Yang Zi has recently started a trend of appreciating his father. Netizens joked that Wu Jing, Du Haitao, Huang Lei, and Li Yapeng could be included in the variety show "Who is the King of Dads?" .
More and more people are beginning to miss the era of goddess Huang Shengyi. lamented, why did she marry the eldest father and suffer from PUA till now?
In fact, it is not just "she", but "them".
On the other side, Huang Shengyi, together with Xie Nan, Shen Mengchen and Sun Li, has been called the "domestic entertainment ninja".
Tolerance is just an appearance. To a certain extent, they are voluntary.
Let’s go step by step. Let’s first see how these dads have their own ways.
Yang Zi, who dislikes Huang Shengyi from a Kochi family, is uneducated and is a little kid who doesn't understand anything.
always talks about "our circle". Even though that circle makes him live in the underworld and his family is about to break up, he still regards that circle as his god.
changed the routine for Huang Shengyi and his children. He thought it was a huge pain and could not be done. Letting Huang Shengyi and his children stay up day and night is a "small compromise."
His father, because he felt that he had already understood the society (limited to what he thought) as a businessman, and understood the laws and nature of business and even the whole society.
So he likes to use his very social business logic to measure others.
Wu Jing, on the other hand, did not call his wife to accompany him when eating. After being told this, he became so angry that he went into the toilet and threw a towel.
couldn’t play games. He couldn’t stand it and blamed his wife for always changing positions, which made him unable to play games anymore. So he became incompetent and became furious. He gave up and made Xie Nan cry.
The most speechless thing is that before he got married, he went on Xie Nan's show and asked Xie Nan if she had a partner. Later, a friend recommended Xie Nan, but he didn't like it either.
At first glance, his daddy smell is just a bad temper.
In fact, he sees himself as a Kung Fu master who can endure hardships and is full of male hormones. So he couldn't accept that he couldn't play games and didn't want to feel his wife's emotional needs delicately.
Are you crazy about chasing your wife? How is it possible? He is a strong and unyielding martial arts king, not a hesitant and indecisive child.
Looking back at the scene on the show where Xie Nan was asked if she had a boyfriend, he thought he was "so wretched" at that time.
originally wanted to express how smart he was by not quarreling with his wife, but he did not intend to reveal that he was actually a father who "does not argue with villains and women."
From the perspective of a kung fu king, his wife’s ability to look after the house is not worth mentioning, let alone her charm.
He said that he has practiced everything in his life, but he has never practiced talking. And Xie Nan has only practiced talking, so he usually doesn't quarrel with his wife.
and Du Haitao also have a weird taste.
He felt that Shen Mengchen without makeup was scary and would directly ask her to put on a layer of foundation before she appeared again.Once Shen Mengchen was made to cry and instead of comforting him, he asked: Are you acting? Do you shed so many tears?
said that he broke up with Shen Mengchen due to public opinion, but he did not show any nostalgia or tenderness after the breakup. Shen Mengchen called him, and he was as cold as customer service: If nothing happens, I will hang up first.
During that time, Shen Mengchen lived like a year and suffered from anorexia.
Recently, Du Haitao has been even more outrageous. He took various beautiful photos of his female friends Jin Jing, but never of Shen Mengchen.
Then he took the photo to disgust Shen Mengchen:
Be good, did the photo I took of Jin Jing look good?
Have I ever taken such a beautiful picture for you?
Moreover, in this interview video, Du Haitao filmed Shen Mengchen with his head tilted upward throughout, making his female friend look so beautiful, but he didn't care about his wife's image at all.
It can be seen that Du Haitao's fatherly attitude stems from being a rich second generation and the mainstay of "Quick Book" back then. He looked down upon the fledgling Shen Mengchen's initiative in the early stages of the relationship. But after so many years, "Kuaiben" is gone, and Shen Mengchen's popularity is not much worse than him. He still has the sense of superiority he had back then.
