When someone else plays the villain, the netizens who got into the drama will at most make some complaints about him;
When he plays the villain, he is not only complained by netizens, but also directly called out by his wife, "Don't go home."
Who is this "he"?
He is the actor Tong Dawei who has become popular recently with the suspense drama "Dislocation" after "The Story of a Rose".
If we talk about "The Story of a Rose", Tong Dawei plays his "true character" in it.
So in "Dislocation", Tong Dawei can be called "extraordinary performance".
Because he played this villain, he is not only scheming, but also a real "crazy critic".
After watching it, netizens commented on him: "Tong Dawei, don't do this, I'm scared."
Tong Dawei's wife Guan Yue directly said: Just stay on the set and film, don't go home yet. "
It can be seen from this that the contrast between Tong Dawei's roles this time is huge!
Even though Tong Dawei's "Crazy Batch" performance is quite touching, people who know Tong Dawei know that this guy is actually a real good man.
commented in the words of insider Shen Teng: "Tong Dawei is the most wife-loving man I have ever seen. He is not a character, he loves his family and his wife from the bottom of his heart. "
Today we will take a look at Tong Dawei in life from Guan Yue's perspective, and what kind of person he really is!
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Anyone who knows Tong Dawei in the circle knows that he has three major principles when filming.
First, never He had too much contact with the actresses on the set;
secondly, he never took the initiative to ask for the phone number of any actress;
thirdly, if he communicated with the actress in private, he must talk about how much he loves his wife and children.
Especially the third point, Tong Dawei implemented it. He was quite thorough, even if he was misunderstood as deliberately "showing affection", he didn't care.
Regarding these three items, host Yi Lijing specifically asked Tong Dawei during an interview in 2015: "You did this to deliberately establish a "love". Wife" character design? "
At that time, Tong Dawei answered like this.
He said: "I mentioned my wife and children to let the other party know immediately that I am a husband and a father, and my family is very happy, so I feel You can avoid many problems later. "
Now I savor these words carefully, and I can't help but sigh. Tong Dawei is really wise in terms of human relations.
But Tong Dawei did not have such a philosophy of life at the beginning.
In his words, the young Sometimes, I have gone too far and lost, so now when I think about it, I realize that the most important thing in life is not your fame and fortune, but your family.
And Tong Dawei is the most important family member in his life, besides his parents. None other than his wife of 23 years, Guan Yue.
Perhaps in the eyes of many people, Guan Yue and Tong Dawei are not compatible.
In terms of fame, Tong Dawei has been an "evergreen tree" in the entertainment industry since his debut. , movies are being made non-stop, and Guan Yue is known to everyone more as "Mrs. Tong Dawei"
In terms of body and appearance, Tong Dawei and Guan Yue are the same age, but when they stand together, Guan Yue is obviously older;
Especially the comparison of the two photos below makes people wonder how Tong Dawei takes better care of himself than his wife!
No matter what the outside world says or how they look at it, Tong Dawei always treats his wife
So, Guan Yue is amazing. Where is it?
In Tong Dawei's words: "Guan Yue is beautiful, generous, gentle, and very strict. I can't live a day without her."
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Tong Dawei once said, "I am very lucky, I am." Guan Yue is there at every important stage of life. "
In 2001, Tong Dawei, who was still a poor boy, fell in love at first sight with Guan Yue, who had just entered Nortel. In order to win the beauty back, he chased Guan Yue for three years before Guan Yue nodded in agreement.
There is another detail here. On the day the relationship was confirmed, Guan Yue said to Tong Dawei, if the two of us are together, I must take care of you.
At that time, Tong Dawei didn't know what the meaning behind this "manage" was. It wasn't until they were actually together that he understood that Guanyue's "manage" was simply the luckiest thing in life.
Under Guan Yue's "help and supervision", Tong Dawei rose to prominence.
Especially after filming the two dramas "Jade Goddess of Mercy" and "Struggle", Tong Dawei's fame and status are at the peak of his power!
In his words, no matter where he went during that time, there were flowers and applause, as if he had really become a big shot.
As his fame rises day by day, Tong Dawei's spirit is also extremely inflated.
Guan Yue's words of "controlling" him on weekdays made Tong Dawei feel more and more harsh!
He said, during that time, I just wanted to confront Guan Yue. If Guan Yue asked me to go east, I would definitely go west.
