Wen/Zhang Xiaonuan
Wen Yanjing swore in front of Sheng Hong and the eldest lady: Even if seven or eight princesses look at me in the future, I will not be tempted.
But the reality is that Wen Yanjing became restless shortly after his release. In
's original work, Hua Lan said this:
Sixth brother-in-law treats Sixth sister as eyeballs. He is afraid that it will melt in his mouth, and he is afraid of falling when he holds it in his hand, so he refuses to separate for a moment. The fifth brother-in-law had to beat from time to time. A while ago, the fifth brother-in-law's husband gave a beautiful concubine, and the fifth sister made a lot of noise, and finally had to agree.
Gu Tingye 's vows made in front of Minglan have all come true. Gu Tingye is the old man among men, and Minglan is the old woman among women. Gu Tingye said that he only loves Minglan in his life, and also done. It is said in the original book that he gave the two beauties given to him by the vassal king, and then gave them to the soldiers below who could not marry their wives, only Minglan in his eyes.
Ke Wen Yanjing swore an oath in front of his father-in-law, move a place, and forget it.
thinks that at the beginning, his love was more than Jin Jian, and it couldn't stand scrutiny. It was more like a self-directed and self-acted play. Only Rulan was fascinated and entered the game.
Reputation
When Minglan learned that the man in Rulan's private meeting at night was actually Wen Yanjing, who Sheng Hong promised to Molan, Minglan cursed on the spot: He was shameless and lost the marriage of his fourth sister, so he to haunt you.
Rulan retorted: Brother Jing is a real gentleman, and besides, he saw me first. Back then, Daddy chose him to be the son-in-law of the fourth sister, and specially invited him to come to the house for tea. It was that time when I lost the veil in the garden, and Brother Wen happened to pass by. He thought I was the little envoy, so he helped me with the veil. Son picked it up. Later, he came a few times, and every time I waited for him in the garden, I just wanted to say a few more words to him. He said that I look good, look very comfortable, very bright.
Actually, when Rulan said these words to Minglan at the time, Minglan doubted it, and Wen Yanjing's words were justified in deceiving Rulan.
Wen Yanjing's words cannot stand scrutiny at all.
One of them, Rulan is the daughter of the Sheng family. The eldest lady can't wait to put the most expensive mink on her little daughter. Rulan's dress must look like gold and jade. In terms of dress, how could she look like A little girl?
Second, Rulan is unruly in the Sheng family. She likes to show her daughter-in-law style the most, and she always uses her daughter-in-law's style to press Molan's head. Therefore, from the temperament emanating from her body, how could she be a little maid?
has these two points, in Wen Yanjing's heart, it has long been known. However, in order to show his admiration for Rulan, he would definitely say something like "I love you has nothing to do with your identity". Who would be stupid enough to say "I love you because you are the daughter of the Sheng family".
Furthermore, from the conversation between Rulan and Minglan, it can also be seen that Wen Yanjing is really a master of love and is very treacherous.
Rulan said to Minglan: Later, he found out that I was the direct daughter of the Sheng family. Daddy asked him to marry a concubine. He also wrote me a letter, and he will never see me again.
However, the day after Wen Yanjing and Mo Lan's marriage ended, his love letter came to Rulan again, and he managed to hold Rulan again.
When Wen Yanjing rejected Rulan, he said, "The order of the parents, the words of the matchmaker", showing that he knew the general situation; when he gave up on the marriage with Molan, and catered to Rulan, he said "I still love you, can't let go", showing that he Sincerely.
, this treacherous emotional intelligence, won't take down the silly girl like Rulan in minutes.
Rulan really loves Wen Yanjing, Minglan once persuaded her to be mentally prepared, the eldest lady would not agree to be killed, not to mention, Wen Yanjing was the one that Mo Lan chose.
Rulan said categorically: If my mother doesn't agree, I will kill me. If a person has another person in his heart, he can do anything.
It's not so bad, Rulan is going to die for him. Perhaps, Rulan saw Wen Yanjing because she liked this person, but she didn't know that Wen Yanjing's liking and love for her were not that pure.
took him to collude with Gu Tingye, and when he had a private meeting with Rulan, he deliberately let himWhen people found out about this, it was a bet on Rulan's famous festival, and it was very ugly to spread it out.
