and a washbasin, and ignored the rest. They would not be deliberately harsh on Zhuang Tunan, their eldest grandson, but they would not pamper them either. They were even more so on their only granddaughter, Zhuang Xiaoting. Didn't take it seriously.
You must know that their only daughter grew up sleeping on the dining table until she went to Guizhou to become an educated youth. They were reluctant to let their youngest son go to the countryside, so they gave away their only daughter for a lifetime, and those whose daughters were in Guizhou In 2001, they turned a blind eye and didn't care. How could a selfish and indifferent old man like
have the love of an elder for Zhuang Xiaoting, who is a generation away from her?
Zhuang Chaoying was so angry that he moved to the school to live, so the two lived apart for a period of time.
Faced with the quarrel between the eldest son and the eldest daughter-in-law, which was about to get divorced, the older generation of the banker was not only not anxious, but even gloating about it as if they were watching a drama.
The original work wrote:
Zhuang Xiaoting timidly said, "Auntie knows that you live outside, and my grandparents also know it. When I went there, grandma didn't ask you or how your mother was doing. Grandpa said, if you can't survive, you will die." "Divorce."
Zhuang Chaoying once again felt the familiar resentment - whenever someone accused his parents of being selfish and hypocritical, he would naturally resent the other person and their inconsideration, but this time, facing his own daughter, he did not dare. Indulge your emotions.
When children grow up, they will naturally be able to distinguish right from wrong. Although Zhuang Xiaoting is young, she has long seen through the indifference and selfishness of the older generation of the Zhuang family. When she exposed the true colors of her grandparents in front of her father, her biological father turned to her. There is only resentment.
But Zhuang Chaoying didn't know that that time, his parents not only watched him and his wife getting divorced as if they were watching a play, but also deliberately asked Zhuang Xiaoting who she would marry if her parents divorced.
Zhuang Xiaoting didn't even think about it, so she told her mother, but what she got in exchange was a slap in the face from the older generation of the banker.
The original work wrote:
Zhuang Xiaoting vaguely felt the change in her father's heart. She was uneasy, but vaguely felt that she had touched her father's weakness. She mustered up the courage to continue,
"Grandma asked me who I was with. Talking to my mother, grandpa slapped me and wanted to slap me, but grandma didn't care. Second aunt was watching the joke, and aunt tried her best to stop grandpa, so I went out and waited for my brother and Pengfei to come back. "
Grandpa Zhuang was not satisfied with the slap in the face and wanted to slap her again, but Zhuang Xiaoting was just a child, so she was so innocent.
But Zhuang's grandma was watching the show, and Zhuang's second aunt was watching the joke. Only Zhuang Hualin, who had been abandoned by his parents since childhood, desperately stopped his old father and told Zhuang Xiaoting to leave here quickly.
Later, after Zhuang Xiaoting returned home, she clearly suffered so many grievances at her grandparents' house, but she didn't tell anyone because she was too sensible.
Zhuang Chaoying's hypocrisy
Later, Zhuang Chaoying and Huang Ling reconciled. Huang Ling went to work that day, and Zhuang Chaoying saw that the three children were at home, and felt that it was the weekend again, so she wanted to take the three children back to her parents' house to see the elderly.
The three children here are Zhuang Tunan, Zhuang Xiaoting, and Zhuang Hualin's son Xiang Pengfei.
Among these children, except Zhuang Tunan who is really willing to go to his grandparents' house, Zhuang Xiaoting and Xiang Pengfei are reluctant.
There is a reason why these two children don't want to go. The shadow of Zhuang Xiaoting's last slap in the face by her grandfather has not passed yet, so she naturally doesn't want to go.
Xiang Pengfei knew that his mother was abandoned by his grandparents since he was a child. Even when he wanted to transfer his household registration back, his grandparents refused. Even when he lived in the house of his grandparents and uncle, he was disliked by others and did not have a good life here. .
Although the two children did not want to go, they did not dare to refute Zhuang Chaoying openly, so the two children made ink marks when they went out. One said they went to the toilet, and the other said that his shoelace had fallen off.
