" Zhen Huan Biography ", An Lingrong is a very special existence. Aside from the grievances and grievances between her and Zhen Huan , her development after entering the palace was more inspirational than many others, and she lived beyond the reach of many people.
It's a pity that she chose the Queen's team, and the confrontation with Zhen Huan is doomed that she can't go to the end. It's a pity to say it.
I took a closer look at the grievances between her and Zhen Huan, and found that she and Zhen Huan were very sincere at the beginning.
As for the confrontation behind, there are actually many reasons. Generally speaking, there are three reasons why she finally betrayed Zhen Huan and chose the queen.
first, An Lingrong's character
I always feel that An Lingrong and Zhen Huan broke up, and the character aspect accounts for a large part.
Originally she and Zhen Huan sisters match, Zhen Huan is very sincere to her, she also returns this sincerity.
It's a pity that this sincerity was gradually worn away by her sensitive and suspicious personality.
Once Zhen Huan gave her two sets of Shu brocade clothes that An Lingrong gave her to Huanbi , Huanbi was seen by An Lingrong after wearing the suit.
Shu brocade clothes are very precious, and she is reluctant to wear them herself. Baba gave it to Zhen Huan to express her gratitude, and it also means to attach importance to this friendship.
But she didn't think that Zhen Huan would give it to a servant without wearing it herself. She didn't say anything at that time, but she had some thoughts about Zhen Huan in her heart.
It's like we give our most precious things to our most trusted and caring friends, but the other party actually gives this thing to others casually. Who would be emotional?
I value you, but you despise my affection, I guess I have discounted this friendship in my heart.
, plus the bedclothes incident and the witchcraft incident that cursed Hua Fei , made An Lingrong have more and more opinions about Zhen Huan, and felt that the other party was pretending to be her sister, but in fact she was supervising her words and deeds.
When a person deeply agrees that the other party is against them, it is difficult for the other party to do anything to escape from this kind of thinking logic, and they always feel that the other party is not really treating them.
So the superposition of various events later made An Lingrong even more convinced that Zhen Huan was pretending to be her friend, so she felt less gratitude and more hatred for Zhen Huan.
Everyone thinks that An Lingrong's hatred is inexplicable, but for her, she was hurt by Zhen Huan.
is the second,
, which was decided by one's background, actually I only realized it recently.
Zhen Huan, Meizhuang and An Lingrong, each of them has their own reasons for entering the palace.
Meizhuang is the concubine candidate that the family has always cultivated for the royal family, and it is her life's mission to enter the palace as a concubine.
Although Zhen Huan's family background is not as good as Meizhuang's, she is also a noble daughter of the Han army, and naturally she also needs to enter the palace draft.
Therefore, she and Meizhuang had no choice to enter the palace as concubines, they had to accept it.
They are the candidates introduced by the family, and the family has certain requirements for them: can
enter the palace and become the favorite concubine?
An Lingrong is different from them, she is for her mother to live a good life at homeAnd into the palace, so, she needs the emperor's favor.
But she did not get favor after entering the palace. Although Zhen Huan introduced her to the emperor, the favor did not last long.
So, when the queen offered her an olive branch, she followed the queen without hesitation.
Because only the queen can satisfy her need to regain her holy grace, and these are things that concubines of Zhen Huan's class cannot give them.
If you give, you will ask for it. What the queen wants is her absolute obedience when she gives her a chance. The queen
wants Zhen Huan to have an abortion, she must cooperate with the queen to let Zhen Huan have an abortion.
, of course, has her own resentment mixed in with this cooperation.
Third, the weak rely on the strong
Concubine Hua has a saying that puts the relationship of the harem very well, that is, there are no real sisters in the harem, but the weak rely on the strong to survive.
Although what she said is too absolute, it is still very suitable in most relationships.
Whether Cao Guiren depends on Concubine Hua, or Meizhuang chooses the Queen Mother, in fact, the weak depend on the strong to survive.
An Lingrong's approach to Zhen Huan actually followed this law.
An Lingrong offended Xia Dongchun in the first draft. At that time, no one made a move for her, just because her status was too low, no one wanted to offend Xia Dongchun for her.
Zhen Huan did this, so An Lingrong approached Zhen Huan.
At first, I thought that this approach was because An Lingrong got help from Zhen Huan, but now I think it is not only for this reason, but also because Zhen Huan was the person of the highest rank and class that An Lingrong could approach. .
Compared to struggling to survive in the harem alone, following them will be much safer and more reliable.
This was An Lingrong's original idea. Of course, she also benefited a lot from this idea because Meizhuang was favored. Although she would be angry with others, she would not be short of clothes and food, so at first she was determined to meet Zhen Huan and the others. went down together.
But this idea was quickly subverted because of the false pregnancy in Meizhuang.
Shen Meizhuang's false pregnancy was demoted by the emperor as a promise and detained, and the favored Zhen Huan was also affected.
Concubine Hua ordered the good things in her palace to be taken away, making her very annoyed.
At the same time, she made an appointment with a eunuch to let him send property to her father, but she didn't expect to be rejected because of the Meizhuang matter.
Even if she told the other party that Zhen Huan was still favored, it wouldn't help. The eunuch told her that they were together, and that Shen Meizhuang had lost his favor, so Zhen Huan naturally couldn't go far.
I think this incident must give An Lingrong a signal, that is to follow Zhen Huan and the others, they will not always gain benefits. After all, the emperor's favor is gone, after all, Zhen Huan and the others are not strong enough that she can finally cling to. By.
In the past, her vision was not open. She thought that following Zhen Huan, the sisters would be able to enjoy happiness forever, but when something happened, she realized that relying on them is not a small risk. the queen.
After all, isn't it safer to follow the queen than Zhen Huan?
An Ling Rong never imagined that following the queen would cost far more than chasingAs Zhen Huan is bigger and unable to get pregnant, she will also be despised by Qi Concubine . Although she is favored, she still lives in humiliation.
What made her even more unexpected was that in the end, Zhen Huan won the queen and became the highest power in the harem. If she knew, she probably wouldn't have chosen to stand in line with the queen.
wrote to the end:
Actually, from the beginning, Zhen Huan should not have been friends with An Lingrong. Because their definitions of friends are completely different.
You see what happened to Meizhuang, she will only let Zhen Huan protect herself, and she is expected to help her in the future, but if she can't help her, then she will accept her fate, and she will never blame Zhen Huan for being ruthless.
But An Lingrong is. She gave her sincerity. One day she will have difficulties. Zhen Huan and others must go all out to repay this sincerity. If they can't do it, they are fake friends.
An Lingrong needs to reciprocate for friendship, and psychologically, he still puts interests above affection.
Later, Zhen Huan also realized that she and An Lingrong were different after all, but unfortunately it was too late.
So, don't find friends in different circles, because values are really difficult to match.
and because of the gap in vision and pattern will lead to different views and practices, and these gaps are likely to lead to the destruction of friendship, and ultimately hurt themselves.
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