A wife of wretched men should not go to court, and a friend of poverty and lowliness should not be abandoned. However, in reality, in most cases, "men have been ruthless since ancient times." Especially when the status of husband and wife is very different, the gap becomes wider

The wife of chaff cannot leave the court, and the friend of the poor cannot be abandoned.

However, in reality, in most cases, "men have been more ruthless since ancient times." Especially when the status of husband and wife is very different, the gap becomes wider and wider, and most of the time, the work is divided.

When the husband becomes a much-anticipated Spring Festival Gala star, and the wife is still an uncultured rural woman, such a marriage is destined to be the second time that Chen Shimei fails to live up to the woman's affection.

There are many men in the entertainment industry like Chen Shimei, and Zhao Benshan is one of them. His wife Ge Shuzhen stayed with him through thick and thin for 12 years. After Zhao Benshan became famous, he chose to abandon his wife who was a loser.

Ge Shuzhen is a rural woman with no culture, no background, and no connections. She was divorced when she was young and her son died in middle age. She had such a bumpy fate, but she did not spend the rest of her life miserable. How did she go from being a dishwasher to becoming a millionaire? ?

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Born in poverty, but has the courage and wisdom to choose marriage independently

Ge Shuzhen was born in a small mountain village in Liaoning Province. He grew up in a poor family, and when he was 19 years old, he met Zhao Benshan, a poor boy from a neighboring village, on a blind date.

For men in mountain villages, poverty makes them lose the right to choose marriage and have to get married for the sake of marriage.

Zhao Benshan is 22 years old. He is considered an older man in the village. His family is poor. His mother died young and his father ran away. He has no father or mother. Apart from playing the erhu, he has no skills.

Zhao Benshan didn't like the ordinary-looking Ge Shuzhen, so he could only succumb to the reality of poverty, but resisted the surrender of marriage in ridiculous ways.

But Ge Shuzhen has her own unique vision. People in the village felt that Zhao Benshan's family was poor and had no skills and strength, so marrying him would be asking for trouble.

Ge Shuzhen, who has never read a book and does not know a few Chinese characters, has a special regard for Zhao Benshan. Others think that Zhao Benshan is slippery and lazy, but she thinks that Zhao Benshan is humorous and worth living with.

So, after meeting on a blind date, Ge Shuzhen decided to marry Zhao Benshan. Even though Zhao Benshan's family was so poor that he only had a thatched hut, he couldn't even afford a decent set of bridal clothes, and he didn't have any betrothal gifts. Even Zhao Benshan was unwilling to accept the bride.

Ge Shuzhen ignored it and walked to Zhao Benshan's home wearing the bright red clothes she had sewn. She was considered married.

In that era, people could drown in saliva. Ge Shuzhen firmly believed that she made her own decision about her marriage. No matter what others said, she decided bravely and chose bravely.

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After 12 years of ups and downs, she was abandoned

After marriage, Ge Shuzhen devoted herself to Zhao Benshan. She did all the housework at home, in the mountains and in the fields by herself. Not only did she not dislike Zhao Benshan because he could only play the erhu, but she also fully supported him in his career.

The originally bare-walled home became a family of four with joy and laughter after giving birth to a son and a daughter due to the arrival of Ge Shuzhen.

Sadly, his son Zhao Tiedan turned out to be deaf-mute and suffered from congenital heart disease. He needed to constantly take medicine and seek medical treatment, which made the poor family even worse.

Fortunately, when his son was 5 years old, Zhao Benshan entered the CCTV Spring Festival Gala stage with his humorous and vivid performance and became famous overnight. With Zhao Benshan's popularity, his family's conditions have improved a lot. He bought a house, a car, and had money to treat his son's illness.

However, Ge Shuzhen was at home taking care of her children, but she didn't expect that what was waiting for her was Zhao Benshan's "divorce".

Perhaps, Ge Shuzhen had long thought that one day, when Zhao Benshan filed for divorce, she was very calm and went through the divorce procedures with him calmly.

Some people say that Ge Shuzhen did not cry or make trouble because the compensation for divorce was sufficient. In 1991, 250,000 in cash, a house, and a car were equivalent to one million assets today.

In fact, people who say this underestimate women’s sensitivity to marriage.

Ge Shuzhen is a rural woman, but she is not stupid. Zhao Benshan has been away from home for many years, and the two of them have fewer and fewer words in common. She knows that crying cannot get her husband's love and care, so it is better to let go, give him freedom, and give herself dignity.

However, in marriage, hard work, affectionate companionship, and sincere dedication cannot save a man from his betrayal. Instead of feeling sorry for yourself, try to live your best life.

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is going to the sun. After the suffering, he has achieved self -suffering.

is divorced for less than a year. Perhaps she was too deeply hurt by her marriage, but she always said she wanted to raise children and would not marry again.

Although I have a house and a car after the divorce, I still have 250,000 yuan given by Zhao Benshan. However, Ge Shuzhen knew that she would have to support the family by herself in the future, and she would never be able to sit back and have nothing. At this point, she started her working career.

Having no skills and no knowledge of business, Ge Shuzhen went to work as a dishwasher in a hotel. She soaked in the pool from morning to night. Her hands were bleached and her legs were numb when she stood. She only earned 150 yuan a month.

In order to treat her son's illness, Ge Shuzhen felt that it was worth it no matter how hard and tiring it was. Using her salary to buy medicine for her son and books for her daughter, and looking at the smiles of her children, Ge Shuzhen felt that life was still full of hope.

Sufferings in life always come one after another. The son eventually died of a heart attack.

Ge Shuzhen cried so hard that she fell ill and lay in bed with no love in her heart.

Ge Shuzhen’s daughter was considerate and attentive, and her patient companionship made Ge Shuzhen come back to life. She told herself that she must be strong and that she still had a daughter who needed her.

After her health recovered, Ge Shuzhen looked for a job again. I looked around and found no suitable job. Some people asked her to make money in the name of Zhao Benshan's ex-wife, but Ge Shuzhen firmly refused, saying bluntly: He is him, I am me, and I will not destroy his brand.

In order to make a living, Ge Shuzhen set up a street stall, selling shoes and socks, and also worked as a handyman and cleaner in restaurants. Time passed by. It was not until her daughter graduated from college and found a stable job that she followed her daughter to live in Dalian.

For Ge Shuzhen, her daughter's job is stable, which is the greatest relief. On days when she was accompanying her daughter at work, Ge Shuzhen was wandering around Dalian and discovered that there was a hotel for sale at the entrance of the community, so she bought the hotel.

With her enthusiastic and down-to-earth personality and many years of working experience in restaurants, Ge Shuzhen asked the chef to increase the portions of the dishes and add spicy and oily ingredients according to the taste of the guests. got up.

The restaurant that was bought for 20,000 yuan actually has an annual income of nearly 200,000 yuan. Over time, Ge Shuzhen gradually became a millionaire.

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As a woman, brave the wind and waves.

As women, everyone is likely to encounter misfortune in marriage and setbacks in life. Whether she can become a millionaire or not is not important. What is important is that Ge Shuzhen stays true to her heart and survives the difficult years. , worked quietly, and finally achieved wealth and spiritual freedom through hard work.

Ge Shuzhen is a role model for women. When it comes to marriage, if you come, I will be loyal and passionate; if you leave, I will never be miserable. If you go on your Spring Festival Gala road, I will live my inspirational life.

Girls, please come on. May all women have a strong, sunny heart and be able to overcome the difficulties and setbacks given by fate.

text: swallow