It was because of their behavior that they immediately angered Zhuang Chaoying. Zhuang Chaoying saw through the reluctance of the two children and felt that the two children were not filial to the elderly.
So he got angry. He didn't dare to vent his anger on Xiang Pengfei, so he vented his anger on his daughter.
The original work writes:
Zhuang Chaoying slapped him down hard, and a loud "snap" sounded in the room.
Lin Dongzhe, who had a bad eye and a quick face, stretched out his neck and slapped Zhuang Xiaoting with his own face.
This slap was so severe that Lin Dongzhe was hit so hard that he spun around in half a circle. After stopping, he stood between the father and daughter with a confused look on his face.
Only then did Zhuang Tunan react, strode out, and stood between his father and sister.
This slap would have made even the boy Lin Dongzhe spin around half a circle.
couldn't imagine that Zhuang Chaoying would deal such a harsh blow to his biological daughter. If Lin Dongzhe hadn't been quick-sighted and quick-handed, Zhuang Xiaoting would have received that slap.
It is possible that that slap broke up the father-daughter relationship between Zhuang Chaoying and Zhuang Xiaoting, leaving no room for change.
However, after that slap, Zhuang Chaoying not only had no regrets or heartache, but only resentment and a trace of worldly fear.
The original work writes:
Zhuang Xiaoting pushed Lin Dongzhe away and looked directly at Zhuang Chaoying. Her eyes were full of contempt and hatred,
"When I was a child, I went to my grandparents' house. Grandma didn't cook, so she asked her mother to do it. Mom finished cooking. , Grandma asked us to go home, and didn’t even give me or my brother anything to eat. Only if you want to go to my grandparents’ house, we don’t want to.”
Until this time, Zhuang Chaoying still cared about the face of their banker and his tall father’s image. .
He couldn't accept his daughter's clear understanding of his parents, let alone his daughter's contempt for him, which destroyed his image of a tall father. So at that moment, Zhuang Chaoying was forced to make a choice between everyone and the small family.
Behind Zhuang Xiaoting's grievances are all the evil of the Zhuang family and his son.
The original work writes:
Zhuang Chaoying tried her best to suppress the rolling emotions in her heart, "Xiaoting, why don't you want to be with dad?"
Zhuang Xiaoting glanced at her brother, and Zhuang Tunan gave her With an encouraging look, Zhuang Xiaoting then said in panic, "If I stay with my father, I will go to live with my grandparents. During the Chinese New Year, my grandma asked me to sleep in the same bed with my patriotic brother Aihua, but I didn't want to sleep with them. Grandma insisted. It doesn't matter, my mother refused, so she sat and slept in the living room with me in her arms."
Zhuang Tunan interrupted abruptly, "I heard that my aunt slept on the dining table until she went to the countryside to become an educated youth."
Zhuang Chaoying knew that he could no longer do it. He has an illusion in his heart that the big family and the small family understand each other and coexist peacefully. He must make a choice between his original family and his own small family.
In this work, there is a very important reason why Huang Ling and Zhuang Chaoying did not divorce later, that is, Zhuang Chaoying made a choice between his native family and his own small family in the later period. Although there are not many
, it is enough to maintain the appearance of harmony in this family for a lifetime.
However, such a happy ending was indeed achieved by Zhuang Xiaoting being slapped in the face by the banker and his son. How ironic and how sad.
However, did Zhuang Chaoying really wake up after being scolded by her daughter and change her past? This is not the case with
. The reason why he changed and made the choice is because he is the same type of person as his parents in his heart.
His parents are selfish and vain, and only care about face.
Zhuang Chaoying himself is also a person who cares about face very much. He seems to be less hypocritical, selfish and partial than his parents, just because he is better at pretending than his parents.
In such a situation, he wanted to vent his anger and did not dare to hit his son or nephew. He only dared to hit his weak daughter. This was because he bullied the weak and feared the strong. In this family, he only dared to torture his wife and daughter.
Because his son is tough, because his nephew is an outsider, he wants face, so for the sake of his poor face, he doesn't care about his wife's hard work and ignores his daughter's grievances.
