's former champion Hong Kong sister, a generation of goddess Li Jiaxin , chose to marry a wealthy family when she was a smash hit.
After giving birth to his son in 2011, he retired from the entertainment industry and lived a life of husband and son. Although
has retired for many years and there is much less lace news about her, the lives of her husband and son have always been the focus of discussion among netizens.
After Li Jiaxin got married, she completely became a "baby madman" , many of her activities are related to children, and the interaction mode is very "intimate".
For example, this photo, if you don't look carefully, you think it's a loving couple "showing their love"!
But in fact, this is Li Jiaxin and his son.
The two were wearing swimsuits and lying on the inflatable bed kissing mouth to mouth, which aroused the disgust of many netizens.
Netizens think that the mother is kissing her son when the child is almost 10 years old. Is this behavior really appropriate? On
, some netizens looked forward and found a lot of photos of Li Jiaxin kissing her son!
have a picnic outdoors and take a photo of a kiss;
reunite with their families and eat a french fries together, like a couple in an idol drama.
The mother and son hugged and kissed like no one else, looking a little hot.
Even a few years ago, she posted a photo of herself taking a bath with her son in a swimsuit.
Although she said this to avoid suspicion, such behavior is really inappropriate.
netizens said: is a little uncomfortable, parents and children still have to keep a little "distance"!
This distance is the sense of boundaries between parents and children.
However, in real life, there are many parents who cannot distinguish the boundaries between them and their children.
" Tianlong Babu " actor Li Guolin , when celebrating her 15-year-old daughter's birthday, the two hugged tightly and kissed mouth to mouth. A picture like
is very inconsistent no matter how you look at it!
In the early years, Hu Jun also posted a birthday photo on his daughter's birthday. In the
photo, Hu Jun's wife kisses her son, and he kisses his 14-year-old daughter behind him.
This photo caused a lot of controversy at the time, netizens did not understand it very much, and said:
"I also love my parents very much, and my parents also love me very much, but when I grow up, I can't accept my parents kissing their own mouths."
After seeing such a message, Hu Jun personally replied: "You think too much. ?"
To be honest, it's really no one's fault.
has always been "children avoid their mothers and daughters avoid their fathers", even in foreign countries, cannot accept such "open" behavior. Before
, when Beckham and his daughter participated in an event, the two kissed in front of everyone, which attracted a lot of scolding from foreign netizens.
, a British host, even strongly condemned Beckham's behavior on the show.
thinks this is horrific, weird, and no one would do it.
As parents, we should tell our children: Although we are father and daughter, we are of the opposite sex, and we should keep a certain distance between them.
Love without boundaries is a kind of harm to children.
In a Korean variety show, a girl expressed her troubles;
's father's too close behavior to her not only made her feel embarrassed, but also very uncomfortable.
Many times, my father does some very intimate behaviors to her, hugging or kissing regardless of the occasion;
And father does not kiss lightly, but licks with his tongue;
is sometimes seen by teachers and classmates, The girl felt very embarrassed.
When a girl is doing the dishes in the kitchen, her dad will inadvertently walk over and pinch the girl's butt;
But my father said that because when his daughter was born, he served in the army and missed the best time to accompany his daughter growing up. Now he hopes to make up for his love for his daughter with actions.
But this "love" is clearly over.
Parents are the closest people to their children, but it does not mean that they can get along with their children without any scruples.
Taiwan host Wu Zongxian and his daughter Wu Shanru attended an event, in front of everyone, they put their arms around their daughter's waist and said, "Dad kiss one." Here it is!" He leaned back and made a gesture of refusal.
But Wu Zongxian doesn't care at all, he insists on kissing his daughter forcefully, and even opens his mouth.
The daughter was shocked and interrupted her father immediately;
In fact, before this, Wu Zongxian often kissed his daughter regardless of the occasion.
at home, when my daughter comes over to kiss her unsuspecting.
in front of the media, hugging her daughter and kissing her, even hugging her from behind, her daughter is embarrassed, but also helpless.
Once, they were walking side by side during an event. Wu Zongxian suddenly stopped to help his daughter tidy up the clothes on her chest. She was so frightened that she could only laugh to cover up her embarrassment.
such a borderless intimacy, the harm to the child is not a little bit.
Children are independent individuals, not appendages of their parents. They transcend boundaries and neither respect children nor affect their physical and mental development.
The love of parents should be passed on to their children in the right way.
Under normal circumstances, children will slowly enter the sexual bud stage when they are 3 years old;
Because of their strong curiosity, they will gradually pay attention to the differences between boys and girls;
At this time, it is to educate children about sexual awareness critical period.
The parent-child relationship is too close, even beyond the boundaries that it should have, which is actually a very dangerous behavior!
"Love is measured and bounded. Parents' sense of boundaries is actually the child's umbrella."
Zhang Liang talked about kissing his daughter in the program " Newborn Diary ", which aroused many netizens resonance.
Zhang Liang said that his little daughter is very clingy, and likes to lie on top of him, and hugs every now and then, which is very close, but Zhang Liang never let his daughter kiss him.
He believes that when children are young, they should establish a sense of self-protection.
Parents and children can kiss the forehead and the back of the hand, but never on the mouth!
At a young age, children should be allowed to establish the concept of gender differences, which will help children's physical and mental development, and his approach has also been praised by many netizens.
Keeping a certain distance from your child will not make the child feel unfamiliar or affect the relationship with the child.
Zhou Guoping once said: "The sense of proportion is a sign of mature love. It knows how to observe the necessary distance between people. This distance means the dignity of the other person as an independent personality." Psychology will be destroyed in cross-border behavior again and again, and the child's sexual psychology will also deviate from the normal track.
If things go on like this, children will not feel violated when they encounter similar experiences with others, and they will not say "no" to such cross-border behaviors.In the end, no one can afford it.
such as sexual assault.
A long time ago, in a car waiting room in Nanjing, a little girl was put in her clothes by her "brother" and groped in public.
While the parents are on the side, they let the elder brother touch them;
is a violation for the little girl, but the girl doesn't know anything about it.
Girls have become lambs "to be slaughtered", at the mercy of others,
The sex education that parents lack is often the first line of defense to protect their children.
If you think sex education is too early, the bad guys won't think your child is too young.
Pay attention to the way you get along with your children, build your children's gender awareness from an early age, and teach them to better protect themselves. This is the proudest achievement of being a parent!
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