The history of the destruction of Le Jia, the "life mentor", his story is far worse than you think

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To say that China’s most famous bald-headed host, there are two people who can be named. One of

is Mengfei , and the other is Lejia .

Two people from the same show, although they have different styles, one is humorous and the other has sharp comments.

However, Le Jia once joked: Only we can touch each other's bald heads.

But as the conflict between the two escalated on " If You Are the One ", some people even broke the news that their private relationship was very bad.

In the end, Le Jiayuan left "If You Are the One", wanting to continue to search for the next sky. After

spent the money in "If You Are the One", Le Jia's popularity has risen sharply.

later participated in " waiting for me ", " mother, listen to me ", " Mr. Super " multiple variety shows.

Le Jia is very well mixed in his career, playing in many circles, and he is always happy.

And his most popular is " Super Speaker ", but because of this show, Le Jia's future has begun to fall off a cliff.

In the finals of the show, Le Jia brought a disabled boy named Cui Wanzhi to the stage.

in order to encourage this young man to "forget his identity as a disabled person, be an upright person, and say everything he wants to say."

Le Jia also drank at the show and cheered for Cui Wanzhi.

But he did not expect to drink too much, he drank a bottle of 53-degree liquor.

turned out to be a gaffe after drinking Le Jia, and his mouth was full of vulgarity. Not only did he fail to encourage Cui Wanzhi, but Cui Wanzhi was eliminated.

This also caused Le Jia to be very dissatisfied, so he yelled at the stage.

Venus persuaded Le Jia, "You are probably self-defeating and did not help." Luyu , who has always been in a tacit understanding with Le Jia, also came to persuade Le Jia, but the two did not expect Le Jia to turn the finger at Jin Xing and Lu Yu:

"I specialize in giving speeches, not the same as you who do TV shows".

In the end, Jin Xing and Lu Yu had to leave in an embarrassing situation.

in the background, Venus said angrily: "I'm scared to pee, he is completely self-hype, has nothing to do with the show."

and another tutor Dou Wentao out of goodwill to persuade Le Jia, but he was scolded by Le Jia. "Go away",

Dou Wentao also shook his head and walked away, the show stopped recording. After the scene of

was embarrassing for a while, Le Jia came back to look for Luyu again, but in Jin Xing's words:

"He is not apologizing, but looking to make up the market. He is afraid that he has no work to do."

But indeed, this time After the incident, Le Jia never appeared on the screen again, and no one dared to ask him to record the show. After the

incident, in the face of the public's incomprehension and condemnation, Le Jia once again wrote a long article: "I drank, but I am not crazy." , Never awake."

and the former famous host Le Jia, why was it so degenerate for a while, and was ridiculed by the audience "never awake?"

1.

In 1975, Le Jia was born in Shanghai.

only two months later, he moved to remote Shaanxi with his parents before he was swaddled. The poverty of

's family and the quarrels of his parents made Le Jia long for success since he was a child, and

even became a little bit extreme in his personality imperceptibly.

But the only thing to be thankful for is that Le Jia’s father has a lot of books at home, and

allows him to read ancient and modern classics since he was a child, speaking much smoother than children of the same age.

At the age of 16, Le Jia graduated from a technical secondary school and was later assigned toBank work.

But the boring "window work" day after day bore him so much that he quit the "iron rice bowl" after two years of work.

At that time, Meng Fei, who was four years older than Le Jia, was not as good as him.

While working in a boring bank at Le Jia, Meng Fei had to go to a printing factory to be a low-level printer because he failed the college entrance examination. When

appeared in Lejia’s clean, tidy, well-groomed counter lobby every day,

Meng Fei was exposed to sludge every day, and his hands were always dirty on clothes. She was embarrassed to take a bath with others in public baths.

That was his most inferiority moment.

Le Jia, who couldn't see the end in the bank, stepped out of the bars and began to search for the outside world.

Le Jia, who left the bank, has sold houses and insurances, giving full play to his "three-inch tongue".

In 1993, 19-year-old Le Jia met a sister who was a direct seller and started selling products. After

entered the company, Le Jia's unique potential began to burst. In front of customers,

was flexible and talkative, so that in the first year he won the first place in sales of a certain brand in Ningbo area.

and he has become the company's youngest sales training instructor by virtue of his own advantages.

