Because of your leaving, I became a better self

Wen|Zixuan • Anchor|Zixuan

Background music: Christine Fan "Dearest You"

Before we find the right person to marry, everyone may experience a moment of loss of love and love.

After the one who once loved so much left you, you were alone in the quilt late at night to keep yourself from crying. You never dare to go to the western restaurant you often go to. Afraid that your friend will talk about his name again, you suddenly envy your girlfriend who has a boyfriend who will never leave her. You hope he can come back to you again, so you call him, hoping to save this reluctant relationship , You hope to have his company by your side.

I know you are sad, but I want to tell you the story of my girlfriend.

Two years ago, she and her boyfriend who was regarded as the best in the family's eyes were in love and quickly got married after a month. I was surprised at the time and asked her if she had considered it. She told me hopefully, of course, I thought it over. I think he is kind to me!

Later, watching her often take pictures of them, I can feel the temperature of their love from the photos.

but not half a year later, she ran to me crying and told me that he had cheated. While feeling sorry for her, I was shocked. Without knowing how to comfort her, he listened to her cries quietly.

Later, she called me several times. It was nothing more than her sadness and sadness. I finally couldn’t help telling her that if you continue to cry and continue to torture yourself like this, he will still not come back; Life becomes wonderful and rich, maybe he will change his mind.

my best friend did not call me for a long time, but you can see that her circle of friends is completely different from before. It used to be a photo of her and her husband. And now, she started to practice yoga, learn the guitar, learn skin care, learn makeup, I really admire her life now.

One day she chatted with me on WeChat and said that after she woke up after being scolded, she seemed to understand something. She felt that after separating from him, she had learned a lot of things and became more confident, and she no longer seemed like him in the whole world as before. Later, my girlfriend told me that he came back to look for her again, but felt that he no longer needed him.

I know the story of my girlfriend is not very inspirational, and I also know that his departure will make you very painful, but there are many choices in life besides that person. I want to tell you that the most important business thing for a woman is not to give up on herself when she leaves you.

Study hard while studying, and work hard while working. The world is like this. How good you are, the world will reward you with how much freedom and respect , so that when you encounter the person who is away from you, you can smile and say good to him calmly and confidently.

♥ Looking forward to meeting you in the vast crowd♥