Newborn, fresh and full of hope.
" Dear Life " is a gamble to create new life and exchange life for life.
A life is born with joy and blood and tears, while women, as the creators of new life, dedicate in the gestation, but the front of life is hope, and the back is sacrifice.
In this drama, there are 3 women who lost their lives because of having children. And in these three life-for-life gambling, the pain of a woman's desperate life to give birth to a child is also completely torn apart. If you look closely, you will find that the source of this tragedy is actually the woman herself.
50-year-old pregnant woman became a vegetative
When her eldest daughter was 29 years old, 50-year-old Zhang Xiufen became pregnant again.
can be said to be forced by her husband, because giving birth to a son is the wish of all the in-laws; it can also be said that she voluntarily, because her husband's wish is her wish.
Generally speaking, if you are over 35 years old, medically it is considered an advanced pregnant woman, let alone 50 years old. Moreover, she also has many basic diseases such as hypertension, diabetes, etc. Even if she is barely pregnant, there will be many accidents throughout the pregnancy and even the moment of childbirth.
What's worse is she's completely incapacitated. After she became pregnant, she was called back to her hometown by her 80-year-old mother-in-law. Not only was she forced to take various "home remedies" to protect the fetus, but she also cut off her antihypertensive drugs on the grounds of "being good for the fetus". When
was 25 weeks pregnant, eclampsia attacked, and was rushed to the hospital. She was originally raised in the hospital, and she was looked after by her eldest daughter who studied medicine, which was also within control. But the mother-in-law and husband didn't want to see the eldest daughter's face, so they took her to another hospital in private.
This made Zhang Xiufen even more flustered, because she knew that her mother-in-law only valued the child in her womb, and her husband was a filial person. Once she lost the protection of her eldest daughter, her situation would be even more difficult. Under the control of the six gods, he had another car accident, resulting in a severe coma. After returning to the hospital again, multiple intracranial hemorrhages were found, and then a craniotomy was performed, but the person did not wake up.
She became a vegetable, a pregnant vegetable.
Suppose Zhang Xiufen wakes up and asks if she will regret her pregnancy?
I believe the answer must be no regrets. She is an illiterate rural woman, and the concept of "marrying from her husband at home and listening to her mother-in-law's instructions to have a son and inherit the lineage" is deeply rooted. Therefore, even if the eldest daughter is a doctor, it cannot improve her status in her husband's family. Even if she gave birth to a demon king, as long as she was a son, she would still be recognized by her husband's family.
This is not only her husband's pain, but also her pain.
When she knew that she was pregnant again, she prayed very much that she was a boy, and as for the problems of her body, she didn't care at all, even if she was asked to sign the "life-for-life" surgical order, she would not hesitate.
The funny thing is that after she became a vegetative state, the mother-in-law was heartbroken that the child had not yet reached 28 weeks, because then she could have a cesarean section, and her mission was about to be completed; as for her husband, it was only a momentary Reluctant to give up, but when it comes to her son, she will not hesitate to give up on her.
Zhang Xiufen, when he is about to retire, is still fighting for his second child, how sad it is. It's just that her suicidal sacrifice is more ridiculous than the pain that others impose.
Congenital heart disease gave birth to a mother and died
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Unfortunately, when she returned to the family at the age of 30 and was about to have a child, she found out that she was congenital heart disease , and her husband divorced on the grounds that she could not have children, causing her to lose her career and family successively.
Luckily for her, she met her current husband and got pregnant. But unfortunately, when she went to all the hospitals, no one was willing to accept it. As soon as she arrived at Shengji Hospital, she preemptively claimed that Shengji Hospital could not only cure her heart disease, but also allow her to give birth to a child smoothly.
but the truth is that Shengji Hospital is only receiving, andThere is no guarantee, because her social influence is too great, so she had to be treated. Fortunately, God favored her, not only successfully replaced a healthy heart, but also saved the child.
just, she is not satisfied. After the surgery, she questioned that the heart was not good, so she forced the hospital to operate on her again by not taking rejection medicine. Eventually lead to toxin attack and death.
Many people may think she killed herself? If she doesn't get pregnant and only has one heart replaced, she can live for decades; or if she obeys her will, since she wants to have a child, she should live ten more years after changing her heart.
In fact, under her crazy appearance, what hides is not ignorance, but a breath of gambling.
Gao Ying is a woman, a fertile woman, she can completely control her reproductive rights, but she was deprived and abandoned by her ex-husband. Since then, she has been looking for opportunities to prove she can give birth. After
married her second husband, she fulfilled her wish to have a baby, but the problem of congenital heart disease shortened her lifespan, and with the addition of having children, her life span was only ten years. So, she is crazy.
Her whole life seems to be led by a rope, struggling desperately, unable to control her own destiny, finally ushered in a turning point, but her life was ruined on the word "be strong".
