Relive "Tokyo Love Story": If you don't fall in love at the right time, it hurts to love too much

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Hetian Feige| Original article

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Life is a process of constant perception, then if his feelings change the state of mind at this moment, often no longer As always. The process of growth is to give up some, give up some, and stick to some.

More than 20 years ago, I felt that if you love someone, you should be like Lixiang Akame. If you have love, you have to say it, love it desperately, and be open in love. Every relationship is wholehearted and there is no return.

At that time, I felt hard for Lixiang to leave Aiyuan a train ahead of schedule: "Don't you like Wanzhi? Don't you love him? Why can't I wait until his arrival, but let Wanzhi marry Rimi?"

may be 20 Years later, when I revisited "Tokyo Love Story", I suddenly felt that the ending of Lixiang and Wanji was the best ending for them at that time. The only sad thing is that Lixiang and Wanji, who met again three years later, are also the most suitable pair. They met the right person at the wrong time. If three years later is the beginning of their encounter, this is a perfect fairy love, mutual understanding and evenly matched.

So, how much love and affection there is in the world is always a little bit worse, which makes people feel sad. However, the lack of beauty will make people unforgettable for a long time.

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, from the media and Caitou said:

"What is a more satisfying girlfriend than Akina Lixiang? She can handle the workplace, boss, business, and life, no matter what the situation, she will There is a smiling face, this face is still so beautiful, and is so affectionate for the puppet-like Nagao Wanji .

she is the perfect woman in the business society, you don’t have to consider whether your back is back-defense, because she is strong enough .

You can’t help but fall in love with her because of her femininity, because she will go to your elementary school and engrave her name on the pillar with your name.”

can be such a good girl at the wrong time Encountering Yongwei Wanji, it is also doomed to a love that will end without disease.

Lixiang grew up in a foreign country, with innocent personality, open-mindedness, and both love and hatred are so distinct. In the metropolis of Tokyo, she is well versed in the mystery of work and life. She is a girl who "knows everything but is still so naive". She is simple, enthusiastic, confident and magnanimous. She loves someone without reservation, and she is not stubborn. Stay awake without losing yourself in love.

Lixiang said: "No matter what I am doing, I am myself." "I just like to love you so much."

lost every minute and every second at Aiyuan Station, let Lixiang understand that the love of perfect governance will not It belonged to her, she left early, not wanting to leave regretful love because of Wanzhi’s kindness and indecision;

Reunion on the street after 3 years, maybe one look and one turn can rekindle love, But Lixiang chose to refuse, "It's not mine I don't love".

She will never be able to pull Wanzhi’s clothes with lovely tears like Rimi, and not let him leave. She also knows that as long as she pulls, Wanzhi will definitely stay; but a man holds two women in his heart. Love, Lixiang does not want, nor can she want it.

Nagao Wanji came to the metropolis Tokyo from the small county seat of Aiyan, and his heart was filled with anxiety and anxiety. He was like the current Phoenix man, sincere and kind, gentle and reticent. On the one hand, he wanted to get ahead in the big city, while at the same time he kept the small local thought Limited, he yearned for Lixiang's free and easy, but conservative thought.

Facing the passionate and confident Lixiang, this countryman is inferior and cowardly, insecure, not confident in Lixiang's passionate love, and often feels derailed. Only in front of the gentle and introverted Satomi he had secretly loved for 5 years, can he have confidence and breathe freely. Indecisive, he dragged between Lixiang and Rimi for a long time.

However, he unknowingly was attracted to Lixiang from the first time he saw Lixiang, and confessed his anxiety and embarrassment about the future in front of her. He would actively invite Lixiang to participate in his party with Rimi and Mikami, and he would be happy with Lixiang. Hugging and reluctantly bidding farewell late at night.

And Lixiang's love made him at a loss, too oppressive; he was conservative in his thoughts and prejudiced against Lixiang.

He would question whether Lixiang would go to bed with clients because of work, and would subconsciously doubt Lixiang’s work ability; because Lixiang took the initiative to propose "do/love", Wanzhi would be shocked in thought and mistakenly thought it was like Lixiang said. "Tokyo girls are like this."

If two people cannot achieve self-confidence and mutual trust, the relationship will not go far. Lixiang only got on the previous train and left when she understood this. She helped Wanzhi make the final choice and decisively withdrew from this love.

3 years ago, Lixiang’s love made Wanzhi tired; 3 years later, Wanzhi finally realized that Lixiang’s love was too precious, and he lost it because he didn’t understand it.

Standing on the streets of Tokyo, Lixiang is still so bright and brilliant amidst the hustle and bustle of people, but Wanzhi is like a reborn, mature and capable. After three years of working and living in a metropolis,

realized that the person who really made him grow is Lixiang, and the person he has been chasing after is also Lixiang. It's a pity that Lixiang has been moving forward while he is growing up; when he wants to look back, Lixiang has already turned around, no longer nostalgic.

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love, sometimes you can't succeed with hard love.

is like Lixiang and Wanzhi, they were in love at that time, but one loves actively and passionately, desperate; the other loves passively and hesitates, worrying about gains and losses.

They can't love to the end. In the final analysis, they have differences in the concept and way of loving. They are all using their own way to love, but they don't know how to communicate.

For Lixiang, love must be unreserved.

Lixiang loves Wanzhi, and can’t wait to let the whole world know that she will say “Maruko, I love you” downstairs in the company. She doesn’t care about other people’s remarks, just wants to give her love to Wanzhi. She will Knowing that he loves very much, but let Wanji comfort the broken-hearted Rimi.

The conservative and shy complete treatment can't accept such blatant love, let alone understand or accept Lixiang's deep meaning in doing so. The minister and Mikami in the play

all said something similar to Lixiang:

"Your love is too heavy, it will be unbearable for the completion of treatment."

"Your love will make people breathless."

Lixiang Their love is too heavy, and the ability to manage love is too weak, they are not appropriate, because love also needs to be evenly matched.

Even in love, it doesn’t really care about identity, status, wealth, but whether or not each other perceives the same happiness and sadness in this period of emotion. In the law of love, this is called: love contrast, contrast is a kind of Feel.

In the same relationship, only if both parties feel the joy of love, is love that is evenly matched.

However, in the relationship between Lixiang and Wanzhi, the more Lixiang expresses her love for Wanzhi, the more fearful and uncomfortable Wanzhi becomes. On the contrary, Wanji is happy because of Rimi's happiness in his relationship with Rimi, and he is confident because of Rimi's dependence.

Three years later, after he experienced the workplace and the busy life in the city, he finally understood that in the deceitful city, it is the most precious thing to love truly and frankly like Lixiang. He missed it, he missed it, but in Lixiang's place, she loved and missed it.

So, we said, how happy and wonderful it is to meet the right person at the right time; if you meet the right person at the wrong time, even if you love again, you can only say goodbye in the end , Forget the world!

Although I feel that breaking up is the best ending for Lixiang and Wanji, I feel regretful.

"If one day you are on the streets of Tokyo, you meet a girl who smiles like crescent moons, that is the girl I have loved, and her name is Rika Akana."

picture | "Tokyo Love Story" stills

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