Huang Lei ’s father will not go into details. He always forgets to turn off the toilet light, and in turn it is Sun Li who did it. Everyone should be familiar with this brainwashing case.
His superiority not limited to marriage is actually because he considers himself a veteran in domestic entertainment and a former handsome guy.
Finally, Li Yapeng ’s father is even funnier. He likes to use Faye Wong to extract commercial value and forcefully kiss Faye Wong in public.
In order to give the ring provided by its advertiser to highlight the romance, he put live butterflies in the ring box. As a result, when the Buddhist Faye Wong opened, the butterflies were all suffocated...
His daddy smell comes from his self-identification Zhili, he is a business wizard (fantasy version) whose business is better than his acting. Whether it's acting, being a literary goddess or a diva, or being a wife or marriage, you can use it to pave the way for your business dreams.
In fact, the commonality of their fatherly personalities can be put simply in one sentence: intentionally magnifies his strengths in a certain field to complete his personality, thereby looking down on his partner and treating him as an incomplete personality. In essence, it is all a kind of arrogant delusion.
We have to exclude Li Yapeng from this list, because unlike others, he has not even managed to show off any of his strengths from beginning to end. He is a confident type.
What’s funny is that these people have all been criticized directly by discerning people.
Li Xiangyi Yang Zi , why do you always interrupt Huang Shengyi’s speech and keep answering for her? She always publicly expresses that she is not capable of being a child, so why are you willing to spend huge amounts of money for her investment?
slapped Yang Zi in the face, and he could only keep going back.
Song Jia Yin Yang Huang Lei, and his wife are really made for each other. It is completely impossible for her to turn off the lights. It is such a trivial matter, but she still brings it up. Huang Lei said: I was teasing her.
After hearing Wu Jing’s initial disdain for Xie Nan’s remarks, Sa Beining asked him directly if he wanted to jump off the building today? The kind that dances eight times? Wu Jing could only laugh along.
But are wives really stupid? Why can't they tell the difference? The essence is that everyone thinks they are "bearing it", but on the contrary, they really thought they needed such a man at the beginning.
For example, Huang Shengyi has a disciplinarian mother who teaches at any time. When Huang Shengyi returned to her parents' home to cook and wait for her mother's comments after becoming a mother, she was as trembling as a primary school student listening to the comments from her head teacher.
Huang Shengyi’s expression when listening to her mother’s comments
Huang Shengyi’s way of getting along with her mother is the same as when she was with Yang Zi.
Huang Shengyi’s expression when listening to Yang Zi’s evaluation
In his early years, Yang Zi believed that he was a role model for Huang Shengyi to learn from, and kept saying, "My requirements for Huang Shengyi are still very strict."
Based on her obedience and habits to the disciplinary-style native family, she did recognize Yang Zi's status as "teacher" and "parent" back then. Following Yang Zi's words, he said that he had indeed learned a lot.
What is the core of discipline? She is a good girl who needs the approval of her parents. This is not the ideology of a mature woman.
Back then, she was only about 20 years old when she met Yang Zi, and she was immature. This was in line with her inner needs.
Coupled with the fact that she has been studying independently for a long time, she became independent and strong too early. After Yang Zi appeared, she naturally wanted to be protected by a strong person so that she could take a breather in the next stage of her life. She urgently needed this sense of security that could give her a breather.
Yang Zi helped her terminate Stephen Chow’s contract and plan her acting career. In family life, superior material conditions also prevent Huang Shengyi from being tied down by trivial matters such as childcare.
Huang Shengyi once said that finding someone who can control her is a higher priority than someone who can take care of her and treat her well. Therefore, in the early years, Yang Zi was indeed Mu Qiang's Huang Shengyi's favorite. What's more, Yang Zi and his biological mother had the same preaching tone. Familiarity is a more charming catalyst for both sexes than comfort.
and Xie Nan too. Born into a military family, his parents were strict in discipline.