Has he ever thought about what to do if the Sheng family still doesn't want Rulan to marry him after the matter is exposed? This can ruin a girl's innocence for a lifetime.
He colluded with Gu Tingye, isn't it a bit too self-aware. Gu Tingye has the ability and ability to clean up the mess, does he have it? If the Sheng family killed Rulan and didn't marry him, then he would have killed Rulan for the rest of his life.
used Rulan's name as a bargaining chip to bet on his own emotions and desires. Such love is too selfish.
Perhaps, Wen Yanjing had already grasped Sheng Hong's mind. Sheng Hong knew that this little daughter was not suitable for marrying into a high-class compound. Maybe she would be happy if she married a small family. After
and Rulan got married, Wen Yanjing's quality of life greatly improved.
House, Future
The Wang family bought Rulan a big house with two entrances and three openings in the suburbs of Beijing. Now, it is a large flat, and he also bought some female envoys and wives.
Wen Yanjing moved into a big house with his mother and brother.
Mo Lan once teased Rulan and said: Even if I have no future, I rely on my husband's family to live diligently. Unlike some people, is still raising a man's family with a dowry. No wonder people say that my daughter is a loser.
For this big house, Mrs. Sheng also scolded the big lady badly. Knowing that Rulan's mother-in-law is not a sensible person, knowing that Rulan and this mother-in-law can't get along together, she has to buy a big house for Rulan. With such a spacious residence, her mother-in-law naturally takes her little son with her. live in.
If the eldest lady really thinks about Rulan, she should buy a small house, enough for her and Wen Yanjing to live in. When the mother-in-law sees that the place is small, she will be embarrassed to squeeze in, so the life of the young couple is not enough. more comfortable. When the lady
heard it, she suddenly realized, however, she regretted it too late.
Sure enough, after my mother-in-law moved into the big house, she made things difficult for her everywhere.
either punished Rulan's station rules, or deliberately filled his son's house with a room, and deliberately took Wen Yanjing a concubine while Rulan was pregnant and could not serve Wen Yanjing.
Rulan once said to Minglan: I just thought that when I went to the Earl's House to visit my eldest sister and saw her evil mother-in-law, I said at that time, if I live such a wronged life in the future, then I would rather do it. The old girl for a lifetime!
In order to live comfortably, Rulan was the only married girl in the Sheng family, but she still did not escape the ugly face of her mother-in-law.
Just like what Ming Lan said, If I am lucky, even if I climb high, I will live comfortably; if I am unlucky, even if I marry low, my life will still be rough.
Rulan was so angry that she went home and complained to the eldest lady.
The old lady gives advice to the eldest lady: ask Bo Geer to talk to the fifth aunt, and tell him to be smarter. If there is a conflict between the old lady and his wife, he can distinguish right from wrong. .....Huh, speaking of which, our Sheng family has a daughter who has been divorced!
's so-called telling Wen Yan to be reasonable is to tell him not to kiss his own mother, after all, his mother never understands.
Since then, no matter what kind of rift there is between Rulan and her mother-in-law, Wen Yanjing will always hide, and no one will help. He felt that to avoid is to not turn to his own mother, or to help Rulan? At this point, I have to mention the Changbai .
Wen Yanjing and Changbai are also the pillars of the family. They are also married to high-class women. Their own mother is also difficult to deal with. However, Changbai can protect the Hai family in front of the eldest lady, and Wen Yanjing will do it. not.
What is really loving a woman? It is to protect her all the time, that is, to make a difference between the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, rather than hiding.
The eldest lady was able to get along with the Hai clan in the end, and a large part of the reason was that Changbai maintained the Hai clan, and the eldest lady did not dare to make trouble. And Rulan's mother-in-law has repeatedly embarrassed Rulan, a large part of the reason is that Wen Yanjing is caught in the middle and does nothing, and always hides when encountering things.
Rulan was born pure and didn't want much. She used to show off in front of Ming Lan as if she had won. Whenever she had a conflict with her mother-in-law, Wen Yanjing would hide in the Hanlin Academy and work overtime, as if Wen YanJing's dodging was already a great help to Rulan.
In his career, Changbai and Sheng Hong also gave Wen Yanjing a lot of help. Of course, this is inseparable from Wen Yanjing's own efforts.
But the reality is that there is no shortage of hard-working people in this world. There are hundreds of people with similar qualifications competing for the same opportunity, but in the end, those who can win this opportunity are often hard-working and related people.
