Ren Duomei, a woman who regarded marriage as an investment, came from a small place and graduated from a second-class university, married a doctoral doctor husband who was chased by doctors and nurses in the whole hospital with two suites in a big city. In order to maintain this marriage, she became a full-time wife when she got married, and tried her best to compliment her mother-in-law and please her husband with every pore. I also clearly know that I am a wife who may be replaced at any time, so I put the theory of "there is competition in the workplace, and there is crisis" in the workplace to marriage.
Unfortunately, after three years of marriage, her husband refused to have children, while her in-laws put all the pressure on her. The "second generation of doctors" appeared next to her. The young, beautiful and anxious little three, even surpassed her, and got into a relationship with her mother-in-law.
survived by marriage, but the virtue of being virtuous and virtuous has become a shortcoming. Her mother-in-law looks down on it, and her husband is far away. It only takes 3 minutes to make a video. All the news is the last one to know, even the Moments have blocked her . The label of "highly married girl" on her body could not be torn off, because she was always an outsider who was strictly guarded by her husband's family.
has read this sentence: A bird standing on a tree is never afraid of branches breaking. Because it does not depend on branches, but on its wings.
Ren Duomei from her mother-in-law's family
is very beautiful, but this is not a good thing for her mother-in-law.
Because mother-in-law chooses daughter-in-law, the most important thing is education, ability, family background, not appearance, and even a woman who thinks that she is too beautiful will bring her son bad. But as a mother, no matter what, I don't want to fight with my son.
said that women understand women best, and her mother-in-law agreed with Ren Duomei to enter the door, but her requirements were extremely high. The first thing I do when I come to my house is to check the hygiene. Even if my son is not at home when he goes abroad, the house must be spotless. Unfortunately, my mother-in-law discovered her new vacuum cleaner, , and told her unabashedly, "When mopping the floor, use a mop. It's the cleanest when it's wet." Duomei naturally didn't dare to resist, Although his expression was a little unsettling, he still replied obediently, "Mom, I understand."
In fact, Duomei didn't get a high dowry when she got married, nor did her name be added to the two suites of her husband's family. Even though she wears high-end clothes every day, lives in a big house, and drives a Mercedes-Benz , none of this belongs to her. Because the house was bought by the in-laws, and the car was bought by the husband before marriage, so the clothes in the wardrobe that still looked a little bit belonged to her. But she still had no complaints, and she was even a little happy.
's mother-in-law occasionally praised her for being sensible, so she quickly replied, "It's all because my mother taught me well." The mother-in-law brought a box of ginseng and asked her to send it to her husband to lead. She didn’t dare to use it herself if she didn’t send it out, and she thought of returning it to her mother-in-law. Because her mother-in-law disliked her family's small place, even if her parents came to look for her in a big city, she would not dare to arrange for them to live at home. Even if he could not escape the two family members, he rushed his mother to the "second aunt's house". But she doesn't have a second aunt's house, it's just an excuse to drive her mother to the hotel to escape.
My mother-in-law had high blood pressure and was hospitalized. She came to visit early in the morning with soup that she had boiled for several hours. When she arrived at the hospital, she didn’t even dare to sit on a stool. Quietly put the soup down and go.
It seems that Duomi Ren has been filial to her mother-in-law's daughter-in-law for three years, which is really rare. However, she knew that she didn't have much filial piety in her heart, but just to seize this marriage, she had to learn to attach to primary school and be low.
It's a pity that she won the title of twenty-four filial and good daughter-in-law, but she couldn't move her mother-in-law's hard-hearted heart. Because the mother-in-law only wanted her son to have a successful career, but as for her caring little daughter-in-law, she caught a lot on the street. People who have no core competitiveness in will be replaced sooner or later.
Daomei is a typical woman who married a good husband and forgot her old mother. Why does
say that?
Because every time her parents dragged all kinds of souvenirs to the big city to find her, she would arrange for them to stay in a hotel. Although the hotel is not bad, it still feels better than staying at the son-in-law's house.Quite a bit.
It's true that Duomei's parents asked for a high dowry when they got married, which caused tension between the two families, but she has been married for more than three years, so she can't keep the relationship between the two families deadlocked, but she doesn't plan to make any improvements.
The mother who lived in the hotel and cooked noodles, as usual, nagged her grievances about not being able to live at home, and repeatedly told her not to condone her husband too much, so as not to let her cheat on her, she still knew nothing. But in addition to answering, she also seemed a little impatient.
Duomei is not a love brain, and he knows that he is married into such a family, marriage certificate is not the only weight to control marriage. But she is not a woman who rises up after hearing two ugly words from her mother. On the contrary, even if the marriage really lights up, she can keep calm.
's weak family is the biggest reason why a woman can't raise her head in her husband's house.
In her heart, she had long planned that as long as she flattered her mother-in-law and won her favor, and then gave birth to a child smoothly, even if her husband really had two hearts, then she was not without support. Therefore, what she has to do now is to prevent her parents from interfering with her marriage as much as possible, and cut off the conflict between her mother-in-law and her mother's family from her.
