"Hidden in the Dust": If there are no women and children, men don't really care how much money they make

" Hidden in the Dust " is not the highest-grossing movie this summer, but it is definitely the movie with the greatest stamina. It went from struggling to over 10 million at the box office to over 100 million at the box office with good reputation. While the reputation is good and the box office counterattacks, this movie also has a lot of controversy.


watched this movie before, and saw the suffering of life, the cold and indifferent part of human nature, the kindness that still shines in the hard life, and the sincere love that blooms in the wheat field.

watched the movie again and got some new feelings. From the protagonist Ma Youtie, I seem to see the sentence I once saw on the Internet: "If there are no women and children, men don't care how much money they make." The gap between Ma Laosi in the movie is very big, This gap does not mean that Ma Laosi's appearance has changed a lot, but the material life and spiritual changes.


First of all, in terms of material life, the original Ma Laosi has nothing but a small donkey , and even the house he lives in is borrowed from a neighbor's house. At the end of the movie, Ma Laosi even let go of the only little donkey that accompanies him, and he really has nothing. But in the process, Ma Laosi has owned it: he married Guiying, and he had his own wife and family; the couple built a few adobe thatched houses, although they were simple, they belonged to them, and they no longer had to rely on others; The harvest is full, and the food in the full warehouse is enough for the couple to have food and clothing without worry. These were things that Ma Laosi had never owned or even thought about before, just like Gui Ying, who lived in a shack at her brother's house, never thought of having a house of her own that could shelter from the wind and rain.


followed by a mental change. To exaggerate a little bit, the original kind-hearted Ma Laosi was like a salted fish without dreams. His life seemed to be at a loss, with neither a life goal to pursue nor a yearning for a better material life. At the end of the movie, Ma Laosi is heartbroken, and the meaning of life is gone along with Gui Ying's death, and he lays down the only egg that he thinks about with pesticides.


went from dazed to dead-hearted, from none to another, but in the process he had it. After marrying Gui Ying, Ma Laosi's life has a direction and goals: he wants Gui Ying to live in their own house, and he no longer has to look at people's faces and wander around; If he can't finish his food, he can eat it all at once, and he doesn't have to borrow food from others; he also takes Gui Ying to the city to find a good doctor for treatment, and he also takes Gui Ying, who has never been to the city, with him. Walk around the city and go shopping.


These material and spiritual changes are still there after marrying Guiying. Because of marrying Guiying, even if Guiying did not ask for it, she would not ask for it, but Ma Laosi still wanted to let his mother-in-law live a better life, at least to allow Guiying to live a life like her own. This spiritual change also prompted Ma Laosi's behavioral changes, and the behavioral changes also brought about material changes.


This is quite similar to many men. When there is no such a woman in his life that he wants to break in, no children come, especially when there is no family burden, in fact, men don't particularly care about how much money they make. It is enough to eat three meals a day. But when a woman enters a man's life, especially if this woman occupies an important position in a man's heart, whether it is love at first sight or love over time, a man will enter a state of fighting from a state of lying down. Therefore, in daily life, men change a lot after marriage and before marriage. This is probably the gene that men consciously take on this responsibility engraved in their bones.


So, women don't need to push their men all the time. Men occasionally lie down but just keep carrying that responsibility on their shoulders and get a little tired. Occasionally lying down is just to relax temporarily. After a short rest will move on. There are very few men who have been lying flat after the two are together, and of course there may be someAnother possibility is that this man doesn't have you in his heart at all, no matter which of the two, leaving may be a good choice.


said back to this movie, Ma Laosi's pursuits have been fulfilled one by one, only to take Guiying to the city to see a doctor, but there is no chance to achieve it. This probably means that life is impossible for everything to be satisfactory, and regrets often happen. Entertainment Spotlight