Article | Shi Ji Xin said
Editor | Shi Ji Xin said
Although she came from a wealthy family, she did not look like a lady at all. "
Although she is over 60 years old, she has no children, but she has experienced four marriages and still believes in the purity of love.
The world has many impressions of her, and she also has many bright titles, such as "Red Second Generation", "Fashion Godmother" and so on.
But she admitted frankly that although these titles are her truest side, these titles do not represent all of her.
She is the ex-wife of Hong Huang , Chen Kaige .
Many netizens who knew Hong Huang gave her a nickname - a famous ruffian girl. Although the nickname
seems a bit derogatory, as Hong Huang said: "Women are divided into two types, one is serious and the other is fake."
Hong Huang belongs to the latter, the kind of The style of behavior looks very presumptuous, but it is rough and fine, and it is very attractive.
In 1961, Hong Huang was born in the Beijing Shijia Courtyard. I believe that many people are somewhat familiar with this address, because this is the former residence of Zhang Shizhao, a famous scholar in modern China, and also the residence of Qiao Guanhua, the former deputy director of the Foreign Ministry and Policy Committee.
And these two famous people in China are all related to Hong Huang, Zhang Shizhao is Hong Huang's maternal grandfather, Qiao Guanhua is her stepfather.
And Hong Huang's family is not only these two celebrities, her mother Zhang Hanzhi was Chairman Mao's English teacher before his death, and her biological father Hong Yanjun was the deputy director of Peking University .
At the same time, her mother, Zhang Hanzhi, has the title of China's "last famous lady". She inherited almost all the advantages of a lady. Not only does she look sweet, but Zhang Hanzhi's own temperament is even more outstanding.
Ke Hong Huang seems to be an "outlier" in this family. She has not inherited the family's fine genes at all, and she even embodies the word "ruffian" incisively and vividly. As soon as
was born, her parents and elders began to teach her various etiquette gestures, hoping that she would become a dignified woman.
However, Hong Huang's thoughts were the exact opposite of theirs. She hated the etiquette and rules spoken by her elders, and she even sneered at some of the requirements for women.
is precisely because of this, Hong Huang has been doing his own way since he was sensible, and he doesn't mind the old rules of the old times like smiling.
In order to correct her habits, Hong Huang's mother and elders told her many times, but it didn't work at all, Hong Huang still lives in his own way.
Hong Huang is a very personable person in terms of life, but she has never been a hindrance in learning, but is a role model for children.
has to say that although Hong Huang did not inherit the beauty of her parents, she inherited all the talents from her parents.
Parents all over the world are the same, they all want their children to have a good future, so as soon as Hong Huang was born, her parents paved her future path. It can be said that as long as she studies steadily and obeys her parents, then At least she will not worry about food and drink in the future.
's mother's suggestion at the time was to train Hong Huang to become a diplomat, so when Hong Huang was 12 years old, he was sent to the United States by his parents and became the first batch of primary school students sent by to study in .
However, what her parents did not expect was that after Hong Huang went to the United States, she directly deviates from the life trajectory they preset for her.
The United States in the 1980s was completely different from China. The United States has always advocated freedom. Although the United States at that time could not compare with the present, it was also much more open than China.
Hong Huang's character is unrestrained, obviously the United States at that time catered to her personality more, and here she was less restrained.
lived in the United States, Hong Huang did not put down her studies. She even got a full scholarship with honors and was admitted to the famous Vassar College in the United States, majoring in national politics.
Judging from her later life experience, the reason why she chose this major may also be because of the pressure from her family.
However, when Hong Huang was in her junior year, she ushered in her first marriage, but this marriage had a very strong purpose.
At that time, Hong Huang's stepfather Qiao Guanhua suddenly became seriously ill. Hong Huang wanted to return to China to visit, but she was worried that she would not be able to return to the United States to continue her studies after returning to China, so she thought of getting married.
At that time, Hong Huang had an American classmate named Andrew. Although Hong Huang's appearance was not that outstanding, her talent made Andrew willing to bow down to her pomegranate skirt .
and Andrew has always wanted to come to China to experience the five thousand years of Chinese cultural heritage, so the two hit it off.
Hong Huang didn't discuss with anyone when he got married, and he directly got a marriage certificate with Andrew in the United States.
According to Hong Huang's recollection, her mother also contacted her and said she would not be allowed to come back, and she would return to China after her studies were over.
But Hong Huang was already married to Andrew at that time, so his mother could only let her mess around.
Hong Huang didn't think there was anything wrong with his marriage at that time, and even after the two got married, they still lived very well in the United States.
But after Hong Huang graduated, she returned to China to develop her own business. The results can be imagined, one was in the United States and the other was in China, and the communication at that time was not as developed as it is now, so the marriage between the two was In this case it came to an abrupt end.
After Hong Huang returned to China, she went directly to a metal company in Germany, where she served as the chief representative of China.
's annual salary at that time had already reached 180,000 US dollars. You must know that this income could completely buy a building in China at that time.
However, Hong Huang is extremely dissatisfied with this job, not because of the salary, but because this job is very boring and boring in Hong Huang's opinion.
Because this job requires her to constantly negotiate and negotiate with clients, in many cases these occasions are at dinner parties or some entertainment venues, so this makes Hong Huang feel very uncomfortable.
Hong Huang gradually fell in love with fashion and art during her stay in the United States. In her eyes, this kind of negotiation work is not suitable for her at all.
So, Hong Huang resigned decisively and chose to start his own business.
, who has been influenced by American fashion and art culture, ignored other people's objections and resolutely embarked on the road of domestic fashion.
Hong Huang's temperament is a bit stubborn. As long as she believes in something, she will stick to it. No matter what problems she encounters, she will not give up easily. After
negotiated with a few like-minded friends, they jointly invested in a company and subsequently founded China's first fashion magazine.