How brave is a woman who vows to fight against the gods, negotiating conditions with the god of death in order to have a child. It's just that her assault-style suicide is more tragic than a normal person's life.
Pregnancy with cervical cancerPregnant woman with one corpse and two lives
Feng Ke was originally a happy woman, married to the affectionate and dedicated gynecologist Lin Wei.
The two also discussed that when Lin had not performed 8,000 operations, he would resign from the hospital and accompany her to travel around the world. Maybe God is jealous of such a loving young couple. Not long after marriage, she found out that she had cervical cancer. She had had her ovaries removed, but her body was still normal.
But at this time, she found out she was pregnant. Lin Wei's first reaction was to abort the child and cure her first. But she was transferred to the hospital secretly, and she also gave up the treatment of cervical cancer, and wanted to give birth to the child with her own willpower.
Reaper wants you to leave at the fifth watch, never stop at the fourth watch. When the fetus was 32 weeks old, the cancer had spread to the abdominal cavity, and before she could receive treatment, she passed away with eternal pain.
How sad is the ending of one corpse and two lives, those who died can't rest their eyes, and those who are alive regret their lives for the rest of their lives.
Lin Wei blamed all his faults on himself. Apart from desperately doing surgery, he was no longer the genius doctor he used to be. Even after many years, when they encounter pregnant women who are pregnant with cervical cancer again, they will lose the reason of doctors and try to persuade them to have an abortion to protect adults.
"Husband, Director Zhang told me today that the tumor has spread to the abdominal cavity. Oops, I'm really useless, I can't hold on anymore. The child also can't take a look at this world, sorry, I know you will blame me , I was too self-willed, but I don't regret the decision I made. I love our child. I can't lose him to save my life, so if you give me another chance, I will still make this choice. This paragraph Time makes you miserable. And because of me, you deeply doubt yourself as a doctor, your ability and mission. Don't doubt yourself, you are the best, you must live strong. Because you still follow me I made an agreement that when you finish 8,000 operations, you will take me to Pokhara, do you remember? The goddess of harvest will definitely take care of you. I am not that lucky with your wife, but you must be the luckiest one. Husband, come on, I love you."
To tell the truth, no matter who encounters a woman who loves him like this, he will be moved. But, what can a dead person change the living person? Feng Ke's death, his own regrets, his unborn child, and Lin Wei's remorse, is this rational and worth publicizing? Even when
mentions her again, most of them will say "Oh, that poor woman with two lives".
There are many ways to live in a person's life, but Feng Ke chose to die. I am afraid that she is the only one who has touched her. She thought that she had dedicated her life for love and children, but in fact it was because of her willfulness that her family could not become a family, and the white-haired person sent the black-haired person.
A person who knows that there is no way ahead, insists on looking for life in the abyss, and thinks that he is saving a new life. Should she be said to be arrogant or ignorant?
A woman who trades her life for her life is too selfish!
Are those women who exchange their lives for their lives really selfless?
Looking at the above three women who lost their lives to give birth to children, you will find that they are not selfless, on the contrary, they are more selfish than ordinary people.
Zhang Xiufen regards her husband as her god, so regardless of her 50-year-old age, she goes to give birth to a second child. The purpose of this is not how much she loves her children, but to satisfy her husband's selfish desires. How devout a human being is to God is how devout she is to her husband. If not, how could she still want to have children even when her own life is at risk. Gao Ying is a high-minded woman with congenital heart disease, but she wants to prove that she can have a child in one breath. After changing her heart, she is not satisfied with her child for ten years, but no matter how stubborn she is, she cannot overcome the fragility of life. As soon as I could see the child, I left. Feng Ke, a little woman who was born for love and died for love, wanted to exchange her life for her child's life, but she failed to fight her fate, and ended all fantasies with one corpse and two lives.
giving birth to a child originally meant an extra life for a family, but not only did they not gain an extra life, but they also lost their own lives.
The fact that a woman has the ability to reproduce does not mean that she has to give birth to a child at the expense of her own life. Because ability determines power, whether or not to give birth, how to give birth, when to give birth, how to give birth, etc. should be decided by women themselves. .
And women should be more aware that having children is not to inherit the family, nor to prove anything, nor to please anyone, but only because they want to conceive a new life, and the child itself should not have any mission.
"There is nothing to let go of life" says that people spend their whole lives crossing, crossing people, crossing their hearts, crossing themselves, crossing is a kind of openness, crossing is a kind of tolerance; crossing is a kind of commitment, crossing is a kind of free and easy . When you let go of it, you have it, and when you see it, it is happiness. Something will occur if it belongs to your life, if not, do not push it.
Everyone has only one life, if you can't cherish it yourself, no one will cherish it. Nurturing life is not the end, but the beginning. Bringing children into this world should take the responsibility of raising children. And those women who exchange their lives for their lives are selfish from the beginning, because children who lose their mothers are the most pitiful.
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