Wu Jing proposed dating Xie Nan. The first thing Xie Nan thought of was not to ask about his own heart, but to run out and ask his father. After they received the certificate, Xie Nan's father's first reaction was to say "Thank you, thank you" to Wu Jing, and then lamented that his daughter had finally cleared the store.
When talking about this paragraph, Xie Nan smiled happily and kept emphasizing that what Wu Jing said was "true". It can be seen that she has long been accustomed to the fatherly taste of her original family. It’s normal to follow the original flavor and find the father-like Wu Jing.
And like Huang Shengyi, girls who are forced to become independent prematurely are more likely to be protected by others when they grow up. This is actually a delayed compensation mentality.
Shen Mengchen also falls into this category.
When she was in the fifth or sixth grade, her father was fired due to a misunderstanding. After that, her family was discriminated against within the factory area. From then on, she determined to become the most promising child in the area and cheer up her father.
So she was forced to be strong from an early age.
When Shen Mengchen first met Du Haitao, he was still unknown. Coupled with the discovery that in reality, Du Haitao is not as stupid as shown in the quick notebook, but rather smart (probably should be corrected to shrewd now), the contrast and admiration made Shen Mengchen hit.
Women who are forced to strengthen themselves are more eager to be strong, and they urgently need this kind of sense of security to let themselves breathe. At that moment, Du Haitao was indeed a good match in Shen Mengchen's opinion.
Back then, Faye Wong and the steady Li Yapeng, who brought Dou Jingtong together, also happily walked around in couple clothes, looking like a harmonious and happy family.
Sun Li was only 18 years old at the time and was not outstanding in the department. Even Zeng Li, who is recognized as the most beautiful, was envious of Huang Lei's preference for Sun Li.
So vanity, mixed with youthful ignorance, and with the blessing of the star halo of the handsome senior Huang Lei, if you are selected, it will be difficult not to fall.
But the fact is that these women originally had a good impression of their father-in-law, and even felt that they were a perfect match. They will inevitably be surprised by some truths in their many years of marriage: The so-called fit is only due to the women's own good feelings towards the other half. Imagination has nothing to do with the object itself.
What a father-flavored partner can give is bound to be disappointment or even frustration. Their psychological expectations are seriously misaligned. Their father's first priority is always themselves, and it is impossible to give them the nourishment that fills the void in the true sense.
For example, Du Haitao opened his heart to Shen Mengchen's father, crying and saying that Shen Mengchen was not easy and hard, and hoped that she would be better in the future.
Dad was moved by him and said that he did better than himself and believed that his daughter would not have to work hard again in the future.
You can do better than me, so uncle, don’t worry about this.
Indeed, on the surface, Du Haitao was filial to Shen Mengchen and his family in the show, even peeling shrimps when eating.
But one detail is that after receiving the peeled shrimp, Shen Mengchen repeatedly asked: Do you eat it? Then I ate everything?
Oh my god, Shen Mengchen still wanted to eat a small piece of shrimp, and had to confirm it repeatedly before he dared to eat it. He didn’t feel safe enough.
Not to mention, as we all know, Shen Mengchen was very aggressive in urging marriages in the past few years. Du Haitao's ear piercings may be as big as his eyes. He delayed his marriage to Shen Mengchen until two years ago, and has not held a wedding yet.
Is this what a man who cried and said he hoped Shen Mengchen would be well did?
Shen Mengchen's self-esteem that was suppressed as a child did not find any protection from the "strong man" Du Haitao. Some of it could only be the same as when he was a child, or even further suppressed.
Du Haitao said that Shen Mengchen in his arms is Qiu Qianren
On the other hand, some men will regard women’s filling mentality as a "handle" to facilitate their pursuit of women into traps, and use this to consolidate the father's position in long-term relationships.
For example, during the courtship period, Li Yapeng could send hundreds of text messages to Faye Wong a day. When asked in the post-marriage interview what Faye Wong's favorite song was, he thought for a long time that he only knew the most popular "Legend".
Does he really admire Faye Wong? He may just be better at recognizing women's absent needs.
