Childhood in a foreign country: crushing the hearts of adults, Zhou Yijun opens the wound and takes you to "repair"

Early childhood education has always been a big problem. People in the past cared about how well their children eat?

Now people care about the educational remarks I say in front of my children.

Friends who have given birth to friends in the circle of friends mostly share the joy of their children’s growth, share pictures, enjoy afternoon tea, and share the sweet moments of their children and their fathers.

Modern people pay more and more attention to children’s mental health. Although it is not necessary to find a counselor, parents and mothers don’t know how many articles have been collected in their mobile phones.

and Weibo , some social platforms that are not easily seen by acquaintances. The anxiety of parents in the new era of China can be seen clearly.

Some fathers complained that he wanted to be a good father, but he could do social get off work at work, but he could not do socializing with parents in the WeChat group. The child’s teacher had contacted the child’s mother, and he knew that the father should be more involved in the child’s growth. .

But the competition between men is really cruel.

child, dad is really hard to cry.

If the issues that fathers care about are more practical, then the issues that mothers care about are more profound, and you can feel the entanglement through the screen: how to properly communicate with their children, how parents develop educational methods, and address these issues, 70 Post-beauty mother Zhou Yijun (the round table pie, sonorous threesome, Phoenix.com, Xinhua News Agency war reporter.)

started from her, with this high-scoring, high-reputation documentary.

[Childhood in Other Country]

Zhou Yijun visited five countries, visited excellent schools and children's education practitioners with brilliant achievements to start discussions.

She has a multi-faceted role to experience the successful educational concepts of different countries. In this process, she is a targeted and knowledgeable scholar in conversation.

At the same time, she is also an ordinary mother who listens carefully for her children to be properly nurtured.

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"Troublesome" principal, united child

This documentary is called "A Childhood in Another Country". Watching the complete film, my understanding is that regardless of whether the person watching is a parent, whether or not they have the idea of ​​becoming a parent, this documentary is worth it one look.

What should an excellent, warm childhood look like? Five countries, many children's education doers, showed us that there was no textbook in childhood, positive energy childhood can also be free and colorful.

The first stop of "Childhood in A Foreign Country" was Japan, and the shooting location was a kindergarten of "net celebrities".

used to make the children naked in winter sports in the news:

Although it is only a kindergarten, but the principal of this kindergarten regards educating young children as a big matter, and the attitude of caring seems to be enhanced in the future. The pillar of national strength.

The first major feature of this kindergarten is that it starts from the environmental design, and the kindergarten facilities are all mysterious. For example,

has a circular design without partitions, without various shelters, and no regular green belt design. The lawn is for children to step on.

This is completely different from the fountains in Chinese campuses, where you plant trees and flowers, and deduct points for stepping on the lawn. This Japanese kindergarten obviously regards the children who come to class daily as the most important customers, rather than the adults who visit the school occasionally.

Japan, a country known for its order, has even removed formalism from kindergartens. This concept is amazing.

In order to implement and their freedom concept, this kindergarten also started with multiple facilities and activities.

There are many people who are actually watching the children running around on the lawn and screaming, which makes them very uncomfortable. Will all kinds of anxious children fall and cry. But in the documentary, we found that children of courseSome fell, but the child got up soon after the fall, or another cute little Douding pulled him up.

The performance of the children in this kindergarten is particularly in line with the principal's "philosophical governance" remarks. Are

small beans really that smart?

Why do we remember that children who are as tall as in the documentary do not listen, cry, and roll on the ground? President

, ​​what I did next made me admire even more. This Japanese man used his grandson’s art of war and business warfare against young children, right?

etiquette from an early age, everyone knows it, so so will you.

can't let the selfishness and evil of human nature be just because of young age.

The design method of the faucet, let alone children, even adults have learned the core of ethics from this paragraph, to facilitate others, and ultimately to facilitate themselves.

If everyone wants convenience, start with yourself first, then the collective will make conventions and have so-called rules and etiquette. In addition to these rules and principles, the principal of kindergarten in the documentary often exercises the children's "self-protection ability." He arranged for the children who were dining at school to sit with the children who ate bento, allowing the children to share food naturally, and he would also snatch the children's food, and these little peas directly waved or glared.

Zhou Yijun joked that the children in this kindergarten are doing very well, but the principal is a bad boy in the kindergarten, who has been doing all kinds of bad things. Behind the various "trick-or-treating" behaviors of principal

is to break the rules. In addition to abiding by the rules, the children must learn to unite and uphold the rules together. The children naturally become good friends and have a collective concept.

Although the children are in the kindergarten, they feel the society in advance.

