Alan Tam, who just passed his 70th birthday, publicly apologized to his wife Yang Jiewei and lover Zhu Yongting for the first time, saying that he had made them suffer too many grievances. I hope everyone will not follow him.
just, this guilt came too late, he owed his original partner Yang Jiewei , he can't make up in his life!
Sacrifice yourself and become a man, so stupid!
When Alan Tam and Yang Jiewei met, they were both very young, and Alan Tam was still a little famous singer, while Yang Jiewei was a beauty consultant, but she had a unique aesthetic vision for stage image and costumes. Later, he also specialized in learning dance design, choreography, lighting scheduling, and became a professional art planner for a full set of performances.
She was supposed to have a great career, but when the two were together, Yang Jiewei gave up her job and was willing to be Alan Tam's assistant, not only in charge of his styling, but also taking care of his daily life.
At that time, Alan Tam knew that his career was thanks to Yang Jiewei's help, and the two did indeed love each other, so they got married. It's just that they chose hidden marriage. During this period, Jiewei Yang has always appeared next to Alan Tam as a staff member.
This reminds me of Xiao Ran and Han Ling in the TV series "Ten Years in Love". When the two fell in love, there was nothing, but when Han Ling accompanied Xiao Ran to fight his career, Xiao Ran changed his mind.
One fact after another tells us that those who sacrificed Alan Tam: It’s not good to have two wives. I hope you don’t learn from me to perfect the women of men. In the end, it seems that they will not escape the bad luck of being betrayed. The same goes for Gu Jia and .
Men always yearn for everything that has not been "played"
Why do some men cheat on such good wives? For example, Chen Sicheng and , such as Japan's Ototake Hiroshima and Watanabe Ken, they all have a very beautiful, very capable and very virtuous wife, but they all cheated.
For this answer, there is a particularly heart-wrenching analogy on the Internet: a father asked his son why he had a toy worth 500 yuan, but he still had to snatch dozens of them from others to play with?
As a result, the child said frankly: Because I have never played these.
This is probably the true feeling of most cheating men, because they have never played, so as long as they can get it, they will definitely want to play.
This is the truth, but I am not writing this article to make everyone give up on love and marriage, but to tell women that must not give up self-growth after getting married. Investing in men is far better than investing in your own safety. !
Let herself have the ability to withdraw at any time.
When Alan Tan announced his lover Zhu Yongting and their illegitimate son to the public, Yang Jiewei didn't even make trouble, and became a nun, because at that time she had no capital and courage to make trouble.
It is said that because of the hidden marriage in the early stage, the two have never had a child, not because they were not pregnant, but because they were pregnant, did not want, and passed away. The abortion operation at
at that time was far from as mature as it is today, and the operation is more harmful to the body. The result is that Yang Jiewei has lost her fertility when Alan Tam wants to play with children.
Therefore, Alan Tam’s derailment had a "sounding sound" reason. Because his wife was unable to have children, had to find children outside to complete the task of inheriting the family.
Maybe in Alan Tam’s heart, he has not been touched by himself: You see, you can't have children anymore, and I haven't divorced you!
Mr. Yang Jiang once said: When he loves you, you can be a little girl who knows nothing, but when he doesn't love you you will become that omnipotent woman!
Yang Jiewei’s biggest mistake is to believe in men too much, and to give up herself prematurely, so that even the capital and courage to leave later are in her heart.
It is a compulsory course for every girl to keep the ability to leave at any time!
is written at the end:
I am actually thinking, if time goes back, who will Alan Tam choose? I think it should be Zhu Yongting. After all, she gave him a son, who is 19 years younger than him. A true wife, which man is willing to give up easily?
So no matter what, the most distressing thing is Yang Jiewei from start to finish.
hopes that through Yang Jiewei's experience, everyone can realize that no matter how much you love each other, you must also set aside time to love yourself; no matter how much the other person needs you, don't sacrifice yourself to achieve the other person!
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Author: Yong -Sunshine, in simple words, said emotional truth. I would like to use words to accompany you to understand the feelings of the world.
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