Just like that, the truth is that not only during the marriage, he wanted to use Faye Wong’s fame for business, but now during the spring tea in the live broadcast room, he also brought his current wife to sing Faye Wong’s songs to continue to attract traffic.
You will find that dad’s standard means that no matter what he does, it is based on himself. Everyone else is beneath you. This is contrary to the concept of women’s ideal marital community.
complementarity based on the concept of community, let alone talk about it.
For example, Huang Shengyi would give her mother-in-law a bath, and she looked like a traditional good daughter-in-law. But Yang Zi would only reward Huang Shengyi with a verbal praise at the moment, nothing more.
Yang Zi likes Huang Shengyi as a traditional good wife, but he doesn't care who Huang Shengyi is, and even asks arrogantly, "Do you have hobbies?" How could someone not have hobbies?
If her ego will harm her own interests, then he will reject her even more.
In the end, women will sense the problem through disappointment again and again:
Huang Shengyi found out that her children would not kiss her, her acting skills were ridiculed by the audience, and her reputation among her peers was ruined when she acted in "Sister Lang"...
They will always find that they Unable to obtain energy protection from their fatherly husbands, fathers may even make their situation worse and worse. The real compensation is ultimately given by themselves.
Therefore, the 41-year-old Huang Shengyi has a close relationship with children now, and is willing to do dramas that are less profitable but more valuable in acting. Regarding her relationship with Yang Zi, she went from always listening to wanting to hear her own voice.
But we haven’t broken up yet.
Shen Mengchen has seen the warmth and coldness of human relationships since she was a child. She has clearly recognized Du Haitao's fatherliness, but ten years later, she is still deeply involved in it and does not want to leave. Regarding the fact that Du Haitao disgusted her with Jin Jing's beautiful photos, she seemed to respond to netizens: She was just acting coquettishly, and was not really angry...
It is enough to know the warmth and coldness of a marriage. Whether they divorce or not, the final direction of the relationship is secondary.
More importantly, women must clearly understand the subjectivity of their own lives, fill themselves up, and nourish themselves.
The person who completes himself is not anyone else, but must be himself, only himself, and only himself. Yang Zi has recently started a trend of appreciating his father. Netizens joked that Wu Jing, Du Haitao, Huang Lei, and Li Yapeng could be included in the variety show "Who is the King of Dads?" . More and more people are beginning to miss the era of goddess Huang Shengyi. lamented, why did she marry the eldest father and suffer from PUA till now? In fact, it is not just "she", but "them". On the other side, Huang Shengyi, together with Xie Nan, Shen Mengchen and Sun Li, has been called the "domestic entertainment ninja". Tolerance is just an appearance. To a certain extent, they are voluntary. Let’s go step by step. Let’s first see how these dads have their own ways. Yang Zi, who dislikes Huang Shengyi from a Kochi family, is uneducated and is a little kid who doesn't understand anything. always talks about "our circle". Even though that circle makes him live in the underworld and his family is about to break up, he still regards that circle as his god. changed the routine for Huang Shengyi and his children. He thought it was a huge pain and could not be done. Letting Huang Shengyi and his children stay up day and night is a "small compromise." His father, because he felt that he had already understood the society (limited to what he thought) as a businessman, and understood the laws and nature of business and even the whole society. So he likes to use his very social business logic to measure others. Wu Jing, on the other hand, did not call his wife to accompany him when eating. After being told this, he became so angry that he went into the toilet and threw a towel. couldn’t play games. He couldn’t stand it and blamed his wife for always changing positions, which made him unable to play games anymore. So he became incompetent and became furious. He gave up and made Xie Nan cry. The most speechless thing is that before he got married, he went on Xie Nan's show and asked Xie Nan if she had a partner. Later, a friend recommended Xie Nan, but he didn't like it either. At first glance, his daddy smell is just a bad temper. In fact, he sees himself as a Kung Fu master who can endure hardships and is full of male hormones. So he couldn't accept that he couldn't play games and didn't