Our marriage didn't start with love, at least I didn't, but he loved me and I was convinced at that time. After
ended the previous relationship, I couldn't get into a deeply linked relationship for the past three years. I didn't dare to hand over myself, for fear of being hurt again, just think about it.
I am the eldest daughter, my dad loves me and wants me to get married. But because in Shanghai, he couldn't do anything, and in this city, he had no connections, and he didn't know how to make arrangements for me.
At the funeral of my grandmother's death, my mother tried to find me someone from my family and friends back home. When I walked into the house after get off work one day and saw the boy my mother had looked for for me, it seemed that my father had tacitly agreed, otherwise the boy would not have come to Shanghai from a different place.
For the first time, I felt selfish, indulged in a love, disregarding the hearts of my parents, when my grandmother left and my mother was so sad, she actually wanted to give me a blind date...
I think then I will get married and find it myself , at least find a knot that I can live with, and don't let my parents worry about me so much. So
registered an account in Jiayuan in June 2006, and uploaded some photos and articles from MSN blog.
During that time, more than 20 people added me to MSN. I was a salesperson. It was normal for someone to add me. After chatting, I found out that I was an applicant.
I said to myself:
"I've seen at most 3. If it's not suitable, I have tried my best, so forget it." I'm a salesperson, and I'm not afraid to meet people. After chatting with MSN for a while, I'm not disgusted.
On August 20th, I made an appointment to see acne in the 9th hospital. He said:
"It's okay, I will accompany you to see acne." As big as a snail, I was naturally scared away and saved trouble.
So in that afternoon, downstairs of the Tengfei Building, where the company was located, I saw him for the first time. He was wearing a red striped short-sleeved shirt + blue jeans + black leather shoes, with delicate features and big eyes, looking at him. More loyal, this is my first impression.
He accompanied me to the 9th hospital to see acne, I thought he would sit outside the clinic and wait for me. Unexpectedly, he came in and chatted with the doctor:
"Doctor, does she matter? Are there any taboos? What should I pay attention to? What is the cause..."
These words fell into me word by word ears, probably that's what softened me.
I promised to go to the movies with him. I watched "Garfield". It was very cute and funny, and I was in a good mood.
After watching the movie, he proposed to have dinner together. I have no objection, but insisted that I pay for it. I don't want to owe him. Since he treated the movie, I will pay for the dinner. We went to for a tea and a sit at , I ordered a braised pork rice , what he ordered, I don't remember. I proudly poured the braised pork into the rice, and after stirring it, I ate it in large spoonfuls. He looked stupid and said, "You can still eat it like this. Vegetables are vegetables, rice is rice, isn't it strange that they are mixed together? "It's not surprising, it's delicious, you can try it next time." He refused with a face, and also said that he had never eaten like this since he was a child. Chatting while eating is pretty easy. After dinner, he insisted on taking me to the station. After I got in the car, I waved to him, indicating that he could leave. He was still standing there, waving me happily all the time, looking very happy, I was amused, I thought he was so stupid, I thought to myself:
"This is a stupid man."