He changed later, not because he felt sorry for his daughter's injustice, but because at that time, his son and daughter were on the same front. If he did not make changes in this family, he would be isolated and ignored. The authority and dignity of a father will be worthless.
He deeply understood that in the eyes of his parents, he could not fit into the big family. The only thing he could retain was his position in the small family.
So for the sake of face, dignity, and worldly perspective, he chose to compromise.
This kind of man is more hateful than his parents, because he does not love any child, nor his wife. What he loves is the eldest son who can give him face, and he loves the persona of a winner in life who has both children and children.
So when Zhuang Xiaoting exposed the true identity of his parents, and his true identity could not be hidden, he chose to stop the loss in time and restore his image of a tall father in time, so as to maintain the image of his family as a perfect father, a kind father and a filial son. .
Behind the two slaps of Zhuang Xiaoting are endless grievances. However, behind this is the ugliness of the Zhuang people, which is chilling and helpless.
The original work written in this article is different from the TV series.
Zhuang Xiaoting is the only daughter and granddaughter of the Zhuang family.
There are three brothers and sisters in the Zhuang family. Zhuang Chaoying's younger brother has two sons, and his sister has one son. Therefore, in the third generation of the Zhuang family, there is only one girl, Zhuang Xiaoting.
It stands to reason that she is the only girl, and she should be the little princess who is loved by the whole family, but unfortunately she is not. She has been well-behaved and worked hard since she was a child. She is a good girl at home and a good student at school.
In fact, Zhuang Xiaoting lived very hard since she was a child, because her grandparents maliciously told her since she was a child that if it weren't for her and her brother's good grades, her father would have divorced her mother long ago.
She is just a child. Because she is afraid that her parents will divorce and abandon her, she has been cautious since childhood and is more obedient and precocious than other children of the same age. A child like
has always been afraid of the banker's family since she was a child, so she is timid in her heart and dare not speak out her thoughts. She digests many grievances silently.
But once the grievances accumulate to a certain level, even the weakest person will explode.
Unexpectedly, Zhuang Xiaoting was slapped in the face by Zhuang Jia and his son at such a young age. The Zhuang Jia and his son here refer to Zhuang Jia's grandfather and Zhuang Xiaoting's father Zhuang Chaoying.
The indifference and selfishness of the older generation of the dealer
The older generation of the dealer gave birth to three children, two sons and one daughter, namely the eldest son Zhuang Chaoying, the younger son Zhuang Kanmei, and the daughter Zhuang Hualin.
The older generation of bankers are very poor, but no matter how poor they are, they still gave up their eldest son to a technical secondary school, and finally became a teacher in the city.
The two elders of the banker are very satisfied with the eldest son's proud work, because the eldest son has won glory for them and made them look good in their hometown.
Not only that, the eldest son also married a wife in the city, established a foothold in the city, and gave birth to two excellent grandchildren, which greatly satisfied their vanity.
But even so, what they love most is their younger son. They feel that it is natural for the eldest son to take care of the big family, so the eldest son's salary has always been in the hands of their two elders, leaving it for the younger son to get married and live.
For their eldest son's wedding, they only added a thermos and a washbasin, and ignored the rest. They would not be deliberately harsh on Zhuang Tunan, their eldest grandson, but they would not pamper them either. They were even more so on their only granddaughter, Zhuang Xiaoting. Didn't take it seriously.
You must know that their only daughter grew up sleeping on the dining table until she went to Guizhou to become an educated youth. They were reluctant to let their youngest son go to the countryside, so they gave away their only daughter for a lifetime, and those whose daughters were in Guizhou In 2001, they turned a blind eye and didn't care. How could a selfish and indifferent old man like
have the love of an elder for Zhuang Xiaoting, who is a generation away from her?
Zhuang Chaoying was so angry that he moved to the school to live, so the two lived apart for a period of time.
Faced with the quarrel between the eldest son and the eldest daughter-in-law, which was about to get divorced, the older generation of the banker was not only not anxious, but even gloating about it as if they were watching a drama.