I can't say that a marriage with plans is shameful. Wen Yanjing likes Rulan and loves Rulan, but if there is something in the person who he likes and loves, he can still imagine something, or material or future, then Wouldn't it be the best of both worlds.
Jia Pingwa once said: marriage is a cooperation, there is no need to make it look like love, remember, love will disappear. The men at the bottom want to continue the incense, the men at the middle level want to find help, the men at the top want to find strong teammates, and the scumbag wants you to help the poor.
Obviously, Wen Yanjing is a middle-class man looking for help, and Rulan's family background is a booster in his life and career; Gu Tingye is looking for strong teammates, he is fighting for his career outside, and Minglan is a big one internally. The intertwined family is well-organized.
Concubine
In the original work, it was written that Wen Yanjing took a concubine twice. The first time
took a concubine, it was her mother-in-law who forced Wen Yanjing to stuff a woman into the house because of her anger.
Rulan was pregnant at the time, she didn't cry, she didn't make trouble, but stood quietly crying in the rain, like a jealous and dazed little woman, deeply in love with her husband, unable to extricate herself, because she was afraid of her husband's change of heart, I don't know what to do it is good.
Although she was extremely aggrieved at the time, she thought that Wen Yanjing's oath was so unequivocal and only loved her, but now, because she is pregnant and can't serve her, she has to take a concubine. The concubine had already entered Wen Yanjing's arms.
Even though her heart was full of anger, Rulan did not imitate her mother to force her husband not to take a concubine, and she did not beat or scold her concubine to keep her away from her husband, but thought of Aunt Lin, She came from Lin. My aunt has learned to show weakness, she only talks about feelings, and doesn't say anything else.
Rulan's move completely broke Wen Yanjing's defenses. He deeply felt that he couldn't bear such a woman who loved him so dearly in his life.
At that time, she was just married, and Rulan was still very respectful, so she couldn't accept the thought of sharing her husband with other women.
As for men, it's hard to live a good life, with money to spend, a house to live in, and a job as an official.
took a concubine for the second time, when Wen Yanjing released Quanzhou as an official.
Shangfeng gave Wen Yanjing a concubine, Wen Yanjing wanted it very much, or else he wouldn't have gotten into trouble with Rulan.
is noisy and noisy. Rulan is not as tough as before. She accepted Wen Yanjing as a concubine and fulfilled Wen Yanjing's dream.
As soon as
came, Rulan had two children, her mind was not completely on Wen Yanjing, she still loved Wen Yanjing, but she was really not as determined as before.
At the beginning, when she married this person, what she wanted was that he would be wholehearted with her, and that he would not be able to keep up with Mo Lan's marriage financially. She must crush Mo Lan in terms of emotional happiness, but in the end, she realized that a man If you want to change your mind, you can't stop it. Instead of guarding one stinky sack, it is better to guard two children. How dishonest
Wen Yanjing was after it was released, the words of the original Zhonghua Lan have long exposed the truth. She said that Wen Yanjing needs to be "beaten all the time" when it comes to men and women.
Second, Rulan wants to make her husband and wife have a bad relationship because of a concubine, so that her children will live in an environment where their parents are not in harmony since childhood.
Sometimes, for the sake of children, life can go on by opening one eye and closing one eye. Moreover, Wen Yanjing is still very responsible for her.
, Wen Yanjing is really the biggest winner among the four son-in-laws of the Sheng family.
passed a marriage, got a house, got a career, and finally did not fall down to take a concubine.
And Rulan, but she didn't get the pure feelings she wanted at firstThe quality is not on the map, the emotion is not on the map, and she ends up being teased by Mo Lan.
I remembered this passage in the original book:
The way of life of ancient women is the most sensible. Manage your property well, ensure a good material foundation, then love yourself, your children, your good-natured family, and occasionally a man, but not too much. The upper limit is that you won’t be sad if he finds another woman. The lower limit is that you can treat it just right. He showed affection without feeling sick.
Maybe, it's a little lighter at the beginning, but it won't be too sad later, after all, you don't know whether the person you meet is worth your love and hard work.
Author: Zhang Xiaonuan, I hope you and I can meet each other in warm and comfortable words and grow together!
Originality is not easy, plagiarism must be investigated!
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