has a type of people who always judge others from the moral high ground, and jump to conclusions without knowing the whole picture.
They won't say anything in person, they only dare to condemn you behind their backs.
Do you know them better than your sister who grew up watching them?
In the third episode of " Ode to Joy 3", Zhu Zhe talked about the situation in his home.
includes himself to earn tuition for his younger siblings at home, and they are overwhelmed by their desires.
The parents of the family don't worry about whether they can eat enough when they go out alone, and they also give subsidies to their family for their younger brothers and sisters.
Now her younger brother and sister are coming to Shanghai to look for her, and the younger brother also brought his fiancee and mother-in-law.
Zhu Zhe wanted to ask a few girls for help, saying that he owed a lot of debt outside, and he should not reveal the information that he had a house.
He Minhong immediately said, isn't your whole room exposed?
Later, Zhu Zhe said that he wanted to borrow their room and put things in their place, and the girls immediately agreed.
But at this time, He Minhong said, if they really came to buy dowry, not to ask for money, wouldn't they have wronged them? clear.
At this time, He Minhong started her comment on the commanding heights. If his prodigal son turns back, wouldn't this deprive him of the opportunity to be a good person? There is a saying in
that you can see people's hearts over time, not to mention the sisters who have watched them grow up since childhood. I believe that no one knows better than Zhu Zhe, his own sister, what the heart of
's younger siblings is.
He Minhong jumped to conclusions without contacting them, which is really hasty.
Don't comment on other people's actions without knowing the actual situation of other people's homes.
Later, Yu Chuhui took his mother to Shanghai.
heard the quarrel between Yu Chuhui and his mother. Without knowing the whole story, He Minhong judged Yu Chuhui's to death based on only a few words of the quarrel.
Yu Chuhui didn't care much about her at first, after all, some of what she said was reasonable, and it was for the sake of her mother.
But at the back, He Minhong intensified and posted that Yu Chuhui's mother used to endure humiliation and burden in front of her father, and now she has to endure humiliation and burden with her.
Yu Chuhui was so angry that he immediately pushed open her door and criticized and educated her.
commented rashly without knowing other people's families, just like a keyboard warrior on the Internet, no matter what the facts are, as long as he is happy with his output.
If there is anything you can say clearly in person, try to say it in person.
In many scenes in the play, as long as He Minhong has an idea, he will tell the other party by writing.
When Yu Chuhui ran out after arguing with her mother, He Minhong gave her a blank look, then entered the room and wrote a WeChat essay to question Yu Chuhui. There is another
, that is, in the first episode or two, Yu Chuhui mentioned that He Minhong connoted them in the circle of friends.
He Minhong himself said that it was not good to do so, but he had countless thoughts in his heart and couldn't control himself.
behavior like this is really bad.
Think about it, people's life is fast-paced nowadays, and not many people are willing to take the time to read your long essays, let alone your criticism of him. If there is any problem with
, it is better to make it clear in person than text message.
If your text is really so beautiful, converting it into language and expressing it will have a different effect.
and it is not advisable to talk about others behind their backs.
This society is not all pure and well-meaning, once your words are used by people with intentions, then you will have a hundred mouths to say.
So, don't jump to conclusions when you don't know what's going on. Don't talk about others behind their backs, you may one day become the object of others' talk.
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