01: Being trapped in an "isolated island" is the root of Tian Wenwen's sensibleness.
It is not difficult to find that in Tian Wenwen's short 18 years of life, half of the suffering was given by her parents.
As soon as she was born, she was left to her grandmother by her parents. An old man and a child have lived in a crumbling old house for more than ten years.
Tian Wenwen's childhood was incomplete.
The absence of her parents when she was growing up was an old wound in her heart.
This wound has healed with Tian Wenwen's adulthood, although it seems to have scabbed over. But every time I think about it, it still hurts.
Tian Wenwen has always been sensible, the only time she was "not sensible" in the play was the quarrel with her mother Guan Yue .
"When the conditions are bad, you give birth to me and leave me to your grandma."
"When the conditions are good, you don't think about picking me up to Wuhan, but giving birth to a younger sister".
"Have you ever asked me if I am willing or not?" After
said three simple sentences, Tian Wenwen seemed to have exhausted all her strength. These words, like knives, stabbed at Guan Yue's heart.
But Guan Yue's heartache is half of Tian Wenwen's.
These words, these resentments, Tian Wenwen hid for more than ten years. She used to grit her teeth alone to digest them, pressing them hard in her heart with all her strength.
The wound that took more than ten years to heal has reopened at this moment. "Recurrence of old wounds", that is the flesh, the pain to the bones.
This mother-daughter quarrel actually exposed a big problem. That is how derelict Guan Yue, a mother, is.
Facing her daughter's accusations and her daughter's complaints, Guan Yue was not surprised. What really surprised her was that her daughter's resentment against them would last so long and so deep.
Tian Wenwen was angry with them, and Guan Yue knew it.
knew that, when facing Tian Wenwen, Guan Yue was at a loss. This kind of reasoning is manifested in the cautiousness when dealing with Tian Wenwen.
, but Guan Yue justified the loss, but never really cared about it.
In her opinion, the eldest daughter Tian Wenwen is sensible. Even if there is resentment in my heart, but after a long time, I will understand the difficulty of my parents.
It is precisely because of this sensibleness that Guan Yue, the parents, repeatedly ignore Tian Wenwen emotionally.
gave Tian Wenwen a New Year's gift, both of them forgot to take it. When I realized that I didn't take it, I turned the page with the phrase "Wenwen is sensible, she won't blame us".
Tian Wenwen's exam results, Guan Yue and the others would never ask. Asking is that the children are sensible and don't need to worry about them.
Tian Xiangyun was diagnosed with new crown , not to tell his wife Guan Yue, but to tell his daughter Tian Wenwen. Don't ask why, just ask that Tian Wenwen is sensible, so she can handle things better.
Guan Yue, their parents, only know that Tian Wenwen is sensible, but they have never thought about the sadness behind this sensibleness.
Tian Wenwen, as a left-behind child, has no parents by her side, and only lives with her grandmother. Does such a child have the willful confidence?
What's more, Guan Yue and the others, as parents, probably said the most common phrase with Tian Wenwen since childhood, "It's not easy for us outside, you need to be sensible at home". Everyone around
calls Tian Wenwen sensible, and her parents are not around, so she has no willful confidence. Can Tian Wenwen, who grew up in such an environment as
, be ignorant?
02: Tian Wenwen's sensibleness became an excuse for her parents to ignore her
An epidemic swept everyone.
Tian Wenwen's diagnosis made Guan Yue and Tian Xiangyun, the derelict parents, finally have the awareness to make up for it.
especially Guan Yue, at the parent meeting before the college entrance examination, in front of teachers, classmates, and parents, tearfully expressed guilt to Tian Wenwen.
At first glance, it is very moving.
But when something happened later, Tian Wenwen still became the one who was forced to be sensible.
Tian Wenwen had her college entrance examination in a few days, but her grandmother was seriously ill. One is a daughter who is about to take the college entrance examination, and the other is a seriously ill mother. No matter how you choose, it is difficult.
Tian Wenwen couldn't bear the embarrassment of her mother, half pushed, half persuaded, she sent Guan Yue out of the house.
Guan Yue was very moved by her daughter's move. But I never thought that behind Tian Wenwen's move, there were actually other emotions mixed in.
She is already eighteen years old, and she is completely past the age of needing her parents to accompany her.
Not to mention that Tian Wenwen, who lived alone in the old house for more than a year after her grandmother died, is also used to being alone. Guan Yue can accompany her in the college entrance examination, but she can't, and she is not disappointed.
