's new drama " Sanyue has a new job ", which was broadcast tonight, Sanyue wanted to talk to her mother about the unfair treatment she suffered and the grievances of her job-hunting frustration, but instead of being comforted, she was reprimanded. Why is it more and more painful to complain to parents?
why? Probably because your parents don't understand your pain, and they don't know what you have experienced outside, and because most families communicate and communicate in a pathological way, and maybe your parents don't express love, and the older you get, the more you don't want to. Talking and speaking will not change anything, but sometimes hurt each other or add trouble to the family.
I just want to rant and complain, but my parents think I can solve my problem by educating me, and then I think our conversation is pointless and will only make me more tired.
I thought that domestic film and television would only perform themes that praise the greatness of mother's love and the love of father's like mountains, all kinds of touching stories of "parents love their sons, and they plan for it" and "everything is for your own good"... But it is clear that many people grow up It is full of pain and grievances. Most Chinese-style parents are like this. Later, I realized that these processes are not important. Anyway, in the end, it is to be praised. If you don’t praise or be grateful, you will be unfilial. The
generation gap is an insurmountable gap, and their thinking will never change, just like I know they must care about me and love me, but I will report good news to my family, because if I say bad things to them, Their worries will turn into all kinds of cranky thoughts or even blaming you, making them even more stressed. There are even some ideas that cannot be discussed because they are deeply ingrained...
friends, do you have the same parents in your family? Will
really complain more and more bitterly with his parents?
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