want to feel his wife's emotional needs delicately. Are you crazy about chasing your wife? How is it possible? He is a strong and unyielding martial arts king, not a hesitant and indecisive child. Looking back at the scene on the show where Xie Nan was asked if she had a boyfriend, he thought he was "so wretched" at that time. originally wanted to express how smart he was by not quarreling with his wife, but he did not intend to reveal that he was actually a father who "does not argue with villains and women." From the perspective of a kung fu king, his wife’s ability to look after the house is not worth mentioning, let alone her charm. He said that he has practiced everything in his life, but he has never practiced talking. And Xie Nan has only practiced talking, so he usually doesn't quarrel with his wife. and Du Haitao also have a weird taste. He felt that Shen Mengchen without makeup was scary and would directly ask her to put on a layer of foundation before she appeared again.Once Shen Mengchen was made to cry and instead of comforting him, he asked: Are you acting? Do you shed so many tears? said that he broke up with Shen Mengchen due to public opinion, but he did not show any nostalgia or tenderness after the breakup. Shen Mengchen called him, and he was as cold as customer service: If nothing happens, I will hang up first. During that time, Shen Mengchen lived like a year and suffered from anorexia. Recently, Du Haitao has been even more outrageous. He took various beautiful photos of his female friends Jin Jing, but never of Shen Mengchen. Then he took the photo to disgust Shen Mengchen: Be good, did the photo I took of Jin Jing look good? Have I ever taken such a beautiful picture for you? Moreover, in this interview video, Du Haitao filmed Shen Mengchen with his head tilted upward throughout, making his female friend look so beautiful, but he didn't care about his wife's image at all. It can be seen that Du Haitao's fatherly attitude stems from being a rich second generation and the mainstay of "Quick Book" back then. He looked down upon the fledgling Shen Mengchen's initiative in the early stages of the relationship. But after so many years, "Kuaiben" is gone, and Shen Mengchen's popularity is not much worse than him. He still has the sense of superiority he had back then. Huang Lei ’s father will not go into details. He always forgets to turn off the toilet light, and in turn it is Sun Li who did it. Everyone should be familiar with this brainwashing case. His superiority not limited to marriage is actually because he considers himself a veteran in domestic entertainment and a former handsome guy. Finally, Li Yapeng ’s father is even funnier. He likes to use Faye Wong to extract commercial value and forcefully kiss Faye Wong in public. In order to give the ring provided by its advertiser to highlight the romance, he put live butterflies in the ring box. As a result, when the Buddhist Faye Wong opened, the butterflies were all suffocated... His daddy smell comes from his self-identification Zhili, he is a business wizard (fantasy version) whose business is better than his acting. Whether it's acting, being a literary goddess or a diva, or being a wife or marriage, you can use it to pave the way for your business dreams. In fact, the commonality of their fatherly personalities can be put simply in one sentence: intentionally magnifies his strengths in a certain field to complete his personality, thereby looking down on his partner and treating him as an incomplete personality. In essence, it is all a kind of arrogant delusion. We have to exclude Li Yapeng from this list, because unlike others, he has not even managed to show off any of his strengths from beginning to end. He is a confident type. What’s funny is that these people have all been criticized directly by discerning people. Li Xiangyi Yang Zi , why do you always interrupt Huang Shengyi’s speech and keep answering for her? She always publicly expresses that she is not capable of being a child, so why are you willing to spend huge amounts of money for her investment? slapped Yang Zi in the face, and he could only keep going back. Song Jia Yin Yang Huang Lei, and his wife are really made for each other. It is completely impossible for her to turn off the lights. It is such a trivial matter, but she still brings it up. Huang Lei said: I was teasing her. After hearing Wu Jing’s initial disdain for Xie Nan’s remarks, Sa Beining asked him directly if he wanted to jump off the building today? The kind that dances eight times? Wu Jing could only laugh along. But are wives really stupid? Why can't they tell the difference? The essence is that everyone thinks they are "bearing it", but on the contrary, they really thought they needed such a man