Revisiting "Where Are We Going, Dad": I finally understand why Cindy rejects Lin Zhiying

has been silent at home for three days, and there is no point in staying there. I took this opportunity to take a look at some of the variety shows I watched before, and turned to the variety show , where is my dad going to , let's start watching from the first season! Where to go in the first season can be said to be the first shot of Neiyu's personal variety show. The identities of the five star fathers are different. Taiwanese superstar Lin Zhiying (with his son Kimi), who has been popular in Asia in the past few years, Fashion supermodel Zhang Liang (with son Tiantian), diving prince Tian Liang (with daughter Cindy), veteran actor Guo Tao (with son Shishi), director Wang Yuelun (with daughter Angela). Bring your own children to experience rural life, experience the beauty of the countryside, and experience various challenges. It can be said that this variety show is well-deserved for ranking the top of the variety show list in 2013.

Every issue and every stop will be full of challenges. In the last issue of the fifth stop, the village chief Li Rui arranged a new task called "Experience One Day for Dad". At that time, Guo Tao led Kimi, Tian Liang led Tiantian, and Lin Zhiying led Cindy, Wang Yuelun with stones, Zhang Liang with Angela. Shitou and Tiantian were very happy to meet the uncle who took them for a day. Needless to say Tiantian, Shitou left his irritable father and faced Uncle Wang Yuelun relatively relaxed, and sometimes worried about Kimi. The two youngest, Kimi and Angela, Kimi was reluctant to face Guo Tao, neither hot nor cold, neither crying nor happy, Angela began to hear the changing father cry, and Zhang Liang simply coaxed her. It was Cindy, who was the most difficult to take care of among the five children, and Lin Zhiying was helpless. What is the cause.

When she was in the desert, Lin Zhiying broke her eggs

Cindy didn't like Lin Zhiying very much, and it wasn't because when she was in the desert, she had a mission to protect eggs. Dad went to destroy it. It was Lin Zhiying who broke Cindy's eggs, or was it When she was beaten in her face, she was so angry that she cried. Children also have a memory, she must remember. I think this is one of the reasons why the show team made the two of them work together. Another reason is that Lin Zhiying told Tian Liang before that if the child cried, let her cry. Just ignore her and let her know that crying is useless. The show team should do the same. Let Lin Zhiying know that the trick of the child crying is useless.

When he was on the island, his male god was already identified as Zhang Liang

When living on the island of Jiming Island, Rongcheng, Shandong, when choosing which father could take care of five children, Cindy directly chose Zhang Liang and liked to walk as a model because Zhang Liang is the youngest and tallest father among these fathers. He is 31 years old, 188cm, and a goddess that girls are proud of. Model body, three-dimensional facial features. When Zhang Liang was talking backstage about who to choose to take care of them, he was full of confidence, Kimi liked him, not to mention Cindy, who regarded him as an idol. Even Cindy sometimes snubbed his father Tian Liang for the sake of the male god. In the later period of the change of father, Lin Zhiying was helpless, Zhang Liang comforted, and finally Cindy chose Zhang Liang as her temporary father. She and Zhang Liang chatted happily at the end without crying.

If it weren't for Lin Zhiying, which father wouldn't cry too much?

Zhang Liang asked her: If you were me at the beginning, would you cry? Cindy replied: Of course! I understood what Cindy meant, and she wasn't vexatious. Getting along with people is a matter of running in, and even if you are familiar with each other, you will have a certain sense of boundaries. Cindy's ideal father is Zhang Liang. Lin Zhiying's previous job of protecting her eggs did not hurt her too little. It's okay to meet each other in normal times, but it's unacceptable when they really get along with each other.

If the father she assigns is neither Zhang Liang, the ideal male god, nor Lin Zhiying, who she doesn't like. Can Guo Tao and Wang Yuelun, two relatively old fathers, accept it? Will she cry like she was with Lin Zhiying? The answer is that I can accept it, but I will cry at the beginning, but after a period of time, I gradually get used to it, not to mention that the two of them have nothing to do with Cindy. Guo Tao is the eldest, so he must be very good at taking care of children, not to mention that he has a daughter himself, so he must have no problem taking care of Cindy. Wang Yuelun can be said to be the minimum acceptable requirement for Cindy,Although he doesn't know how to take care of people, sometimes it's not easy to take care of Angela at the beginning, and then he slowly finds a way. At that time, Wang Yuelun also wanted to assign the child to take care of if it wasn't Kimi. Kimi is sometimes difficult to take care of. Fortunately, Wang Yuelun takes care of the stone. Even if he takes care of a woman like Cindy, his Angela has a good relationship with her, so there is no problem. . As long as Cindy is not Lin Zhiying as her temporary father, which of the three will take care of Cindy, Cindy will cry, at least she will not cry all the time.

Summary

In my opinion, neither Cindy nor Lin Zhiying is wrong. The arrangement of the program group is also acceptable. After all, I have seen bloggers expressing their opinions about this video and said that Cindy cried even more this time than in the first stop. Later, I got used to it. Now, in the face of Lin Zhiying, he still made a big move. Some people say that Cindy would rather let the camera staff help her than let Lin Zhiying move. Even if she has the awareness to protect herself, she can't refuse the kindness of others! It is also said that Lin Zhiying has double standards. I don't like Cindy at all, or else I won't care, and take care of Angela a little easier. Some people even said that Lin Zhiying was someone who put patriarchal preference on women on his face.

In my opinion, those comments are wrong. Lin Zhiying has no way to deal with Cindy's crying. She has used comfort and coaxing. It can be said that Lin Zhiying has done her best. He thinks that letting Cindy go with her is the best thing for her. Give in. It's hard for Cindy to get out of the shadow of that time. As I said before, she can meet normally, but she can't really take care of her. Fortunately, Lin Zhiying didn't take care of her last time on the island, otherwise she would have to cry. Tian Liang also said this when he concluded: We need to use this opportunity to let Cindy exercise his adaptability to the environment. The road of life is still long, and everyone will face some things before they can gain some growth.