Sydney: I don't mind Xu Shaoqiang having a wife. He gave birth to 2 sons for him in 5 years. He divorced but didn't marry me


Speaking of , Sydney, , you may not have any impression, but you can talk about Li Mochou in Li Ruotong version of "The Condor Heroes", and Mrs. Ma in Huang Rihua version of " Tianlong Babu ", right? Impressed. Sydney originally had a bright future, but she ruined her future for a man 15 years older than her who had been married.

A complicated family

Sydney, formerly known as Yan Huiming, was born in Italy in 1965. His father is a businessman and he has several wives, so there are 9 siblings in the family. She is the eighth in the family.

is young, plus she is a girl, Sydney has been ignored since she was a child. This also led to an extreme lack of love in her heart.

was influenced by her sister , Michelle and . Sydney played a cameo role in the movie "Oolong Thief Abba" when she was 9 years old. At that time, she did not think about becoming a big star, and after filming, she returned to Italy to study.

In 1976, Michelle became a household name with her role as "Huang Rong". The popularity of her sister gave Sydney, who did not like to stick to stereotypes since she was a child, the idea of ​​entering the entertainment industry.

At that time, Michelle and her parents were opposed to Sydney's entry into the entertainment industry, and asked her to study hard. But Sydney thinks that she is not a piece of reading material. In this way, she was in a period of rebelliousness and came to Hong Kong alone with a beautiful fantasy.

In 1979, at the age of 15, she got her first film and television script "Family Love". At that time, she played with Chow Yun-fat , Ren Dahua and other male gods. Because of her sweet and lovely appearance, she soon won the love of many audiences.

Leslie Cheung 's first love

In that year, Sydney went dancing with her sister Michelle and met Leslie Leslie who returned to Hong Kong from the UK.

that year Sydney was 16 years old and Leslie Cheung was 24 years old.

Leslie Cheung was attracted by her unique temperament as soon as she saw Sydney. After obtaining Michelle's consent, he and Sydney fell in love.

At that time, my brother Leslie Cheung really loved Sydney and just wanted to do everything to be good to her.

Sydney likes to dance, and Leslie Cheung did not hesitate to quit his job to accompany her to play. Even while working abroad, she will find time to buy clothes for her.

It's a pity that this beautiful first love didn't last long, and they separated after a few months of talking. Because the two people's personalities are so different.

Leslie Cheung said: "The two of us, one is quiet, the other is active, the other likes his girlfriend to wear beautiful skirts, and the other only likes trousers."

Later, when his brother Leslie Cheung passed away, Sydney said very sadly: "Why do you have to give up yourself at such a young age. I also feel that I have lost a lover of my first love."

met a loser

In 1982, 17-year-old Sydney met 32-year-old Xu Shaoqiang while filming in Thailand. The two play a couple in the film.

At that time, Xu Shaoqiang had already started his heroic journey with films such as "One-Armed Swordsman" and "Celestial Silkworm Transformation".

girls like "heroes", and soon Sydney fell in love with this 32-year-old handsome uncle.

At that time, Xu Shaoqiang already had a wife and a child, but Sydney did not know it.

When Xu Shaoqiang saw the young and beautiful Sydney, he was moved, and he used all his routines of chasing girls. In the year of

, Xu Shaoqiang rented a big house in Sydney and took her everywhere to eat, drink and have fun whenever he was free.

Sydney, who was immersed in love, wanted to marry Xu Shaoqiang and have children for him. Not long after

fell in love, she couldn't wait to introduce Xu Shaoqiang to her sister Michelle. After seeing Xu Shaoqiang,

's sister strongly opposed the relationship between the two. Not to mention that this man is 15 years older than Sydney, he is also well-known in the entertainment industry for being a playful person. Can Sydney have a good life with him?

Sydney, who is in love, has long been coaxed into confusion by Xu Shaoqiang's rhetoric, how can he still hear these words. The family's blocking made her rebellious. The more she refused to be together, she preferred to be with Xu Shaoqiang, and even publicly stated that "you must marry Xu Shaoqiang".

later became pregnant with Xu Shaoqiang's child in Sydney. She didn't know until she was pregnantXu Shaoqiang is married and has a child. Sydney, who learned the truth, was very angry. In order to appease her, Xu Shaoqiang had to pretend to agree to divorce his wife and marry her when she gave birth to a child.

The naive Sydney was once again coaxed by Xu Shaoqiang's sweet words and obediently gave birth to a child.

At that time, Sydney and Xu Shaoqiang didn't want anything together, just wanted him to be nice to himself. I was thinking about Xu Shaoqiang marrying him. But day by day, Xu Shaoqiang never mentioned marriage. When Sydney mentioned it occasionally, he would always prevaricate it for various reasons.

At that time, Sydney still had a little fantasy about Xu Shaoqiang, not only did not choose to leave, but also gave birth to his second child.

suddenly realized

In 1986, Xu Shaoqiang finally got divorced. Seeing that her opportunity had come, Sydney couldn't wait to drag Xu Shaoqiang to the marriage registration office. But when it was time to register, Xu Shaoqiang hesitated and said that he did not bring a divorce certificate, so the marriage between the two was not formed.

It was only at this moment that Sydney suddenly realized that Xu Shaoqiang never thought of marrying himself, everything was just too stupid.

Heartbroken Sydney went to live in Canada with her children. After all,

loved each other deeply. After learning that she was being played with, Sydney did not cry or make a fuss, nor did she ever get along with Xu Shaoqiang.

Five years later, ATV filmed " Heavenly Silkworm Changed and the Sky ", not only invited Xu Shaoqiang, but also hired Sydney to play his lover in the play.

It's just that Sydney is no longer that simple little girl. She doesn't hate Xu Shaoqiang, but she doesn't have love either. Regarding this relationship, she once said without shyness: "Although I have a bad man, I have two lovely children who are the best gift from God."

Two years later, Sydney played Li Mochou, who became a devil because of love, in Li Ruotong's version of "The Condor Heroes". The emotional experiences of Sydney and Li Mochou are very similar, and they are both entrusted to inhumans. The difference is that Li Mochou's personality is extreme. The mature Sydney has a soft personality and knows how to reconcile with herself.

Sydney has remained single after breaking up with Xu Shaoqiang. Now she is 58 years old, and she has reached the age of succumbing to her grandson. With a pair of filial children, she can be considered happy in her later years.