at the beginning. For example, Huang Shengyi has a disciplinarian mother who teaches at any time. When Huang Shengyi returned to her parents' home to cook and wait for her mother's comments after becoming a mother, she was as trembling as a primary school student listening to the comments from her head teacher. Huang Shengyi’s expression when listening to her mother’s comments Huang Shengyi’s way of getting along with her mother is the same as when she was with Yang Zi. Huang Shengyi’s expression when listening to Yang Zi’s evaluation In his early years, Yang Zi believed that he was a role model for Huang Shengyi to learn from, and kept saying, "My requirements for Huang Shengyi are still very strict." Based on her obedience and habits to the disciplinary-style native family, she did recognize Yang Zi's status as "teacher" and "parent" back then. Following Yang Zi's words, he said that he had indeed learned a lot. What is the core of discipline? She is a good girl who needs the approval of her parents. This is not the ideology of a mature woman. Back then, she was only about 20 years old when she met Yang Zi, and she was immature. This was in line with her inner needs. Coupled with the fact that she has been studying independently for a long time, she became independent and strong too early. After Yang Zi appeared, she naturally wanted to be protected by a strong person so that she could take a breather in the next stage of her life. She urgently needed this sense of security that could give her a breather. Yang Zi helped her terminate Stephen Chow’s contract and plan her acting career. In family life, superior material conditions also prevent Huang Shengyi from being tied down by trivial matters such as childcare. Huang Shengyi once said that finding someone who can control her is a higher priority than someone who can take care of her and treat her well. Therefore, in the early years, Yang Zi was indeed Mu Qiang's Huang Shengyi's favorite. What's more, Yang Zi and his biological mother had the same preaching tone. Familiarity is a more charming catalyst for both sexes than comfort. and Xie Nan too. Born into a military family, his parents were strict in discipline. Wu Jing proposed dating Xie Nan. The first thing Xie Nan thought of was not to ask about his own heart, but to run out and ask his father. After they received the certificate, Xie Nan's father's first reaction was to say "Thank you, thank you" to Wu Jing, and then lamented that his daughter had finally cleared the store. When talking about this paragraph, Xie Nan smiled happily and kept emphasizing that what Wu Jing said was "true". It can be seen that she has long been accustomed to the fatherly taste of her original family. It’s normal to follow the original flavor and find the father-like Wu Jing. And like Huang Shengyi, girls who are forced to become independent prematurely are more likely to be protected by others when they grow up. This is actually a delayed compensation mentality. Shen Mengchen also falls into this category. When she was in the fifth or sixth grade, her father was fired due to a misunderstanding. After that, her family was discriminated against within the factory area. From then on, she determined to become the most promising child in the area and cheer up her father. So she was forced to be strong from an early age. When Shen Mengchen first met Du Haitao, he was still unknown. Coupled with the discovery that in reality, Du Haitao is not as stupid as shown in the quick notebook, but rather smart (probably should be corrected to shrewd now), the contrast and admiration made Shen Mengchen hit. Women who are forced to strengthen themselves are more eager to be strong, and they urgently need this kind of sense of security to let themselves breathe. At that moment, Du Haitao was indeed a good match in Shen Mengchen's opinion. Back then, Faye Wong and the steady Li Yapeng, who brought Dou Jingtong together, also happily walked around in couple clothes, looking like a harmonious and happy family. Sun Li was only 18 years old at the time and was not outstanding in the department. Even Zeng Li, who is recognized as the most beautiful, was envious of Huang Lei's preference for Sun Li. So vanity, mixed with youthful ignorance, and with the blessing of the star halo of the handsome senior Huang Lei, if you are selected, it will be difficult not to fall. But the fact is that these women originally had a good impression of their father-in-law, and even felt that they were a perfect match. They will inevitably be surprised by some truths in their many years of marriage: The so-called fit is only due to the women's own good feelings towards the other half. Imagination has nothing to do with the object itself. What a father-flavored