When Le Jia was proud on the podium to encourage the people under the stage to do sales, Meng Fei, who was full of dirt on

, also entered the Jiangsu TV station through his own efforts, from a temporary job to a full-time employee.

originally wanted to show off in the sales industry, but the good days only lasted for one year, and it ended quietly. The reason for

was that the higher-level leader was replaced, and the boss who valued his departure was very important. The new leader of

didn't like him well and didn't give him a good face. Le Jia left the company in a fit of anger.

Fu Wushuang comes, and misfortunes never come singly. Just when Le Jia’s career was at a trough, his rich second-generation girlfriend broke up with him.

was a relationship that was not blessed, and Le Jia only mentioned in " True Colors " that

's girlfriend at the time was a rich and beautiful white, and the woman's parents did not support them.

But the two who are in passionate love naturally don't care about their parents' dissuasion and insist on being together. The woman's parents never gave Le Jia a good face.

This makes Le Jia always stubborn, thinking that his girlfriend's parents look down on him because of his low education.

Since then, Le Jia aspires to be a cultural man,

has a new life goal, Le Jia first studied acting, and then studied business administration and psychology.

also got a bachelor's degree from a technical secondary school. At that time, Le Jia, who was good at marketing, performing, and trying to figure out the hearts of the people, started the road to success.

In 2001, another direct selling entered China, and Lejia, who has direct selling experience, successfully joined.

The passionate Le Jia began to give speeches all over the country, and countless audiences joined him, at most tens of thousands of audiences.

After each lecture, the audience applauded and Le Jia on the stage showed a satisfied smile.

At that time, Le Jia was born and flourished, with education, fame, and money.

But he didn't seem to be satisfied. By chance, Le Jia came into contact with the western behavioral psychology theory, and

followed a bold idea in his mind.

combined the psychology he had learned before, and invented his own theory of "personality color".

divided people's personalities into red, yellow, blue, and green, and published a book to introduce his own theory, and Called himself a "sex demon".

At this time, the "fake fighter" Fang Zhouzi stood up and bombarded Le to read the "Pheasant University", and his set of academic theories was completely "plagiarism."

However, Le Jia did not respond positively to this incident, only stressing that he had never boasted about his academic qualifications on any occasion.

At the same time, Le Jia met his second wife.

This is a young literary girl. The two communicated by letter at the beginning, so romantic and romantic.

results after marriageLe Jia, who was tired from work, also became extremely irritable due to the quarrel of firewood, rice, oil and salt.

finally couldn't communicate, the two people pushed the marriage to an end.

Two,

But from then on, Le Jia finally began to move from behind the scenes to the front of the big screen.

In 2010, the well-known Le Jia was invited to appear in a blind date variety show called "If You Are the One". In the heart of variety show directors,

wants to create a relaxed and fashionable stage. On the stage, there must be two key figures,

, a host who can adapt to the situation, and a guest who understands a little psychology and snobbery.

So, Le Jia, who had a deep understanding of psychology, met Meng Fei.

Since then, the ratings of "If You Are the One" have been low and high, and it has become a popular blind date show across the country.

And the two bald heads on the show have become a major attraction.

Le Jia and Meng Fei's two "bald" host images are deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, Meng Fei is witty and smart, and Le Jia is sharp. After

, the addition of Huang Han , including the subsequent Huang Lan , enriched the female perspective of the show. The lineup of the first generation host of

opened up and was called the "iron triangle."

However, the original great prospects were achieved by Le Jia's mouth, and also lost by this eloquent and unforgiving "three-inch tongue".

In the program, Le Jia has been adhering to sharp and fair words to comment on male and female guests.

However, Le Jia’s unobstructed speech caused dissatisfaction among many guests.

even kept asking female guests on the stage what is the difference between embracing herself and Meng Fei.

caused the female guests to be embarrassed. Fortunately, Meng Fei's time was over in time to avoid a more embarrassing atmosphere.

And every time he was sharp, Meng Feiyuan returned, and the interactive style of the two has also become a special attribute of the show.

But over time, Le Jia took the stage as his home court. Meng Fei, who is on the side of

, has to deal with his aftermath for the effect of the show.

Over time, two "best friends" will also argue on stage because of their different opinions.

Since then, news about the two people's disagreement has been frequently exposed, but the truth of the facts is unknown to outsiders.

, but their comments on social platforms have a different meaning.

