" Life Events " is directed by Liu Jiangjiang. It mainly tells that Mo Sanmei meets Xiaowen in a funeral. The two people hate each other from the beginning, and finally they are inseparable.
is about funerals, but also about growth and redemption.
There are very few domestic dramas or movies with this theme, but there are many foreign ones. Most likely in traditional Chinese culture, this is considered an unlucky thing.
However, the popularity of this movie has not diminished since its release in June, and its reputation is also very good. It also appeared on the screens of other countries in August.
This movie is starring Zhu Yilong , Yang Siyou, Wang Ge , Liu Lu and others. The roles chosen by the director are very good and have a strong sense of life.
Zhu Yilong's acting skills have improved a lot, and his ignorant appearance is vividly portrayed by him.
The most worthy of praise is this little girl, Yang Yousi, who is so talented in acting.
This drama made a lot of people cry. The editor watched it twice and cried several times. There are many people like Mo Sanmei in life, but the "antidote" like Xiaowen is rare.
Mo Sanmei heard five sentences that had a major impact on his life and revealed the truth of life.
01 "I just want to get married, have a child, have a family, can't I have someone to rely on?"
Mo Sanmei's girlfriend sent him a message and said, let's break up.
He stepped on the accelerator to his girlfriend's mother and baby shop, rushed in and picked up his girlfriend. The first thing he wanted to do was to solve his anxiety.
The sixth man who came out of the bathroom caught him off guard. Since
can't hide it, his girlfriend confessed that he and Lao Liu have been together for a while. She was also pregnant with his child.
Mo Sanmei asked angrily, because of you, I fought with others and went to prison.
now not only broke up, but also married someone else. Are you worthy of him?
Mo Sanmei said, "I just want to get married, have a child, have a family, can't I have someone to rely on?" Will not work.
Compared with the precarious life of a funeral shop, the old sixth can give her a better life with money.
If you have a car and a house, your child's life will be guaranteed in the future.
What's up with Mo Sanmei, the shop is owned by her father and has never been transferred to him. He smokes, drinks, fights, and doesn't want anything. This sentence
tells us blatantly that the importance of economic strength, without money, cannot afford a wife.
People often say that money is not everything, and nothing is impossible without money.
So no matter what era, when, you must earn money seriously, the economic foundation of determines the superstructure .
02 "I can't see your mature appearance at all, let alone your fatherhood."
In fact, compared with having no money, women are more concerned about whether men have a sense of responsibility and self-motivation.
can now have no money and can work hard together, the question is whether the man is willing or not, whether he wants to work hard for their future.
The immature, boyish, just-by-the-move man really doesn't deserve any woman to have children for him.
From childbirth to parenting, it takes most of a woman's life, and in this process, it is difficult for many elite men to share half of the responsibility.
Not to mention how someone who is not responsible for himself is responsible for others.
Mo SanMy sister got angry with her girlfriend and went home and shouted to quit, and wanted to change her way of life.
was wrongly accused of stealing something when he was collecting the corpse and said, "I quit."
had a conflict with his father, and he was also confrontational, so he just went on and on to exchange the second brother for the nonsense.
This immature, irresponsible and casual mentality is the real reason why his girlfriend left him.
As a man in his thirties, he should take his responsibilities and actively find solutions when encountering problems, rather than escaping easily.
You can scold Fang Qiu when you are young, but when you are middle-aged, you must be down-to-earth, be a serious person, and work hard.
03 "Why do you live so hard, because you look down on yourself, who looks down on you?"
Mo Sanmei has low self-esteem, the kind of low self-esteem in her bones, so he can't do business and can't keep his girlfriend.
isn't the kind of bridal shop that looks down on them by the kind of people who often laugh at them for dealing with dead people.
is not the kind of contempt that Aunt Xiaowen needs and despises them.
but he admits they were right. I feel that my work has been dealing with dead people, and I despise myself.
is also disgusted in his heart, and he does not accept his career at all, nor does he accept his true self.
He wants to change, but his inner struggle has never been put into action.
He doesn't even read the notes Dad gave his brother and grandpa.
He lived and lived in a muddled way, with no motivation, no goals, and no desire to become a better version of himself.
looked like this, I was disliked by my father, and he spoke directly and beat me to death.