The original work wrote:
Zhuang Xiaoting timidly said, "Auntie knows that you live outside, and my grandparents also know it. When I went there, grandma didn't ask you or how your mother was doing. Grandpa said, if you can't survive, you will die." "Divorce."
Zhuang Chaoying once again felt the familiar resentment - whenever someone accused his parents of being selfish and hypocritical, he would naturally resent the other person and their inconsideration, but this time, facing his own daughter, he did not dare. Indulge your emotions.
When children grow up, they will naturally be able to distinguish right from wrong. Although Zhuang Xiaoting is young, she has long seen through the indifference and selfishness of the older generation of the Zhuang family. When she exposed the true colors of her grandparents in front of her father, her biological father turned to her. There is only resentment.
But Zhuang Chaoying didn't know that that time, his parents not only watched him and his wife getting divorced as if they were watching a play, but also deliberately asked Zhuang Xiaoting who she would marry if her parents divorced.
Zhuang Xiaoting didn't even think about it, so she told her mother, but what she got in exchange was a slap in the face from the older generation of the banker.
The original work wrote:
Zhuang Xiaoting vaguely felt the change in her father's heart. She was uneasy, but vaguely felt that she had touched her father's weakness. She mustered up the courage to continue,
"Grandma asked me who I was with. Talking to my mother, grandpa slapped me and wanted to slap me, but grandma didn't care. Second aunt was watching the joke, and aunt tried her best to stop grandpa, so I went out and waited for my brother and Pengfei to come back. "
Grandpa Zhuang was not satisfied with the slap in the face and wanted to slap her again, but Zhuang Xiaoting was just a child, so she was so innocent.
But Zhuang's grandma was watching the show, and Zhuang's second aunt was watching the joke. Only Zhuang Hualin, who had been abandoned by his parents since childhood, desperately stopped his old father and told Zhuang Xiaoting to leave here quickly.
Later, after Zhuang Xiaoting returned home, she clearly suffered so many grievances at her grandparents' house, but she didn't tell anyone because she was too sensible.
Zhuang Chaoying's hypocrisy
Later, Zhuang Chaoying and Huang Ling reconciled. Huang Ling went to work that day, and Zhuang Chaoying saw that the three children were at home, and felt that it was the weekend again, so she wanted to take the three children back to her parents' house to see the elderly.
The three children here are Zhuang Tunan, Zhuang Xiaoting, and Zhuang Hualin's son Xiang Pengfei.
Among these children, except Zhuang Tunan who is really willing to go to his grandparents' house, Zhuang Xiaoting and Xiang Pengfei are reluctant.
There is a reason why these two children don't want to go. The shadow of Zhuang Xiaoting's last slap in the face by her grandfather has not passed yet, so she naturally doesn't want to go.
Xiang Pengfei knew that his mother was abandoned by his grandparents since he was a child. Even when he wanted to transfer his household registration back, his grandparents refused. Even when he lived in the house of his grandparents and uncle, he was disliked by others and did not have a good life here. .
Although the two children did not want to go, they did not dare to refute Zhuang Chaoying openly, so the two children made ink marks when they went out. One said they went to the toilet, and the other said that his shoelace had fallen off.
It was because of their behavior that they immediately angered Zhuang Chaoying. Zhuang Chaoying saw through the reluctance of the two children and felt that the two children were not filial to the elderly.
So he got angry. He didn't dare to vent his anger on Xiang Pengfei, so he vented his anger on his daughter.
The original work writes:
Zhuang Chaoying slapped him down hard, and a loud "snap" sounded in the room.
Lin Dongzhe, who had a bad eye and a quick face, stretched out his neck and slapped Zhuang Xiaoting with his own face.
This slap was so severe that Lin Dongzhe was hit so hard that he spun around in half a circle. After stopping, he stood between the father and daughter with a confused look on his face.
Only then did Zhuang Tunan react, strode out, and stood between his father and sister.
This slap would have made even the boy Lin Dongzhe spin around half a circle.
couldn't imagine that Zhuang Chaoying would deal such a harsh blow to his biological daughter. If Lin Dongzhe hadn't been quick-sighted and quick-handed, Zhuang Xiaoting would have received that slap.
