"Big Exam" Tian Wenwen's grievance is the source of Wu Jiajun's pain, the child is actually strong and fragile

Tian Wenwen felt aggrieved, and her emotional explosion

scored 520 points in the joint entrance examination. Tian Wenwen was in a low mood and wanted to seek some comfort from Zhou Bowen, but Xueba said that she did not perform well in her composition this time, and only passed 670 in the exam. Tian Wenwen was bleeding. After hanging up the video, Tian Wenwen was suddenly inexplicably irritable with the noisy voice of her mother and sister playing outside, and when she came out, she yelled at the mother and daughter outside. Tian Wenwen, who has always been sensible, this sudden emotional outburst is not accidental but inevitable.

Wu Jiajun and his mother had a temporary victory

After Wu Jiajun ran away from home last time, he was inspired by Tian Wenwen and Zhou Bowen, his IQ soared, and he took advantage of the conflict between her mother and grandma to save face, and began to play Romance of the Three Kingdoms, while gaining his father's sympathy and asking his father to give him He won the opportunity to live at his grandmother's house for five days; on the other hand, he sold his father as soon as he arrived at his grandmother's house, and changed his mind to spend more time with his grandmother. The final plan was to have his mother pick him up in five days. Five days later, Dad Wu didn't have time to go there, and Mom Wu went to grandma's house to ask for someone and finally returned in frustration.

Tian Wenwen's grievance stems from being neglected for a long time

• has been trained to be sensible beyond her age. Tian Wenwen has always been at home as a left-behind child. At first, she was taken care of by her grandmother, but later, it was probably for the convenience of taking care of her grandmother. After her grandmother passed the college entrance examination, she had been unable to live with her parents. Even telling his parents about the problem can't solve it, but it only adds to their troubles. Tian Wenwen's sensibleness is tempered by life, not his original heart.
• has been lack of effective communication for a long time, causing misunderstanding. Tian Wenwen hides her thoughts, and Tian's father and Tian's mother will naturally encounter life difficulties and will not tell her daughter that the two sides have long relied on telephone communication, and the chat content is superficial. On the phone, her daughter is reassuring. If things go on like this, parents will have misunderstandings, thinking that a sensible daughter doesn't need them to spend too much effort. So that when Father Tian was infected with the new crown , he thought that his daughter could withstand the blow, and it was his wife who needed to be protected.

• The two sides are not familiar with each other and do not know how to express love. After Tian Wenwen received a call from her father, her mind was confused and she felt helpless that night. She tried hard to calm herself. At this time, her mother came into the room to talk to her. The mother who didn't know the reason tried to find a way to communicate with her, but Tian Wenwen had no intention of chatting. While pretending to be asleep. It can be seen that the mother has always had this daughter in her heart, but she just needs time to get to know each other. Tian Wenwen was angry because her mother was having fun with her sister and didn't care about her grades. It was because she seemed to have a strong heart, but in fact she was still a sensitive child who lacked love. Wu Jiajun's mother could resign for his college entrance examination, but her mother didn't ask, secretly in her heart I feel abandoned and feel that only my sister is my mother's child. But Mother Tian didn't think about it, sometimes the closest people don't know each other!

Wu Jiajun's pain stems from his mother's excessive attention

The difference from Tian Wenwen is that all Wu Jiajun's pain is due to Wu's mother's excessive attention, and his mother's dream must be Wu Jiajun's dream. It's a pity that Wu Jiajun is a person with his own hobbies and opinions, and they can't reach an agreement with each other, so Wu's mother intensifies, and Wu Jiajun's running away from home does not arouse her mother's reflection at all. Under the oppression of the environment, Wu Jiajun became smart and brave. I really don't know if it is a good thing.

Children are actually strong and fragile

Tian Wenwen said when comforting Wu Jiajun, why adults always say that children are partial eclipses, because they can only cook their favorite dishes, people's cognition is limited, don't expect parents. So Wu Jiajun, who was on the verge of collapse, became strong, and he began to battle his mother's wits. Grandma's house is not a long-term residence, he will still live under his mother's "minions", without economicHow could the child of the source not count on the parents? But with such a sturdy mother, where will his fate go? In the future, the only way to save him is to see how to reach the long live understanding!

Tian Wenwen comforts others, but cannot redeem herself. The trauma of her original family can only be resolved by her parents. The arousal of contradictions is not a bad thing, and there is no deafening effect without hysterical outbursts. Without Tian Wenwen's rant, parents might not even know the harm their actions are doing to their children. I just hope that in the long time to come, she can gradually be healed by love.