Karl is a typical loser.
marriage failed, no career success, hopeless promotion,
stayed at home, watching movies to pass the day,
divorced his wife three years ago, and since then more depressed.
He is used to saying no,
neighbors invited him to have breakfast, he said no,
friends invited him to the dance party, he said no,
customers asked him to do business, he said no
participated in a speech program, Karl's life began change. The
tramp wanted to take a ride, he said yes, the boss of
asked him to work overtime, he said yes, friends of
invited him to the party, he said yes,
Karl, finally got the appreciation of his boss, got a promotion and a salary increase, successfully counterattack
Not only that, but Carl also met a big beauty...
and above are the plots of the movie "Mr. Good" starring Jim Carrey. This film is not completely fictitious. It is based on the autobiography of the famous British comedian Danny Wallace. Danny Wallace is the prototype of Karl. It can be said that this film has a solid foundation in life.
Jin Carrey’s wonderful performance vividly showed the audience the process of Carl’s transformation, making people laugh and think about the secret of Carl’s successful counterattack?
1. Dare to change
Karl was originally a person who didn't like to socialize. It has become his habit to refuse others and like to escape when things happen. Habits are always difficult to change, but since Carl still has a little desire to change deep in his heart, when encountering a certain opportunity, the courage to change arises. This opportunity is such an event: Carl did not attend the engagement party of his friend Pete. Pete was very angry. Karl realized that he might lose his friend. At night, he had a dream. This dream made Carlton realize that he was determined to change. And put into action, so his life has undergone tremendous changes.
2. Learn to accept the "yes" of
in the film does not mean that the protagonist is an echo bug. The deep meaning of "yes" is acceptance. Accept reality, accept your own imperfections, accept the goodwill of others, and accept others' imperfections. Acceptance is the first step to integrate into the world. At the beginning of the movie, Carl always rejected others, rejected invitations from friends, and rejected colleague gatherings. Rejection meant rejection, and rejection would isolate himself from the world. Karl, who was in isolation, did not improve his mentality, but got worse. After attending the lecture, Karl felt something and began to change himself. He began to insist on saying "yes" and "yes" indicated acceptance. As a result, Karl's life took a turn for the better.
3. Know how to refuse.
is used to saying "yes", which brings gratifying changes to Karl's life, but saying "yes" without principle also brings him trouble. The newly acquainted girlfriend mistakenly thought that Carl was with her because he couldn’t refuse, so he broke up with Carl. Later, the old speaker told people that he tried to get people to say yes because many people were depressed and depressed. Saying that there is a curse is for Karl to accept it passively. When he accepts it, he doesn't have to say "yes" without principle.
Dare to change, learn to accept, and know how to reject. This is the trilogy of Karl's successful counterattack. These trilogy are very inspiring for us. When we feel down, like to avoid, and often reject others, it may be that there is a problem with our attitude towards the world. We need to think about Karl's story. Karl will help us change and help us reshape our relationship with the world.
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