partner can give is bound to be disappointment or even frustration. Their psychological expectations are seriously misaligned. Their father's first priority is always themselves, and it is impossible to give them the nourishment that fills the void in the true sense. For example, Du Haitao opened his heart to Shen Mengchen's father, crying and saying that Shen Mengchen was not easy and hard, and hoped that she would be better in the future. Dad was moved by him and said that he did better than himself and believed that his daughter would not have to work hard again in the future. You can do better than me, so uncle, don’t worry about this. Indeed, on the surface, Du Haitao was filial to Shen Mengchen and his family in the show, even peeling shrimps when eating. But one detail is that after receiving the peeled shrimp, Shen Mengchen repeatedly asked: Do you eat it? Then I ate everything? Oh my god, Shen Mengchen still wanted to eat a small piece of shrimp, and had to confirm it repeatedly before he dared to eat it. He didn’t feel safe enough. Not to mention, as we all know, Shen Mengchen was very aggressive in urging marriages in the past few years. Du Haitao's ear piercings may be as big as his eyes. He delayed his marriage to Shen Mengchen until two years ago, and has not held a wedding yet. Is this what a man who cried and said he hoped Shen Mengchen would be well did? Shen Mengchen's self-esteem that was suppressed as a child did not find any protection from the "strong man" Du Haitao. Some of it could only be the same as when he was a child, or even further suppressed. Du Haitao said that Shen Mengchen in his arms is Qiu Qianren On the other hand, some men will regard women’s filling mentality as a "handle" to facilitate their pursuit of women into traps, and use this to consolidate the father's position in long-term relationships. For example, during the courtship period, Li Yapeng could send hundreds of text messages to Faye Wong a day. When asked in the post-marriage interview what Faye Wong's favorite song was, he thought for a long time that he only knew the most popular "Legend". Does he really admire Faye Wong? He may just be better at recognizing women's absent needs. Just like that, the truth is that not only during the marriage, he wanted to use Faye Wong’s fame for business, but now during the spring tea in the live broadcast room, he also brought his current wife to sing Faye Wong’s songs to continue to attract traffic. You will find that dad’s standard means that no matter what he does, it is based on himself. Everyone else is beneath you. This is contrary to the concept of women’s ideal marital community. complementarity based on the concept of community, let alone talk about it. For example, Huang Shengyi would give her mother-in-law a bath, and she looked like a traditional good daughter-in-law. But Yang Zi would only reward Huang Shengyi with a verbal praise at the moment, nothing more. Yang Zi likes Huang Shengyi as a traditional good wife, but he doesn't care who Huang Shengyi is, and even asks arrogantly, "Do you have hobbies?" How could someone not have hobbies? If her ego will harm her own interests, then he will reject her even more. In the end, women will sense the problem through disappointment again and again: Huang Shengyi found out that her children would not kiss her, her acting skills were ridiculed by the audience, and her reputation among her peers was ruined when she acted in "Sister Lang"... They will always find that they Unable to obtain energy protection from their fatherly husbands, fathers may even make their situation worse and worse. The real compensation is ultimately given by themselves. Therefore, the 41-year-old Huang Shengyi has a close relationship with children now, and is willing to do dramas that are less profitable but more valuable in acting. Regarding her relationship with Yang Zi, she went from always listening to wanting to hear her own voice. But we haven’t broken up yet. Shen Mengchen has seen the warmth and coldness of human relationships since she was a child. She has clearly recognized Du Haitao's fatherliness, but ten years later, she is still deeply involved in it and does not want to leave. Regarding the fact that Du Haitao disgusted her with Jin Jing's beautiful photos, she seemed to respond to netizens: She was just acting coquettishly, and was not really angry... It is enough to know the warmth and coldness of a marriage. Whether they divorce or not, the final direction of the relationship is secondary. More importantly, women must clearly understand the subjectivity of their own lives, fill themselves up, and nourish themselves. The person who completes himself is not anyone else, but must be himself, only himself, and only himself.