In order to confront Guan Yue, Tong Dawei also partyed with a bunch of fair-weather friends all day long, and got drunk every day.
In the end, Tong Dawei took the initiative to break up with Guan Yue. He told Guan Yue that he should not be restrained but should be free.
Faced with a relationship of nearly 5 years, it ended with a breakup.
Guan Yue was very sad. Seeing that Tong Dawei had decided to leave, she no longer made any efforts to stay, but cut off all contact.
When they first broke up, Tong Dawei was very happy because no one cared about him anymore when he was drinking and singing with his friends. However, Tong Dawei regretted this feeling of freedom within a few days!
Later, Tong Dawei talked about the half year when he and Guan Yue broke up.
He uses "gray" to describe his mood, as if everything in life has no color.
When the disease was most serious, Tong Dawei cried every day. In his words, sometimes when he was having fun with a group of buddies, he suddenly cried when he thought of Guan Yue, and he couldn't control his emotions at all.
After realizing how important Guan Yue was to him, Tong Dawei began to remedy the situation and tried to regain Guan Yue.
Ke Guan Yue, despite her gentle appearance, is actually a very determined person on the inside. When she was dating Tong Dawei, she said that she was very serious about her relationship and would not break up easily. Once they broke up, she would not look back easily.
As expected, Guan Yue never responded to her calls or messages to redeem her. Even if Tong Dawei specifically asked his friend Dong Xuan to intercede, Guan Yue remained unmoved.
In the end, Tong Dawei had no choice but to call his brother Guan Yue, crying every time.
In Tong Dawei's words: "Fortunately, my "uncle" is willing to help me, otherwise I would have been helpless."
Finally, under Tong Dawei's tears and remorse, Guan Yue softened her heart.
Seeing that Guan Yue finally had a change of heart, Tong Dawei struck while the iron was hot and took Guan Yue directly to get the marriage certificate. In his words, "Guan Yue is relieved now, and I am even more relieved."
In 2007, the two registered to receive the marriage certificate, and in 2008 The two arranged a make-up wedding, and from then on Tong Dawei completely transformed into a good man who always puts his wife first.
Even after giving birth to three children, Tong Dawei still firmly said, "In my heart, my wife is always the first, and the children are the second."
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In 2024, Tong Dawei and Guan Yue have known each other for 23 years and been married for 16 years.
Guan Yue is still the woman in charge of everything.
Guan Yue manages many of the family's financial power, the company's behind-the-scenes operations, and Tong Dawei's work arrangements.
Putting all these aside, Guan Yue is still a mother of three children. She also has to take care of her children's lives and their studies.
In Tong Dawei’s words, “What you see is me filming, but actually I am the soldier who charges forward, and my wife is the one who controls the overall situation."
It is precisely because Guan Yue sits at the back that Tong Dawei can move forward with all his strength!
Take the situation in recent years as an example, although there are an endless stream of "little fresh meat" in the entertainment industry, Tong Dawei has never been short of filming.
Especially at the age of 45, Tong Dawei has experienced an explosion of works. He has released two hit dramas, "The Story of a Rose" and "Dislocation". , Tong Dawei is getting happier year by year.
He gave two examples to describe his happiest moments.
First, when he went out to work, he kissed and hugged his wife, and then 3. He hugged the children one by one, and he felt like a big bird going out to find food. He felt very accomplished.
Secondly, when he came home from work, he cooked for his wife and children. He was not only good at braised pork ribs and braised yellow croaker tofu. Waiting for many dishes, he can also make dumplings and fried dough sticks. You can order whatever you want.
In his words: "I don't have any big hobbies. Watching my wife and children eat the food I cook makes me feel alive." Worth it! "
Deng Chao also admired Tong Dawei's caring for his family.
Deng Chao once said, "You have to accept Tong Dawei. When people shoot "intimate scenes", they will definitely report to their wives in advance and go home to cook after the filming. , pick up the children from school. "
It can be seen that Tong Dawei is really well-known in the circle as a good man.
Today, Tong Dawei's happiness continues.
At the age of 45, he has a virtuous wife who manages the house, three lovely children, and his own career He has also climbed up step by step.
I have to say that Tong Dawei has been able to stay clean in the mixed entertainment industry for more than 20 years, which is enviable and even more admirable!
In the words of netizens: If all men could learn from Tong Dawei, Why not make a fortune?
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