Meng Fei once wrote on social platforms:

"Look at the people around you, you will find that the so-called sharpness is often a bad mouth, and the so-called hitting the nail on the head is often without education."

and Le Jia on the other side wrote: "Someone in the world slanders me, deceives me, deceives me, deceives me, and deceives me, how to deal with it?" Although

did not name me, the dialogue and special words between the two always have an insinuation effect.

Sure enough, in 2013, Le Jia was absent from the show because of damaged vocal cords. After recording the last issue of "If You Are the One",

didn't come back. Only a few months later, he announced his departure from "If You Are the One".

After Le Jia left, Meng Fei began to provoke the mainstay of the show, still relying on his own strength to control the ratings of the show. After

, Meng Fei hosted the " New Blind Date Conference " when Le Jia repeatedly sank due to improper remarks and behavior.

complied with that sentence: "Shuishui's blind date show, Meng Fei who beats iron." After

left "If You Are the One", Le Jia is also a host who radiates energy everywhere.

has many programs inviting him to be a guest commentator.

But in these programs, Le Jia is still like before, like a wild horse running off the rein.

is most famous for its interaction with Venus in "Super Speaker".

Venus is famous in the entertainment industry as a "poisonous tongue". In another quarrel, Venus said Le Jia bastard. Le Jia, who has always been quick-mouthed, blatantly insulted Venus, angrily said:

"In the face of emotions, the great saint is certainly no better than the little eunuch." Putting Venus completely.Offended. After

, Le Jia once again had a big accident in the show, and that was a drunken incident.

3.

And this time, fate once again hit Le Jia with a blow. At the moment when

suffered from Waterloo in his career, some media broke the news that Le Jia and his third wife had gone through the divorce procedures.

Later, Le Jia also posted a photo of her daughter on the social platform and said:

"This is the little girl Linger and Qiuqiu, and I will live with me in the future", seeming to default to the divorce rumors.

Although Le Jia is peaceful on the surface, life has not been hit.

However, it is undeniable that Lejia slowly faded out of the audience's vision,

, but always creating news, Lejia once again returned to the center of the public's vision in a polarized way of public opinion.

In 2017, Le Jia announced on the social platform that it will start a desert trekking with her daughter Le Linger.

This is a "Dad takes me to the desert" activity. The itinerary is 76 kilometers on foot for 4 days, which is an average of nearly 20 kilometers per day.

and Le Jia's daughter Le Linger is the youngest person in the group, only 4 years old.

During the trekking process, Le Jia and her daughter had three chapters and started the trekking trip. When the

wait was about to end, Ling'er had large rashes on both thighs and blisters on her feet,

, but Le Jia still insisted on not holding her and encouraging her daughter to complete this activity.

in Le Jia's mouth, this is a spur to his daughter, but many people suspect that he will take his daughter to hype. After

, in order to maintain his life, Le Jia began to attend business speeches in small cities.

In 2018, Le Jia, who had been silent for a long time, began to complain about his poor mix on social platforms. The words

are slowly saddened between the lines. From the old suits and shoes, 200 lectures were filled with seats,

to the current situation where even 3000 seats are going to go, it is simply a history of sad reincarnation.

In 2019, Le Jia made the news again because he actually sent Ling'er, who was only 6 years old, to Shaolin Temple. It seems inevitable to be sprayed with

, but Le Jia has to carry out strict childbearing to the end.

But why does he insist on going his own way, even at the expense of being sprayed by the audience and betraying everyone in the circle?

In my opinion, Le Jia's low self-esteem and arrogance have ruined his good hand.

Is he not working hard enough?

is not, he seems to be beyond ordinary efforts, from technical secondary school to undergraduate, and then all the way up, become a well-known host. This opportunity of

is beyond expectation for ordinary people.

But when he became famous, the humiliation that was once looked down on still lingered.

Le Jia has a bad background, low education, and has a hard time. After

succeeds, he is sympathetic to those who are as bad as himself and want to change their destiny.

But for those who are better than him, Le Jia, who is a bit arrogant in his personality, seems to be hostile and aggressive, and is easy to regard them as "imaginary enemies." The second half of the road was firmly sealed.

Now Le Jia no longer studies color psychology , but went into Buddhism , and began to find answers there.

Le Jia, who disappeared on the big screen, is active on social platforms, discussing the philosophical principles of life and emotions with the audience.

, but no one seems to have bought it, and it is called "poisonous chicken soup."

I think Le Jia should learn this way of dealing with things: knowing the world without being sophisticated.

Many characters in the story who are not worthy of virtue will eventually end in the gloom. There are too many lessons for this.

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