Since Qiu Ze and Tang Yan broke up, his career has plummeted.
Tang Yan broke the news of "washing the toilet" during the relationship with Qiu Ze, "crashing and crying" after breaking up, and "cutting his wrists" for love. He also photographed Qiu Ze and Li Yufen sharing a car late at night. Many people at that time Said that he was cheating, accused him of reluctance to open his feelings, and said that he did not know how to give in his feelings.
All these things except the first one have been rejected. But Qiu Ze's impression of "scum" has taken root in the hearts of the people, and he can no longer get rid of this label.
This time, after Qiu Ze admitted that he was pursuing Zhang Junning, there was also a lot of curses, reminding Zhang Junning not to agree to him.
I think he made a mistake in his relationship, but this mistake has nothing to do with his character. I have seen several interviews with him, and he speaks and behaves appropriately, but he really does not manage relationships.
's "not knowing how to manage relationships" was not intentional, but his growing environment did not provide him with the strength to manage relationships.
Qiu Ze’s father is a taxi driver and his mother is a hairdresser. His family can be said to be very poor, and when Qiu Ze was 3 years old, his parents divorced due to disharmony. He entered the showbiz circle because his father was short of surgery fees and entered this circle in order to make money. A family environment like
did not teach him the right way to get along with each other in a relationship. On the contrary, because his parents were divorced, he was very resistant to marriage and relationships, and he kept protecting his inner safety by refusing to pay.
Therefore, in his relationship with Rainie Yang, he has always been afraid that he will be trapped. Rainie Yang said in the interview that she was afraid of making Qiu Ze angry. Once she had to endure seven days before calling Qiu Ze, Qiu Ze said, "Can't you give me some freedom?"
He was deeply disturbed by his feelings. It was also when he was in love with Tang Yan, because he was afraid of falling fans and chose not to make it public for the time being, all because of his distrust of feelings.
In consultation, I often meet many people who "distrust feelings or marriage" partners. Their "distrust" may come from their native family, or from the trauma of a certain past relationship.
In the family, they often refuse to give, showing a very indifferent state, and naturally enjoy the contribution of the other half. And in getting along, soon after a person’s one-man show, we tend to blame our partner and give up on him. Slowly, the relationship between the two people broke up.
But if we see his heart, we will find that he is not so "bad". He just lacks the strength to love, and when a person can bring him into a good relationship mode, he will also change this state.
Therefore, this time Qiu Ze and Zhang Junning's relationship, let us wait and see together.
I believe that as long as they know how to manage relationships, they can find the possibility of happiness in this seemingly high probability of unhappiness.
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