Tian Wenwen, who has lived a left-behind life since childhood, is used to solving problems by herself. Get more used to not bothering anyone, including your own parents. The sensible
is tempered by life. But Guan Yue and the others regarded Tian Wenwen's sensibleness as an excuse to ignore her.
owes her eldest daughter the college entrance examination for many years. Guan Yue and the others are parents, and no one is with her.
A mother who is busy doing business and taking care of a serious illness can't spare a day or even half a day to send her daughter into the examination room.
Tian Wenwen is just an adult and a girl again. A person lives in an old house in disrepair, not to mention safety.
More importantly, she lives alone and takes the college entrance examination alone. In case of any emergency, who will tell the truth?
Tian Wenwen said that she could, but Guan Yue and the others believed it and gave up completely.
ended up with a torrential rain that caught everyone off guard. Tian Wenwen woke up and found that she had become an "isolated island".
's house was flooded, and the water had risen to his waist. The only mobile phone that could communicate with the outside world was also blistered.
How desperate is Tian Wenwen at this time?
The rain is still falling, indicating that the water will continue to rise.
If Tian Wenwen dared to go out in the water, the sewer without manhole cover and the high-voltage wires that fell into the water might take her life.
If she stayed in the old house and waited for rescue, how could she survive while the water level continued to rise?
Not to mention that today is the college entrance examination, if she can't get out, she won't be able to take this exam. After three years of preparation, it was all burnt out.
At such a desperate time, Tian Wenwen had no one beside her, nor a mobile phone. She is only eighteen years old, after all, she is still a half-year-old child.
No matter how sensible and precocious you are, you will panic and feel helpless in the face of this unexpected situation.
Zhou Meiren, who appeared at this time, was like a savior who fell from the sky.
Tian knew how grateful Tian Wenwen was when she said "You are my savior" to Zhou Meiren.
Heaven knows what Tian Wenwen said "I'm fine", and what kind of luck is hidden in the rest of her life.
However, Guan Yue and the others missed Tian Wenwen's thrilling afterlife.
03: A torrential rain, recognize the three pairs of parents
This torrential rain is like a mirror.
It is clear at a glance who is a qualified parent and who is a negligent parent.
Zhou Bowen is lucky because he has a mother who understands and loves him deeply.
His mother runs a small restaurant and is a typical "middle-aged woman" with little culture.
is such an illiterate mother, but she can make Xueba Zhou Bowen ask her for help in filling out the confusion of volunteering.
And she did not disappoint her son, and encouraged Zhou Bowen to follow her heart and report whatever she liked, with the momentum of helping him.
seems to have no culture, but it contains great wisdom.
And Zhou Bowen's father, Zhou Meiren, has been a waste of wood for more than ten years, and eats soft rice softly. But when the second child came, he did not flinch, and he took over the responsibility of supporting the family from his wife without hesitation. When
is useless, it's really useless.
But when it was his turn, he was unequivocal.
Tian Wenwen was not so lucky.
The sentence she said to Zhou Meiren, "I really envy Zhou Bowen, to have a good father like you" really explained the bitterness in her heart. When
's daughter was in danger, Tian Xiangyun could only be in a hurry from far away in Wuhan. He thought that by trying to provide a good life, he was loving his daughter.
But compared to money, perhaps long-term companionship is what every child desires most. Comparing
with Tian Wenwen, Wu Jiajun is the other extreme.
Tian Wenwen's parents lacked concern for her. But Wu Jiajun's mother cared too much for him. Therefore, his relationship with his mother has always been a "fight of wits and courage".
In this protracted "mother-son battle", the mother finally compromised.
Wu Jiajun's mother seems to be arbitrary and arrogant, but behind this unreasonable, there is a heavy maternal love.
The heavy rain in the college entrance examination made Zhou Meiren "counterattack" and become a good father. Also let Wu Jiajun's mother, brush up the audience.
When she learned of her husband's accident, Dong Bihua didn't panic, but tried her best to control her emotions so that her son wouldn't notice.
When her son entered the examination room, she received a call from her husband reporting that she was safe, and her tense body completely relaxed.
will be calm when encountering problems.
can make a decision when encountering a major event.
desperately wants to protect the child under her body. With such a mother, isn't she lucky?
Compared with Tian Xiangyun's diagnosis of the new crown, the first one he told was not his wife, but his daughter who was about to take the college entrance examination.