What is sex and what is love? Yi Nengjing’s explanation is so subtle. Remember to forward this video to your husband. Every man in the besieged city should think about this issue. Yi Nengjing said: "Years ago, I was invited to attend a university lecture, and a boy raised hi

What is sex and what is love? Yi Nengjing’s explanation is so subtle. Remember to forward this video to your husband. Every man in the besieged city should think about this issue.

Yi Nengjing said: "Years ago, I was invited to attend a university lecture, and a boy raised his hand and asked a question. Sister Yi Nengjing, I want to ask you a question, what is sex and what is love? The audience was in uproar. Laugh, my son asked me this question when he was in the sixth grade of elementary school. At that time, there was a song by kisha, and there was a line in the song that said, "sex and make love." My son asked me, "Mom, what is make love?" I thought at that time. I immediately told him, we have watched Discovery, there is a story about the growth of a little lion. The so-called animal is sex. When an animal goes out, it does not need to know this person, it does not need to ask its name, and it does not need to meet him. The other parent's parents, when it was in estrus, went directly to the lioness and sniffed it. Then the lioness happened to be next to it at this time and sniffed it. Then the lioness happened to be at this time, and the two hit it off and had a baby. After he got a bunch of lion cubs, he let the female lion raise them alone. When the male lion wanted to go into heat next time, he went to find another female lion at this time. He didn't care at all, just whether he needed to be treated This little lion is responsible. Does it need to take care of the mood of the female lion? I said this kind of animal nature is not human. It is called sex. What is make love? Make love is like human beings. Humanity. You have to understand this. People think about what the baby's life will be like after giving birth to a baby with him. The two of you have to be responsible for the baby. I think this requires responsibility and love, and a long-term determination that the two of you are willing to support you and share the hardships together. , then I told my son, when you grow up, should you be an animal or a human? When my son heard this, he was very frightened and said, "Mom, I want to be a human, we are human, but my son relies on an instinct When I was going to vent myself, I told him, you like an animal, and he immediately understood what I meant. This became our secret code, and he always considered the consequences after careful consideration. I would say, well, this is what humans do, so I think if parents have boys at home, while we tell our daughters how to protect themselves, we really need to teach our sons how not to invade others. For girls, let him understand his body and his desires and needs earlier, and how to be responsible for these desires. There is too much information in today's era, and the sooner he can start this kind of education, the better."

While most Chinese parents still find it difficult to educate their children on the shy and sensitive relationship between the sexes, she can talk about the most naked issues in the most civilized and understandable way. Who can say that she is just a pretentious person? Woolen cloth?

Her son Harry has always been very independent. Following his own preferences, he often posts photos of men dressing up as women on the Internet, and his sexual orientation has also been controversial.

As a mother, Yi Nengjing did not respond directly. Instead, she took the opportunity of her son's return to school to publish a long article. She expressed her long-lasting love for Harry between the lines, and also expressed that Harry was a very good child. She encouraged him. Lee "goes with the flow" and says that her son's uniqueness is not a pressure for her. On the contrary, it has taught her what humility and surrender are.

Later, in an interview, she once again talked about her son's sexual orientation. She said: "Including many universities around the world, you no longer need to fill in "he" as a boy, or "she" as a girl. Gender is neutral and gender is fluid. , I can be very handsome if I want to be handsome today, and I can be very elegant if I want to be very elegant today."

Yi Nengjing's views and behavior are undoubtedly a kind of understanding and protection for her son.

After Harry officially announced that he "came out", he posted a message saying, "I am gay and I am proud of myself!" ”

Many people were surprised and thought he was crazy?

But later, after seeing Harry’s street interviews, everyone refreshed their understanding of him. They really felt that he was a soft-hearted and open-minded person. , speaks clearly and has his own independent thoughts. He believes: “The pursuit of beauty should not be limited by time and trends, nor should it be criticized because of gender. "

's attitude of daring to challenge gender stereotypes and bravely pursuing self-expression has won the favor of many netizens.

Sure enough, children who grow up in love are rich in their hearts, and they will naturally choose "love" Instead of being picky, you yearn for high-quality "love", and this kind of love often contains a higher sense of responsibility. Do you want to be a beast or a human? Remember to forward this video to your husband and every man in the city. Everyone should think about this issue.