In this field of Chinese fashion magazines, Hong Huang is a pioneer. She brought foreign fashion concepts to China and founded three representative fashion magazines through her own efforts.
This is why she is called the "fashion godmother", because she brings fashion to the Chinese people's field of vision and promotes Chinese fashion designers to the world.
At the same time as she started her business, Hong Huang's marriage life did not fall. After her divorce from Andrew, Hong Huang had already set a standard for her other half. She was looking for a man with artistic elements all over her body.
Once, Hong Huang accidentally saw " Yellow Earth " directed by Chen Kaige. There are no flashy special effects acting skills or exaggerated plot interpretations in the film, but the rural life at that time was interpreted in a movie way.
When Hong Huang watched the movie seriously, her eyes lit up immediately, because the movie in front of her was the art she had been looking for for a long time.
Immediately, she became very interested in Chen Kaige, the director of the film, and for this reason, she also got to know Chen Kaige everywhere.
After watching many works of Chen Kaige, Hong Huang became more interested in this person.
However, fate is a very wonderful thing. At a party, Hong Huang met Chen Kaige himself.
When Hong Huang saw Chen Kaige himself, she couldn't hold anything in her eyes. Chen Kaige's strong artistic atmosphere made Hong Huang fall in love with him at first sight.
However, at that time Chen Kaige was so focused on his own career that he didn't have time to think about the everyday things of his children.
, but Hong Huang didn't care, she thought she wanted to fight for it, so she staged a plot of a woman chasing a man.
's pursuit of Hong Huang at that time, Chen Kaige did not directly refuse, nor did he directly agree, the two were always in a somewhat ambiguous state.
said that the lover sees Xi Shi, and the same is true for Hong Huang. At that time, no matter what Chen Kaige did, Hong Huang would fully support him. Even if he went to the United States for further studies, Hong Huang would follow him.
However, just when Chen Kaige's study period in the United States expired and he was about to be sent back to China, Chen Kaige remembered Hong Huang.
Because of Hong Huang's first marriage, she has an American green card. In order to continue to stay in the United States, Chen Kaige and Hong Huang became husband and wife.
But what Hong Huang didn't expect is that Chen Kaige is not a dedicated person. He had an affair with the starring Xu Qing when he was filming " sings while walking". The incident of
made Hong Huang's image of Chen Kaige's best partner collapse instantly, and she finally woke up from the delusion of love.
Immediately, Hong Huang, who was far away in the United States, called Chen Kaige directly and asked for a divorce on the spot.
Chen Kaige was reluctant to agree at first, but Hong Huang's attitude was very firm, and even said: "If you don't agree to the divorce, then wait for me to green you." Fame, Chen Kaige could only choose to compromise in the end, so the four-year marriage between the two ended like this. After
divorced Chen Kaige, Hong Huang may have been really hurt by this relationship. In the following years, Hong Huang did not make any big moves.
However, after this period of time, Hong Huang reappeared in the public eye. At this time, there was no trace of being hurt by love on her face.
But she married a French diplomat after that. Hong Huang's marriage made many people wonder if she had been smoothed out by reality.
But Hong Huang quickly refuted the speculation of netizens with practical actions. Her style and living habits have always made the French diplomat very uncomfortable, and their married life is not at all happy.
So, not long after they got together, they announced their divorce.
's three consecutive marriages did not seem to have affected Hong Huang, and her flamboyant personality still did not converge in the slightest.
even Hong Huang said in the essay "Men are divided into two parts": Men are divided into two parts, the upper part is self-cultivation, the lower part is quality, and men always show the upper part to the world.
After that, Hong Huang still unabashedly "criticized" famous directors such as Zhang Yimou , Feng Xiaogang and other famous directors on Weibo. She completely ignored the eyes of the world and always expressed her views in the most direct way. come out.
Hong Huang's informality is admired by many people, so it also attracts a large number of fans. Her flamboyant personality is not her fault, but her unique personality charm.
Although she is direct in her words and deeds, she never does those contemptible things, and her talent and connotation are also loved by many people.
and in love, Hong Huang has always maintained the mentality of a little girl. Although she has experienced three marriages, she has never given up her fantasy of love.
In 2021, Hong Huang entered the palace of marriage again, but this time her husband is just an ordinary designer.
His name is Yang Xiaoping, he only has a high school education, and he is divorced with a mixed-race son. No matter what aspect of comparison, Yang Xiaoping is not as good as Hong Huang's first three husbands.
But Hong Huang doesn't care about this at all, because she thinks that in the days she lives with Yang Xiaoping, she is very comfortable and happy.
Actually, Hong Huang and Yang Xiaoping have known each other since 2004, but at that time, Yang Xiaoping and Hong Huang were just friends. It was not until after so many years that Hong Huang realized that Yang Xiaoping might be her best choice. .
may be the same people who have been divorced. They have a lot of common language together, and they both cherish this marriage very much.
Now, Hong Huang and Yang Xiaoping have adopted a daughter together and named her "Pingping". The arrival of
Pingping has made this small home more warm, and the bond between the two has also increased a lot. They rented a farm in the suburbs of Beijing, and their life has returned to plainness.
Hong Huang's life has experienced setbacks when starting a business, betrayal in love, and at the same time, she has experienced the hardships of the world, but she can always remain the same, insist on being herself, and dare to love and hate, which has become synonymous with her.
women have always been the weaker party. Whether in life or in love, many women choose to forbear and compromise.
But Hong Huang has made many women see another way of life, pursuing the life they want, never caring about other people's eyes, trial and error is not scary, what is scary is that they know what's wrong and don't have the courage to go correct.