It is possible that that slap broke up the father-daughter relationship between Zhuang Chaoying and Zhuang Xiaoting, leaving no room for change.
However, after that slap, Zhuang Chaoying not only had no regrets or heartache, but only resentment and a trace of worldly fear.
The original work writes:
Zhuang Xiaoting pushed Lin Dongzhe away and looked directly at Zhuang Chaoying. Her eyes were full of contempt and hatred,
"When I was a child, I went to my grandparents' house. Grandma didn't cook, so she asked her mother to do it. Mom finished cooking. , Grandma asked us to go home, and didn’t even give me or my brother anything to eat. Only if you want to go to my grandparents’ house, we don’t want to.”
Until this time, Zhuang Chaoying still cared about the face of their banker and his tall father’s image. .
He couldn't accept his daughter's clear understanding of his parents, let alone his daughter's contempt for him, which destroyed his image of a tall father. So at that moment, Zhuang Chaoying was forced to make a choice between everyone and the small family.
Behind Zhuang Xiaoting's grievances are all the evil of the Zhuang family and his son.
The original work writes:
Zhuang Chaoying tried her best to suppress the rolling emotions in her heart, "Xiaoting, why don't you want to be with dad?"
Zhuang Xiaoting glanced at her brother, and Zhuang Tunan gave her With an encouraging look, Zhuang Xiaoting then said in panic, "If I stay with my father, I will go to live with my grandparents. During the Chinese New Year, my grandma asked me to sleep in the same bed with my patriotic brother Aihua, but I didn't want to sleep with them. Grandma insisted. It doesn't matter, my mother refused, so she sat and slept in the living room with me in her arms."
Zhuang Tunan interrupted abruptly, "I heard that my aunt slept on the dining table until she went to the countryside to become an educated youth."
Zhuang Chaoying knew that he could no longer do it. He has an illusion in his heart that the big family and the small family understand each other and coexist peacefully. He must make a choice between his original family and his own small family.
In this work, there is a very important reason why Huang Ling and Zhuang Chaoying did not divorce later, that is, Zhuang Chaoying made a choice between his native family and his own small family in the later period. Although there are not many
, it is enough to maintain the appearance of harmony in this family for a lifetime.
However, such a happy ending was indeed achieved by Zhuang Xiaoting being slapped in the face by the banker and his son. How ironic and how sad.
However, did Zhuang Chaoying really wake up after being scolded by her daughter and change her past? This is not the case with
. The reason why he changed and made the choice is because he is the same type of person as his parents in his heart.
His parents are selfish and vain, and only care about face.
Zhuang Chaoying himself is also a person who cares about face very much. He seems to be less hypocritical, selfish and partial than his parents, just because he is better at pretending than his parents.
In such a situation, he wanted to vent his anger and did not dare to hit his son or nephew. He only dared to hit his weak daughter. This was because he bullied the weak and feared the strong. In this family, he only dared to torture his wife and daughter.
Because his son is tough, because his nephew is an outsider, he wants face, so for the sake of his poor face, he doesn't care about his wife's hard work and ignores his daughter's grievances.
He changed later, not because he felt sorry for his daughter's injustice, but because at that time, his son and daughter were on the same front. If he did not make changes in this family, he would be isolated and ignored. The authority and dignity of a father will be worthless.
He deeply understood that in the eyes of his parents, he could not fit into the big family. The only thing he could retain was his position in the small family.
So for the sake of face, dignity, and worldly perspective, he chose to compromise.
This kind of man is more hateful than his parents, because he does not love any child, nor his wife. What he loves is the eldest son who can give him face, and he loves the persona of a winner in life who has both children and children.
So when Zhuang Xiaoting exposed the true identity of his parents, and his true identity could not be hidden, he chose to stop the loss in time and restore his image of a tall father in time, so as to maintain the image of his family as a perfect father, a kind father and a filial son. .
Behind the two slaps of Zhuang Xiaoting are endless grievances. However, behind this is the ugliness of the Zhuang people, which is chilling and helpless.