What should I do if my parents are not around and my own interests are violated?

Independent education starts from kindergarten.

"Childhood in a Foreign Country" is just the episode of Japan, which makes the audience suddenly open up. Our Chinese children are not squeamish, nor are they a beat generation. They are born in good fortune and do not know good fortune. Most of the children’s "low intelligence" is used by educators. One's own subjective consciousness to indulge.

We are still looking forward to treating pets, but when we treat young children, we take them for granted as "waste".

Until today, there are parents in China facing the question of their children "Where am I from?", and still find it difficult to answer. There are many explanation videos for children on the Internet, and they still answer the child: "You are in the trash can" Picked it up.

In fact, society is developing, and children may even vaguely understand the flow of people. The behavior of some parents is really shameful, and the low intelligence of adults is not worthy of the new generation of children.

is that we think children are stupid, teach stupid.

adults who have formulated the rules, the first thing they learn is to remind themselves to be within the rules:

let go in time.

The kindergarten principal uses the handwriting from the province

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to learn happily, how to do it

The second episode of "A Childhood in Another Country" is Finland. If Japan’s kindergarten is better than a principal who studies philosophy, then Finland is an educational “ideal country” that protects children.

First of all, the Finnish education system is strongly supported by the government . Finland has a high threshold for teachers and requires high academic qualifications and high quality. Teachers have a substantial salary increase every five years. With such a special education system as

, ​​Finns have really achieved it in their hearts: Rich and poor are not important, smart is important, but happiness is the most important.

The Japanese "rule by doing nothing" towards children has somewhat shaken the concept of filial sons under the stick in the Chinese minds, and the concept of strict teachers from disciples.

The entire country of Finland has a high level of protection and respect for children, which refreshed the awareness of the Chinese documentary team.

Finnish children do not have heavy homework. They learn to paint and learn music. As long as the teachers do themselves, there is no standard assessment, which means that the Finnish school does not have the exam .

and Finland strictly stipulates that it is not allowed to harm children in any form. Violators of

will be taken away by the Finnish Child Protection Agency for investigation.

Here, as an adult, Zhou Yijun sincerely admires the Finns’ childhood.

Actually, Zhou Yijun is so good in her own right, she is a dazzling woman in a search of her resume online.

But she also grew up suffering from " hit education " in her childhood.

The so-called conservative and shy Asians swallow the grievances of childhood.

Think about it, Zhou Yijun didn't know that she would achieve something in the future when she was a child. When she was a little girl, she liked to use words to hit her parents, and to some extent killed an excellent scholar many times.

Parents are not help, but stumbling blocks. How ironic is

?

Zhou Yijun is becoming more and more determined that he is right to shoot this documentary. In a daze, in shock, adults can repair themselves. Maybe they can’t find a standard answer, but at least after watching "Education of Love", he will be wary. Don’t repeat the injuries against children yourself.

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We have trained many obedient "honest people"?

While watching this documentary, I was reflecting on it. I reflect on my stereotyped thinking and the weird education I witnessed and experienced in my childhood.

I remember that there were classmates in my class when I was a child, because I didn't dare to raise my hand and say I wanted to go to the bathroom, so I got it directly on my body. The teacher's solution is to call the parents, and the parents will send their children the pants to change. When the next time, I reminded this classmate to remember to go to the bathroom during breaks.

Afterwards, the teacher noticed that this classmate's face was wrong, and walked to his side and took him out to the door to let him go to the bathroom.

The classmate I gave an example has no problems with his own intelligence and communicates with others normally, but he is afraid that the teacher will be shy and slow to the extreme. The dialect describes this child as " is too honest, !"

Some parents train their children and overcorrect. They boast of justice messengers, wielding a sharp knife of "Master is right, good for you! ", killing laziness, killing Internet addiction, killing premature love, and killing all kinds of interests they think they should not have.

I am not saying this to accuse the parents, but the parents also come from the children. Some problems are "killed", which is bound to make everyone miserable, and this result is not necessarily good.

So, a batch of tiger fathers and mothers were born, and they were completely suppressed.

is strangling the child’s nature while looking forward to the comprehensive development of children’s moral, intellectual, physical, and beauty. They have successfully managed the child into a rabbit-like timid, and the wolf culture is popular in the company when they grow up.

waited for the children to walk out of the campus, only to find that the seemingly omnipotent tiger parents and mothers were old. They only had the temper of a tiger but not the strength of a tiger.

He has to learn from scratch. irony.

For most Chinese children, parents are not their friends when they grow up, and conflicts between parents and children intensify when they reach adolescence.