No matter how good her family is, it's still useless if she doesn't have the ability. Although her husband's family treats her as an outsider, she is rich and powerful. As long as she manages well, she can always get more, and the money is always in her hands. She knows best about the truth of being safe.
Junior San is rampant,
Junior Sister, this kind of creature is indeed the reserve team of Junior San.
is not unexpected, a junior sister appeared next to Duomei's husband, and this junior sister is not only a "second-generation doctor", her father is also the teacher of the newly arrived dean. I am beautiful, educated and capable, and the most deadly thing is to covet her husband.
Just when she went to the hospital to pick up her husband from get off work, the younger sister threatened with a straight ball.
"I didn't expect you guys to be very loving before returning to China, but I think the most important thing for my brother at the moment is to secure his position in the hospital, but you can't help him. I can help him, this time I just He went to New York."
, who can say such things, is obviously challenging Duomei. Looking back, the main reason why Junior Sister is so shy about her identity as a wife is her own superiority. Whether
can seize happiness depends not on means, but on ability.
In fact, Duomei has long known about the existence of this unruly junior sister. The reason why she couldn't bear it after her husband returned to China, but instead repaired the relationship with her husband again and again. It's also because she knows that she can't compare with her junior sister, that marriage certificate is not easy to use, the only bargaining chip is her caring and seductive body.
It's a pity that the junior sister passed her directly and climbed up to the beautiful mother-in-law. You must know that the mother-in-law has never really accepted Duomei, and now there is a young girl with a background who is reposting her son. Don't say refusal, if allowed, mother-in-law will beat gongs and drums to celebrate.
Ren Duomei has little chance of winning against the scheming little sister. But since she regards marriage as an investment, how could she go out and admit defeat as soon as there is a rumor. However, this battle to defend the marriage is not easy, and the first thing that bears the brunt is that she must first have the ability to protect herself.
Husband doesn't want children
Husband Zhang Weichen likes Ren Duomei, but not so much.
Because a man will only be fascinated by beauty for a while, but it is difficult to stumble him and never leave.
Zhang Weichen ruled out the opposition of his parents, rejected all the people who took the initiative to be ambiguous, and married Ren Duomei, but when he has a beautiful wife and concentrates on his career, he finds that a beautiful wife is beautiful, but right He really doesn't help.
, especially the new topic of research abroad this time, had to lose the opportunity to stay abroad because he had no contacts, and finally returned to China in despair. This kind of blow can really stay in a man's heart for a lifetime.
Although he was once again fascinated by Duomei's virtuousness and beauty, but when the two were in love, he still didn't think about having a child. It must be that he has a second heart that can make a man hit the arrow, but instantly rein in his horse.
Since the appearance of the junior sister, he has begun to have new considerations. On the one hand, he is pointing at his wife who lives, and on the other is the junior sister who can help him achieve success. It is difficult for a man to be unmoved. Otherwise, he could use his married status to keep a distance from his junior sister. I also don't block my wife when I post a group photo with my junior sister.
But for Tomei, it was fatal. Not to mention that the mother-in-law has given an ultimatum to let her have a baby quickly. She herself desperately needed a child to tie up this hard-won marriage. It's just that she can't decide the matter of having a child by herself.
A man who is willing to have a child with a woman is not necessarily true love, and a man who does not want to have a child may not even have love, let alone sincerity. With a woman's sixth sense, Duomei knew that her husband's heart was shaken. Maybe she hadn't been attacked by the city yet, but the embankment of a thousand miles collapsed in the ant's nest, and there was really not much time left for her.
What is the picture of a high-married girl
After watching " Their Names ", I have been thinking that Ren Duomei's condition is not bad, even if I lose Zhang Weichen, the life will not be too bad, she worked so hard, If you have to marry high, what is the picture?
Later, I realized that what she wanted was to marry a high person. There is a passage in
's "Notes from the Basement": All
needs personally is his desire to be independent, no matter how much it costs to achieve this independence, and no matter where this independence will lead him.
Duomei has lived in a family that adores vanity and promotes the high and the low since she was a child. Using marriage to change her destiny will be her only way out. And this way out was really realized by her. In the face of the wealth that has already been obtained, I am afraid that individuals are not willing to give up.
is like Mo Lan in "Know or Not", she sold her innocence, and she has to marry into the Earl's Mansion, because the phoenix on the ground is not as good as a chicken, she would rather step on the tail of a phoenix than be the head of a chicken.
is as beautiful as it is. I don't like it if I'm worse than my own, and I can't climb it if I'm better than myself. It's hard to catch one, and the peeling skin won't let go.
just planted phoenix to attract Phoenix. If
wants to change his destiny, no one can be trusted. The backer will fall, and everyone will run. Only himself is the most reliable. Treat yourself as an independent and complete body, every effort belongs to yourself, every step forward is solid, and only when you climb the peak can you touch your destiny!