There is no distinction between high and low occupations in this world, and I think he should also know this. But knowing and doing are two different things.
is like myself. After so many years of hard work, I feel that my life is not enough, but I am more than enough, but I still don't want to interact with rich people too much.
is not impossible, it is self-esteem and inferiority complex, and at heart, I feel that I am inferior.
This is the imprint of childhood, always trying to tell myself, always trying to change. But so far the effect is poor.
In fact, there is no distinction between high and low, some people are born in Rome , and some people will never get to Rome in their lifetime.
Li Cheng is still worried about the hundreds of yuan for his children's meals in a semester, while Li Xiang's daughter Wang Shiling's one-year tuition costs more than 2 million yuan.
"Self-esteem and self-love, as a driving force for perfection, is indeed the source of all great undertakings."
People are incomparable, so if we want to live a relaxed life, we must learn to reconcile ourselves with ourselves.
Respect yourself and accept yourself in order to become a better you.
04 "I watched cartoons when I was a child, and he beat me up when I was a kid. He beat me up.
Others called me a dead man, I fought with others, what was he doing. He was watching upstairs and didn't do anything, Turn around and leave."
When Sanmei Mo was arguing with her father, she said these words upstairs, and it was these words that made him who he is today.
is young and likes to watch cartoons and fresh things. He didn't like mourning, but his father didn't reason with him either.
also did not give him a chance to choose. Facing his son's resistance, his father simply and rudely beat him directly.
he also learned this kind of problem-solving when he grew up, seeing his girlfriend andThe old sixth is together and starts to fight directly.
Others scold him for eating the dead, and he fights with others.
's father didn't help him, let alone tell him that hitting someone was wrong. How to properly handle conflicts with friends and classmates.
instead walked away indifferently, saying nothing and doing nothing.
This incident reflects that his childhood was unfortunate. There is no mother's tender care, no father's wholehearted protection.
He made himself a turtle, hiding his inner weakness and helplessness with a hard shell.
In fact, his heart is kind and warm. It's just that before he met Xiaowen, the people he met were all belittling and suppressing him. Whether it's my father's hatred of iron, or my sister's disgust.
or the abandonment of his girlfriend is equal to black on black for his life.
"Happy people are healed by childhood all their lives, and unfortunate people are healed from childhood all their lives."
Mo Sanmei is trying to use his present to heal his childhood. Fortunately, he met Xiaowen.
Therefore, we should be more rational, gentle and protective towards children's childhood. Indifference and violence will only make them go further and further in the abyss.
In fact, every relationship is a relationship, more understanding and tolerance can go further.
05 "Life is like a book, every one has to be turned to the last page, some have a period, some have ellipsis , life is nothing but death. What is the name of
? What, what, what, it's just a passing glance."
After Mo Xiaomei helped Xiaowen's grandmother dispose of the body, Xiaowen relied on him.
kept arguing that he wanted to pay her grandma back.
jumped from the beginning to the final reconciliation and mutual redemption. Mo Xiaomei was cured by a child, which made his inner tenderness blossom, and his inner softness became easier.
When Dad beat him with a cane, Xiaowen bravely stood in front of him, saying that it was me who caused the trouble and that he wanted to beat me.
Probably no one since childhood has ever been so serious about protecting him.
When he was going to raise 300,000 in a month, Xiaowen went to his grandma's dance partner and wanted to help take out the money grandma left her.
is when Xiaowen wiped the wound on his face with saliva.
These small, loving gestures softened him and made him want to take care of this girl at all costs. In order to help her fix her watch, he began to study the notes of his second brother and grandfather seriously.
Work hard, earn money with your heart, and no longer get angry with the old man.
write work notes carefully and summarize work experience.
Under the influence of Xiaowen, he reconciled with his father. This sentence on the top floor was said to him by his father before he died, which gave him a new understanding of life and began to work hard and earnestly to live.
Mo Xiaomei is happy, because he met Xiaowen, a brave and strong girl. The two of them redeemed each other and grew up together.
There is no major event except death, but life and death are just a momentary thing, and this moment requires countless little things.
These five sentences plus a small essay made Mo Sanmei, who used to be confused, become a responsible and responsible "father", and also unexpectedly gained a family.
In the final analysis, the major events of life are their own business. Everyone is fighting in their whole life. Life is a battlefield, and the opponent is themselves.
come to the same goal, there is no winner or loser, just the final calm or not.
As Ino and Morio said, lifeThe meaning is: to improve oneself, to temper the soul.
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